I have been dating this guy for 2 months and we just had sex for the first time but I wanted to take things slow and I dont know how often to have sex with him.
2007-11-27 16:03:08 · 26 answers · asked by soccer4ever 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Waiting 2 months if you are an adult is actually a long time. Good for you! And he is a nice guy for waiting. Don't worry. You can have sex as little or as often as YOU like... it is YOUR relationship. Screw everyone else. Just make sure you are comfortable and using protection and everything, and have fun!
2007-11-27 16:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by *the dancing machine* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to go slow with this guy but have already had sex with him in two months? Waiting at least a year is going slow. Two months is taking it fast. Not trying to say anything bad about you but if you have already had sex in two months your not really going slow. So have sex as often as you want.
2007-11-28 10:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel pressure to have sex every so often. The point is for you both to enjoy it. If he initiates and you feel uncomfortable than explain. It may be hard to go backwards now that you've gone all the way but perhaps some other forms of mutual pleasure would be agreeable to him if you don't feel comfortable with intercourse all the time.
2007-11-27 16:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by limabean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have already had sex with him, it's a little too late to "take it slow." He is probably going to expect to have sex on a regular basis now.
2007-11-27 16:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too late to "take it slow" if you already started having sex after only two months. You'll have to cut him off and start over.
2007-11-27 16:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As often as you want to get pregnant. You are never 100% safe.
I got pregnant after being on birth control for months, using a condom, AND pulling out!!
Guess you call it fate.
2007-11-27 16:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lolliebums 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to take things slow, you wouldn't have had sex with him at all.
2007-11-27 16:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by Terra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should take it at your pace. I think 2 months is too soon, and at that who is to say he will be around for the 3rd month. Take it at your pace, and do things as you feel comfortable.
2007-11-27 16:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all but then again 2 months just about a lifetime of a house fly just go ahead root your brains out and plan ur wedding for next weekend
2007-11-27 23:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by zuppe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think once the line is stepped over, you should do it as often as you want REALLY to. He'll just think you dont have a very good libido or you're stringing him along, otherwise.
2007-11-27 16:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋