Hi
I'm 17 and I've been wondering for a while now, it seems like I can't find a girlfriend...there's a girl I know, she ugly, short, smells,,she's like a monkey, yet she used to have a boyfriend! I mean...I'm happy for her but...I'm not bad looking...but the thing is I only get out when I go to school..maybe that's why I don't meet new people and also..I'm japanese but I don't live in Japan anymore and here even girls are "bigger" than me...ww could it be that?
2007-11-24 22:21:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok u and me are kinda goin through the same thing!
but i know that u will find someone out there that doesnt care about urs or her appierances and will love u for u!
i hope it all works out! add me if u want to talk!
2007-11-24 22:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by Raven luvs YOU! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you said about that girl you know is really mean and quite shallow of you. If you want a girlfriend, you should lower your standards on how people should look because based on what you said, you sound kind of shallow, no offense. In order to get a girlfriend, you must stop judging people on their appearances and start respecting girls. Also, you should try and start talking to people that sit next to you.
2007-11-25 06:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by Dreamer2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know lots of girls that are extremely attracted to asian men. I am one of them although I am nearly twice your age. You will meet one of these girls eventually, just try to be the best person you can be in the mean time so when you meet this girls she will want you even more.
2007-11-25 06:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not size. you need to go out, and meet people. You sound like your probably shy which some people can take for snobbishness. try really getting to know a few girls at school just as friends and go from there
2007-11-25 06:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by jadethechemgeek 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to find one; relax and trust Jesus to bring you one. I looked and found all kinds of them but the relationships always fell apart.
Then I trusted and waited a little and there she was. You must first be friends with someone, then let the relationship develop from that, if it does.
2007-11-25 06:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by cookpat.geo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im japanese too
but i live in japan
=]
i think u should go out more often
like to parks and shops and malls
and i dont think all girls in america are BIG
some are tiny
good luck!!
2007-11-25 06:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are looking in all the wrong places or looking for the wrong kind of girl..
2007-11-25 06:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Sugarplum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's the problem, you're out there looking for one. You'll bump into her, or vice versa, when you lease expect it. Relax, and keep it cool.
2007-11-25 08:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by xsphattygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its more about how you carry yourself, height doesnt matter. Try going out more other than school that is.
2007-11-25 06:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by Glen G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋