Why does love hurt this bad.How do I make the pain go away?

Answer 1

Time... find something to do to help pass the time...
it hurts but it does get better.
good luck

Answer 2

If you are in the relationship and the love hurts that bad - get out. And break all ties because that is the only way to start getting over him and get better. But what ever the situation, just please remember that things will and I mean WILL get better but it does take time. I would also suggest that you get some counseling. Look in the front pages of your phone book for some phone numbers or even a crises hotline if you are hurting that bad. Don't do anything foolish.
I will pray for you and I hope you find a way through this - it is possible - I know from experience!

Answer 3

Sunshine, oh Sunsine, I know the pain, I know the frustration, I know the hurt. I know exactally what your going through, I feel the loss, I feel the love, I feel the passion, I feel the struggles. I know what you want, I know what you need, I know all of this, but I don't know how to make it all go away. It sucks Totally sucks. I know I didn't help you, but atleast your not alone in this. I know how exactally know how you feel. Cuase I feel the same way.

Answer 4

Jack Daniel's Gentleman Jack and a giant Hershey's Milk Chocolate will help with the pain.

Answer 5

We're undergoing the same thing hun. Just think of it as a minor setback and you'll get over it in just a snap. Try to stay away from his memories. Keep your mind off the pain. Focus yourself on everything but him. Eventually, pain will subside and you'll find that the thoughts of him hurt no more. Goodluck :)

Answer 6

Time will mend your broken heart. As you sit here now in your darkest of days it may seem as if your world has ended and you will never love again. But hold fast to hope and those special people in your life that truly know you inside and out and talk with them. Don't let distance be a divider if you have to e-mail then do it but holding your pain inside will destroy you. I find writing to be a soothing activity through which I can pour out my soul. I'm not sure if you are religious or not but if you are cry out to God, He'll understand your pain and He will always love you even if you yell and cry out and tell Him you hate him. He will be there for you.

I don't normally share any of what I write but here is a poem I wrote during an hour of my quiet desperation.

I seek beauty

I seek after beauty,
But she eludes me.
She left me standing at the altar,
A broken life.

She took the color and blackened the sky,
All I see is shades of grey.

Yet, in the night of my soul,
My broken heart seeks light.
To restore the color to the world,
To make the dark things bright.

Yet beauty eludes me,
Her words dance not on my tongue.

Her joyous pulse flows not through my veins.

Yet, still I seek...

Though never again will I take,
Such beauty as that witch she did make,
I'll try my life to understand,
Why she could not hold this hand.

Beauty escapes me,
I know not why,
I stare at the stars and begin to cry.

Shining specks of wonder,
Suspended in space,
Beauty is there...

I sought beauty and could not win,
She was out of reach,
Beyond my grasp.

I sought after beauty,
And I've lost my past.

The old is gone the new remains,
And sorrow flows now through my veins.

For I sought beauty,
She did not seek me,
I lay beside her as she washes to the sea.

I watched beauty leave,
And my heart far from me did grieve.
But grieving is a sign of life,
And prays to be the end of night.

Beauty cannot be captured, held or wrote,
She escapes from me...and I cannot find her.

Answer 7

Love doesn't hurt. So if you're hurting, it wasn't love that caused it. If someone you loved left you, they didn't love you. To get over the pain, keep busy, give yourself time, and be honest about what went wrong. That ought to help you move on!

Answer 8

Get back with the person you love.

Answer 9

Surround yourself with positive things

Answer 10

Think of him as a dog and get another one.