Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

Just wondering if you guys ever stare at a girl with no expression on your face and keep locking eyes with her till she looks away? Why would a guy do this? I tried asking him after it happened once but he ignored me. I talked to him once after that & asked him a question about a test in class. he gave me a one word answer but stared right in to my eyes and had a blank expression. what does this sound like? He also likes to walk by me when he has the opportunity to but I don't look at him anymore cause his staring is creepy.
I'm in college & didn't have anything on my face
Thanks for answering!

2007-11-27 16:04:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I KNOW THIS IS NOT THE SINGLE SECTION, BUT THOUGHT I WOULD GET THE BEST ANSWER HERE.

I was dating this guy for a while & things were always hot & cold with us. He use to say he had issues with letting someone in based on what he went through with his ex-wife. I was dumb & thought that showing him how much I loved him would make him let go of his past. We had a big fall out with no closure & we cut all communication. About 7 months later he sent me a text message out of the blue asking for a gift back, but I quickly realized that was just a way to see if the lines of communication was still open like he did in the past so I did not respond. About two months after that text, I just started thinking about him. It's been almost a year since I have seen or talked to him, but I can't get him out of my head & I don’t know why. Part of me wonders if he was feeling like this a few months back when he sent that text.

2007-11-27 16:03:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this guy for 2 months and we just had sex for the first time but I wanted to take things slow and I dont know how often to have sex with him.

2007-11-27 16:03:08 · 26 answers · asked by soccer4ever 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom is trying to set me up with one of my stepdad's friends son since he's a pre med student and she thinks he's a better match for me then my current boyfriend but I love the guy I'm with now. Her main beef with him is that he had a gambling problem that I recently paid to get him out of and she's still mad about that one since he can't afford to pay me back and she thinks he's sick but he's not. He said he's stopped and I believe him so she should trust me too and not try to set me up with other guys. What is a nice way of telling her to back off?

2007-11-27 16:00:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i know all of you are ging to have different opinions but Whats is it about her? how does she act? what are the things you love talking about with her?What does she do to to make you lover her?

2007-11-27 15:58:04 · 4 answers · asked by Atotalcutie 3 in Singles & Dating

I m 28

All my family went to some marriage on last Saturday for three weeks to some place away more than 1000 kms.

Last Sunday i was masturbating in my room.
suddenly my kaam wali (lady who work in our house who is 25) came in my room and saw me in that position.
Now i am not comfortable talking to her
what shall i do?

2007-11-27 15:57:35 · 11 answers · asked by GAGI 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-27 15:57:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a very controling and jealous boyfriend. He is unable to trust me and i have no idea why? I never do anything wrong. It has come to a point where i have even dropped my friends to be with him. I always did what he wanted me to, and he still did not trust me! Now that i have started talking to my old friends, he makes me feel guilty for it. Every decision i make for myself, i have to put myself on the defence and justify myself. I'm only 18. He always turns situations into my fault. Why do i feel guilty for everything i think and do? Quite frankly i am sick of it and i need to break this off. I love him. I've tried everything i can. I don't know how to break up with him, and how i will deal with it after. It's so hard to break up with your first love, that you stil llove, AND DOES NOT REALIZE what he is even doing wrong!(which i feel guilty for) Plz help me. What do i say?

2007-11-27 15:56:07 · 19 answers · asked by OverTheRainbow 4 in Singles & Dating

I had a great mother, unfortunately, she married a really bad person. He murdered her. I was 14, I am now 48; I miss my mom, still, to this day. My mom was very successful, she was a Marilin Monroe look-alike, but with a multi-million-dollar sense about business. My step-dad killed her because she made a lot of money and he didn't and when he cheated on her, that was it, it was over. Since he couldn't make it on his own financially, he killed her. He got the entire estate.

He is still alive. He got away with murder. What happens to people like this? Do they live or do they die?

2007-11-27 15:55:24 · 6 answers · asked by wordtowise 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you more likely to be attracted someone with a foreign sounding name or a name that is common in your country.

Example (for Americans):
Would you rather meet a woman named Karen Smith or Mika Fjolnarsson?

Anyone from any country can answer. Post your country, m/f and age (I just want to see if people from different places or of different ages like similar things or not).

2007-11-27 15:54:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 15:48:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Friends and aquaintances have commented that I seem "girlish" and kid-like. I'm not irresponsible: I work hard at my full-time career and keep my comittments. I'm serious and generally trustworthy. What does it mean to be a "kid in an adult's body?" Is that a good thing...or a bad thing?

2007-11-27 15:47:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have been dating thgis guy for about 6 weeks and just recently told me he was an alcoholic.... i kinda figured that out because of his mood changes,,, says he wants to work on the problem ,,, but i havent seemed to notice any changes ,,,, what now.... last saturday he had seven beers in the am already

2007-11-27 15:44:40 · 18 answers · asked by silly one 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in 10 days....she's the best, is it too young? no opinions will sway me from my decision but give me some feedback . yeah

2007-11-27 15:43:43 · 41 answers · asked by Olly S 2 in Weddings

My hubby and I were married last September in Vegas, and are now trying to plan our actual wedding ceremony in Arizona (most likely Phoneix) and I'm trying to figure out what month between Sep 07-May 08 to get married in, and I'm trying to find out the cheapest month to do it in and any ideas for a cheaper ceremony/reception in that Location.
Any inputs would be appreciated!

~Lisa

2007-11-27 15:42:53 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa M 1 in Weddings

im 17 ill be 18 late feb i wanna move to another state beacause i hate staying with my father. he letting me move with my grandma dec 22,2007 but i just cant wait that long i need to leave as soon as possible. please dont question this. just let me know if i can leave here in [north florida] without the ploice coming for me or my dad having the power to get me back. I just want to move and not have no legal drama or anything im 17 can i ?

2007-11-27 15:40:00 · 7 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, he's your friend, kind of shy and quiet around you, hardly can say a word or string sentences together. Like, when you say hi he gets a shock. He spends lots of time in class gazing at you, changing his bus route for yours. Spending 4 days texting. He's known to be a serious chap, never smiles, but he does smile alot when talking to you. Even when you went to his orchestral concert, he actually noticed you and was staring at you on stage, etc.

But he might never have known you liked him, you never give him any signs. So you casually asked him to hang out one day, he says he could be busy, so you just told him how you felt and if it wasn't mutual, he should say so. So far, no reply.

What would you do? Would you wait for him? Move on? Or try again at a right time? Would you accept his behaviour as just lame or shy or worse, un-interested?

I'd love to know what you think, thank you =)

2007-11-27 15:39:49 · 5 answers · asked by Nat 2 in Singles & Dating

First of all, Our sex life is great. However I have a fantasy of having a threesome.My husband does not want to though, he says I am more than enough for him ect..And, well honestly I hear marriages get ruined sometimes, due to threesomes and that is the last thing I want, I love him. So my question is.What can we do in bed, that is similar to a threesome.Besides, a porno (We already tried).It just really turns me on, to think of him having sex with another woman.It's only when I am aroused though.Thanks in advance..

2007-11-27 15:38:16 · 13 answers · asked by BB 4 in Marriage & Divorce

She and I were togeth from 99-fall of 06. I proposed to her in Amsterdam, fat ring, live on the radio in 25 countries. Summer of 06 I really neglected her. She had an affair and got preg. now she HATES the guy and is realizing everything her familiy and I told her was true. I have career, this guy is loser sleeps till noon, cooks for living , and is druggie.should I forgive her and take on her & her baby?I really love her,but know I deserve better.right? She and I have been all over the world together. this guy was just a predator and only wanted to get his genes into the next genepool. he promised her to get a better job, stop smoking ect... He did breifly, but went right back to his old ways.hes 39 shes 25.Im 33 & confused right now.Espec@ x-mas. I just dont want to think she wants back togeth becaus "im a better provider" I know if I take this on..I will be saint.just paid ring off(which I have) help.any sug?shedue12-10.we have been intim whil preg! for furth insite see my otherques

2007-11-27 15:38:15 · 14 answers · asked by James H 1 in Singles & Dating

the father of my 5 year old is an absolute nutcase!! we have joint custody of her and today is his day to have her. I dropped her off at school at 8am and then went home to sleep since i work nites (every Tues,Wed-same schedule for 3 years). My daughter ended up getting sick around 10am. she was throwing up so the school called both me and her dad b/c they couldn't remember which one of us had her today. 10 mins after the school called me, my ex called telling me I had to go pick up my daughter b/c his obligation to her didn't start until 3:30p when she normally gets out of school!! My ringer on my cell is always shut off when I sleep b/c I know it's not my day to have any of my kids. when I wouldn't call him back-he called the school that my other 2 daughters attend and my boyfriend's sister works at and asked for my boyfriend's sister!! he told the receptionist that I lived with my boyfriend and he needed to talk to the sister b/c my daughter was sick and he needed to get ahold of me

2007-11-27 15:37:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how come you're so hot?

2007-11-27 15:36:27 · 2 answers · asked by clark_jax 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Before you were married, did you ever get in to a huge fight with your now husband/wife and not talk for days or months? Like you thought it was so bad that you would never get it back... but then it came together in the end.

2007-11-27 15:35:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Whats some crazy way to ask her to the Banquet? Something different. Something no one else has done before.

2007-11-27 15:34:56 · 21 answers · asked by Cameron 3 in Singles & Dating

OMG I think I am in love with my own teacher. Its not some sort of silly girly crush its real. When I see him I cant stop smiling and I start sweating and breathing really quickly and the whole world seems to stop. My heart beats so fast and my friend always says hes stares at me and is always smiling. What do I do? I love him so much! I think about him all the time and sometimes I get tears in my eyes when he smiles at me and I feel like im going to faint. Is there something wrong with me?

2007-11-27 15:33:29 · 8 answers · asked by sunshine5683 1 in Singles & Dating

A wife who keeps an organized and clean house?

My kitchen is always a wreck.

2007-11-27 15:32:38 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a younger brother and younger sister. I used to be very close to my sister (she is 23) but she is being quite selfish and I haven't been putting up with it as much.

I live with my fiance. My brother still lives at home. My sister lives with her boyfriend. My brother wants nothing to do with my sister because of how she is acting - she is treating my mother quite bad, just being rude and not caring who she hurts.

For years, I have not worried. My fiance has included her in so many things but it always backfires, so he is sick of it. I am sick of it, too.

Now, my mother thinks that my fiance is preventing my sister and I from having a relationship and he is upset. My mother will always be my mother but she seems to have taken my sister's side, even though she is treating her badly.

I feel like I'm in the middle of this whole situation and I just don't know what to do about it.

I'm sick of talking about it and couldn't care less sometimes. I just want peace.

2007-11-27 15:31:40 · 4 answers · asked by Penny W 2 in Family

My fiance and I are getting married in Sept 27,2008,I love him with all of my heart. I just found out that he cannot have kids and I am very fertile and I don't have any kids yet. I love kids and I want kids one day,please give me some positive advice, I really need it.. Thanks :(

2007-11-27 15:31:11 · 9 answers · asked by honey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

dated a guy for about 8 years. For the last three or four years I was miserable and just dreaming of a day I'd be out of a mentally and emotionally abusive relationship. We both were at fault for our problems. We started dating in high school when we were young and ignorant. I tried to end things with the guy for a year or so but he'd camp out at my house or do somehting crazier. I did love him because I spent many years with him. This year I finally broke things off with him. Since then I have become engaged to a guy we both met in college. I know this guy I'm about to marry is my soul mate. Recently I've been feeling bad for hurting my ex. I don't want to be with my ex because I know he's not right for me and my fiance is. Sometimes I just cry and hurt for hurting him but I am so much happier now and know I did what was right. Is it ok to be said for hurting him?

2007-11-27 15:30:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 20 year old lady and deeply in love with this man whom I strongly believe is my soul mate.

2007-11-27 15:27:29 · 11 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this is the MOST popular question, but all the previous answers didn't do. Im looking for a gift for her B-day (turning 18). We have been dating for 1 month, but have been very close freinds for a year. I dont want to buy hear jewlry because she is not big on it. I am on a VERY tight budget, and am trying to get something for about 50 dollars.I was going to give her a small gift, and then do something special with her, but any of my ideas seem impractical. She is not asian, but likes asian things like anime. Any suggestions would be welcome!

2007-11-27 15:27:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating