I am a 20 year old lady and deeply in love with this man whom I strongly believe is my soul mate.
2007-11-27 15:27:29 · 11 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he cares the same for you then why not??? over time the age difference will become less noticiable ---- at 82 you will be 60 --- and no im very serious ---- i knew a couple where the lady was a LOT older than the guy and she outlived him --- and she lived --- actually im not sure how old she was but 90 or 100 sounds about ballpark --- big age differences can work if you both want them to and we are living longer as well ---- best wishes
2007-11-27 15:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should not marry him. If you love him that much, then wait until you are 30 to marry him.
The thing you don't realize is that you have a lot of growing up to do - seriously. You don't KNOW yourself yet. By the time you are 30, you will know yourself so well that you will be able to get married to whomever you wish at whatever age WITH confidence.
Did you know that scientifically it has been proven that your brain isn't even fully developed until the age of 25?? Do you see what I mean.
I'm not telling you not to do it - I'm telling you that waiting until you are a bit older is in your best interest.
2007-11-27 23:32:11 · answer #2 · answered by Dina K 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would say if you guys love each other then yes, but then again if you are basing your decision on what we think, then i don't think that your ready to marry this man. also its kinda awkward sometimes right? i mean there is a generation gap so technically he is robbing the cradle. I'm 20 as well and I've been attracted to older women before, not 22 yrs older, but i can understand where you are coming from. but honestly life is i think you need to talk with him obviously, but also his/your family.
2007-11-27 23:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Giuseppe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that age is just a number, and that if you love him go for it. I know how you feel, because I'm in a relationship like that, only that your age difference is much bigger than mine. Just go with what feels right to you.
2007-11-27 23:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it! age is just a number i mean he asked u to marry him and u love him!
2007-11-27 23:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
love is love. Marry him.
2007-11-27 23:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have still a long way to go, date him but don't marry him, have fun
2007-11-27 23:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by ilovelife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that way about him than there is no question!! Marry him!
2007-11-27 23:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by jet75 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell no that is so fng gross imagine when you are 35 and he is almost 60! wrinkly skin and old balls lol
2007-11-27 23:33:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
i wouldn
2007-11-27 23:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by 2 tired 4 sleep 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋