OK simple question-please only serious advice-I`ll keep it brief.?
OK-met a guy who lives in another town-he seemed really into me a couple of months ago-but the last time I saw him-although he was different-we are both in relationships that are not working anymore-since then I haven`t heard from him,but he`s not big on communication-I won`t go onto why-too long a story.
All i know is he gives me all the signs he likes me-but then silence.
I don`t know if he`s worried about others getting hurt by this-I know I am-or did I just misread him ?
Thanks.
2007-11-24 23:57:16 · 11 answers · asked by jennywilson1334 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My serious answer is that there's a possibility he could have someone else as well.
2007-11-25 00:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by I don't know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Jenny...
nowadays it is quite common to happen. One lives here, the other lives miles away. But distance itself can be a problem.
If it is quite hard for you to see each other it may spoil the relationship a little.
Is he too shy?
It may be that he is not quite sure yet of the consequences a love between you two may lead to.
If it seems he really is interested in you, why don't you just sit with him and discuss about it?
You may be worried about he's not enough in love with you and may be afraid of a deception.
Just have a try. The less you can get is simply a true friendship which is so important as well.
Love has its tricks. Sometimes it is really strange and paradoxal. Remember that some "enemies" may become great lovers.
I hope you may "fix" that as soon as possible and may find balance again in your heart.
Kisses and hugs
2007-11-25 00:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by usuario 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What signs* did he give you to show he really likes you..? If he's in another town...and seemed to be "into" you a couple of months ago...but you both are /were in relationships that arn't working anymore....and you havn't heard from him since.? Why would he be Worried "others" would get hurt by "this"???? I'm not sure I quite understand your question....I would say perhaps you misread him.....If he was "interested"..he would contact you via email, txt mssg..something....no matter how "shy" or " silent/quiet" he is/was.
Only way to find out would be for YOU to CONTACT him ..either by going to the other town to see him, or through txt mssg, email, phone...or just walk away and chalk it up to " an experience".
Best wishes*~
2007-11-25 00:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you misread him. Be careful all us girls are brought up to look for Prince Charming. Especially since you don't spend very much time with him you can fantasize about how wonderful you can pretend he is. Don't fool yourself. No one is going to rescue you from a bad relationship but You. Either fix the relationship you are in or get out and take some time for yourself to rebuild your own life without thinking about anyone one but yourself.
2007-11-25 00:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by slysis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 03:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, when a guy really wants you, he will try his best to contact you, and try go get you for sure.
If he's giving signs, but not doing anything, that means he might be playing with your heart, or he might be doing it to many girls at once.
Just look at him as friends, don't even kiss him if he's not telling you if he wants to be with you.
Don't be to availiable, and try to look for other guys at the same time. You'll look desperate!!
2007-11-25 00:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is confused, maybe you mis-read him, maybe he found yet another girl, maybe he is working things out with his present girl. There are so many maybe's and you just need to get some bravenessin you and ask him for the truth. stop playing games on here asking strangers. go to the source.
2007-11-25 00:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont fully get what your question is, but anywayz if you lke him ...he likes you you'll be together, soon its difficult to read someone, he'll come through abou his feelings one day. If you're both in relationships itll be difficult, give him signs if youre interested
2007-11-25 00:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say your both in relationships that arent working?Are you so sure he is in one that is not working?Or is that just a front for him to get what he wanted?
2007-11-25 00:03:16 · answer #9 · answered by uptoyou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
speaking from experience ., it was good wen it started but the distance between you and current circumstance means its all more pressure and hard work which blokes neither want nor can cope with
2007-11-25 00:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by trabdad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋