what do i do!!!! we were such good friends we went on vacation together and we did EVERYTHING 2gether and now its just gonna end like this!!! HELP!!
2007-11-24 13:51:44 · 25 answers · asked by Nikkie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nikkie, I know how you feel, as my friend did the same. She's a year younger than me. she is going through a boy-obsessive stage. I dont know what your friend's going thru.... depression.... ummm, jealous of you? More info needed.
2007-11-24 13:55:18 · answer #1 · answered by Blueberry-Flavored Hamster 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's probably feeling jealous of your other friend. She's afraid of losing your friendship. Let her know that you aren't cutting her out of your life. Tell her that you still like her but you also want to let others into your life too. You might trying having a heart-to-heart and she'll open up to you. The fact that you are asking this question tells me that you value her friendship. Hopefully she'll be able to see that. Try not to let her make you choose between her and the other girl. You have the right to have as many friends as you want. Maybe the three of you can go out for coffee and they can get to know each other. Good luck sweetie.
2007-11-24 14:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by cafedweller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you need to know why she ditched you. If it was because of your other friends, then invite her. She probably will not go the first couple of times but invite her anyway. Intoduce her to your other friend to try and make them be friends with each other. For now I would just scheldule outings with them seperatly. Hope something works out. Sadly though, some friends do slowly drift apart.
2007-11-24 13:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by Curtis L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate that when your supposed best friend, husband, whatever, decides to leave you alone, ditch you and you go off to do something else, with someone else, then they show back up and are absolutely LIVID that you are doing something without them.
Your friend is not a friend, she took you for granted. Are you sure you want to continue this? I would reconsider having her as a friend, but give it a couple of days, see what happens.
2007-11-24 13:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by Yankee Micmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is probably something going on in her life thats causing her hormones to rage. I understand that youve been through a lot together, but just tell her that you need a break from her a little while. If she's a real friend, he'll understand.
2007-11-24 13:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've had to deal with the same type of situation. you're able to have more than one friend, and that's actually how it should be. if your best friend can't make time for you, but your other friends can, then of course-hang out with THEM and have a good time. when she realizes you're close with other people, she gets jealous. but a true friend wouldn't. a true friend also wouldn't put up the decision: them or me. you need to discuss this with her, because there is jealousy issues in your friendship.
2007-11-24 13:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by cree siempre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what your friend did was pretty lame, especially getting mad after she was the one to ditch you. dont end a good friendship over something small like that, but confront her about it. let her know that she needs to change her attitude if she wants to be friends with you. just make sure you dont overdo it
2007-11-24 13:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend did something like that. but after a while, once we had some space from each other, everything worked out. you guys just need some time to breathe. she probably gets mad about your other friend because she's jealous. she might want to hang out with this girl, but not you so she's probably annoyed that if she wants to hang out with her than she'll have to hang out with you...she probably still wants to hang out with you but just not right now. she also might think you are replacing her as a friend because you are hanging out with your other friend. just give it time...everything will work out. and if it doesn't, she's not worth your time.
2007-11-24 13:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friend wants to get mad, then let them. some people are just going to be petty. If you really mean that much to your friend, they will move on and see the error of their ways. Relax about it, but don't talk to your friend for awhile.
2007-11-24 13:56:51 · answer #9 · answered by TMull 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you so dont need her at all. people like that are controling. If she feels its ok for her to hang out with others but flips out when you do the same, that my friend is a recipe for one very large headache.
2007-11-24 13:55:54 · answer #10 · answered by Elphaba 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋