If I had a nickle for every time I heard a woman say that to me....
I am 34, divorced, good looking, nice, and respectful. I have had married/involved women coming to me with that line and worse (hiding their marriage) since I was 18. I do not knowingly do anything, of course (the times it was hidden, I cannot count in this). Yet, I have enormous trouble find women who are actually single (it's not like I am that attractive...no ego here).
I just cannot figure this out. What is it about a guy like me that draws women who are involved? I'd like to hear particularly from women on this. I need some advice, as obviously there is something really wrong with me (otherwise it would not happen all the time). What am I doing wrong? I don't get it (no, please no puns on this, please).
Thanks for your input.
2007-11-24 13:46:15 · 5 answers · asked by Ben YY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ben, my man - I have had the same problem with married men since my divorce. I don't have an answer for you, but if you figure it out, please send the answer my way. Best of luck to you!!! My guess is we're nice people and folks who are miserable in their relationships find us attractive. (Maybe that's just wishful thinking, but it sounds good to me.) If you start a support group, I'll join!
2007-11-24 13:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by theAfternooner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women want "forbidden fruit." They enjoy the attention they can get from a cutie like yourself but are so selfish that they prefer that YOU not be involved with anyone else (even though they are married). That's why they conceal the fact of being involved with someone else.
You are truly picking from the trash. Start looking for women in other settings. A change of scenary might help you find the right one...no strings attached.
It's so odd..
2007-11-24 21:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's because you provide them an escape from their real worlds. There are so many women not getting what they need from their husbands that many welcome the chance to get what they need from someone else. My advise to you is to not allow them to draw you into their foolishness. As long as they are married, they have a covenant vow to uphold to their husbands regardless of what they think they may be missing in the marriage. You would not want anyone sleepong with your wife so please extend the same respect. Find your own babe. Sounds like it shouldn't be too hard.
2007-11-24 22:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by ds 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have discrete scum written on your forehead. Really if you know they are involved walk away tell them flat out your not interested. I think you must be doing something to charm these ladies maybe drop the charm until you find out if they are truly single.
2007-11-24 21:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should go out and look for the women...? :~)
2007-11-24 22:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by shastacat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋