First of all, Our sex life is great. However I have a fantasy of having a threesome.My husband does not want to though, he says I am more than enough for him ect..And, well honestly I hear marriages get ruined sometimes, due to threesomes and that is the last thing I want, I love him. So my question is.What can we do in bed, that is similar to a threesome.Besides, a porno (We already tried).It just really turns me on, to think of him having sex with another woman.It's only when I am aroused though.Thanks in advance..
2007-11-27 15:38:16 · 13 answers · asked by BB 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Now this I can help with! My husband and I have had several with other men. It was his fantasy to see ME with another man. It took some getting used to the idea before I actually did it. The first time was horrible. Then I found that if I trusted the other person, it was much better.
We used toys for a while to mimic the action that he wanted to take-so to speak. I am worried that you only want this when already aroused. Maybe you need to really think about it before going thru with it. I have a fantasy about being with another woman but only when I am aroused already. I have not gone thru with it because I am nervous about acting on a feeling that I am not sure about .
Have fun, be patient, and bring on the toys!
2007-11-27 15:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Klitten in the Shower 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say start the whole love adventure outside the bedroom. Go to your local sex shop together and discover new things that maybe you both agree that you would like to try together. Have fun in the store - show him you are open to trying new things - tease him. This experience will get him hot and excited with anticipation of what will later come in the bedroom. Then, when in the bedroom, play out an idea from your store experience - even if you purchased nothing. However, if you did purchase something, have fun with it. Confidence is the key to sexiness - so be confident in whatever you do and have fun :)
2016-05-26 04:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, tough one. The only thing I can really think of is you should try dressing up as someone. Like, get an outfit of a nurse, maid, teacher, any type of role that might interest either of you. This way, it might make him feel like he is having sex with another woman and you'll still be getting the pleasure out of it. Good luck!
2007-11-27 15:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The closest thing I can think of without getting another person involved and having your fantasy sort of fulfilled is buying A RealDoll. HBO had a special years back about these sex dolls and couples used them. They look real and people claim they feel real and everything. You can purchase them on (RealDoll.com). I hope this helps??
2007-11-27 15:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about food? whipped cream, strawberries.. chocolate syrup.. YUM.. Toys can be fun. Get a pole and dance for him... hmm.. let me think up a few others..
Try taking it out of the bedroom. In public? At night, overlooking a nice view of the city, on the hood of your car.. at the beach in the sand. Doing it at the craziest places at during the craziest times of the day is always exciting!! Be creative!! enjoy.
2007-11-27 15:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some toys and maybe some role playing outfits.
2007-11-27 15:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by wildwillyinva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try one of those love dolls, or better yet, buy some adult toys and experiment with them. but i wouldn't push him into any thing. just relax and be very happy that you have a satisfied and loving husband.
2007-11-27 15:43:37 · answer #7 · answered by Eric C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that makes it a job DOn`t have sex..Make it a game... If your in love...should only get netter everytime. It`s better when your not expecting it......find another hobby???
2007-11-27 16:58:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my question to you would be does your husband have long or short hair?
now my reason for that is because my husband and i no longer have threesomes so we compromised he has long hair and ties me to the bed backward (facedown) and rubs his hair down my entire body like a woman would and that works for us
2007-11-27 15:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Debi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
role play, maybe make a video
2007-11-27 15:43:51 · answer #10 · answered by jet75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋