what would you think if a girl tried to make the first move and kissed you? (like a real kiss lol) have u ever wanted to kiss your g/f but were too shy?? what do you GUYS think bout this situation? i really wanna make out with my b/f but im his first g/f and so it would be his first kiss. should i make the first move? and how?
2007-11-24 15:27:39 · 41 answers · asked by xxsmile4me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea just make the first move. He probably wants to too, but has never had a gf and is shy about making the first move and probably confused. Just try giving a little tease at first she he knows what you have on mind and then just go for it =p
2007-11-24 15:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by estsyWYT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am more then willing to go in for the kiss now, but yeah back when it was the first time I was really shy and my g/f made the first move and it was great. I now alot of guys that are just to nervous that it is not the right time and they don't want to make you feel like they are pushing you. If you really want to kiss him then do it. It is very hot if the woman is agressive on the first move by the way
2007-11-24 15:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by david h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, good question.
Lets look at it from another point of view. If you look at women in their 40’s who have either been divorced or married, you’ll find that the happiest ones are those that have come to terms with what they like sexually. They also have partners that fit those needs.
You maybe different from most girls when most girls want to make the first move, but you are…. You! So whatever you want to do, do it. There’s no wrong to this. Be honest to yourself.
How do you make your move? Read the situation and be ready to do what fits the moment. Anything from a spontaneous kiss to just saying “hey, I want to kiss you” would work, but each situation is different.
In general, shy guys like forward girls. Over-confident guys MAY want to control the situation. A guy might also be confident but like you so much that he’ll be shy to make the first move. These are all things you’ll have to assess.
Your secret weapon is…. Your gut.
2007-11-24 15:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think he would like to make the first move. I know that you want to, but it is his first kiss. Let him make as memorable as possible. I waited until I got my first kiss for several weeks, because I wanted it perfect. Wait for a kiss, dont make out with him yet. How old are you btw?
2007-11-24 15:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by Will999909 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go along with the flow then! and i think you should make the first move, because guys are a bit insecure when it comes to making the first move because theyre afraid that the girl might not want to kiss and then it would be a bit awkward. so yes, make the first move!
2007-11-24 15:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow.He might be too nervous to respond the way you want him to.See if he loves you in return,before you commit yourself.Mothers don't want their sons to marry a girl too eager to "Make out",she might have loose morals ,which would lead to infidelity.Holding hands is a good first step.Dancing as a couple is a good second step.But until you are engaged,you should have a chaperon,getting intimate too fast destroys the foundation of a good marriage.It's so hard to get my wife in a romantic mood,that I enjoy it when she takes the initiative.We've been married 16 years and I still try to steal kisses.
2007-11-24 15:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by gary s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would make it a LOT less awkward for him if you made the first move. Guys hate kissing in public until they are used to it. Just make sure you are in private and make the move.
2007-11-24 15:30:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have been too shy to kiss a girl before. Yes you should go for it if you are feeling it in the moment. You should kiss him when you want to give him one and you are pretty certain that he wants it too.
2007-11-24 15:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by scott03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your bf would really mind. I think you should make the first move, because you're his first girlfirend and so he may be shy, and may take time to make the move.
2007-11-24 15:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by Akash W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First move? Hell yes, that's hott. Make the first move, make him happy. That's like the sexiest thing a girl can do.
2007-11-24 15:32:03 · answer #10 · answered by Richard S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋