Ok, he's your friend, kind of shy and quiet around you, hardly can say a word or string sentences together. Like, when you say hi he gets a shock. He spends lots of time in class gazing at you, changing his bus route for yours. Spending 4 days texting. He's known to be a serious chap, never smiles, but he does smile alot when talking to you. Even when you went to his orchestral concert, he actually noticed you and was staring at you on stage, etc.
But he might never have known you liked him, you never give him any signs. So you casually asked him to hang out one day, he says he could be busy, so you just told him how you felt and if it wasn't mutual, he should say so. So far, no reply.
What would you do? Would you wait for him? Move on? Or try again at a right time? Would you accept his behaviour as just lame or shy or worse, un-interested?
I'd love to know what you think, thank you =)
2007-11-27 15:39:49 · 5 answers · asked by Nat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
personally i would give it a bit of time,just in case he is shy,but i wouldn't wait too long,after a while i would say so i said my peace,your silence speaks volumes,if he is really interested he will probably panic that you are giving up and reply to it or if he said nothing i would move on,his loss.
2007-11-27 17:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by carolinewood1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hhm..this is quite an elusive guy. he's like mystique... changeable.. if im in your shoes, i'd be confused as to what he feels..
hhmm.. let' see.. he spends time gazing at ya? surely he does like u.. he does like u.. coz he wouldn't talk to you if he doesn't and u surely can tell if the person is interested or he is just showing respect and changing routes for you? (how can u confirm that? he can also get away w/ it if you question him that he might be stalking you?) but either way.. there is something..
well.. just observe him.. and also keep yourself busy.. you also have to do other things.. lets see from there..
i can't exactly describe his behavior.. he's like chameleon in unpredictable ways..
just hope he'd step up and told u what and how he feels (he might just be confused on what he feel towards ya).. if not then don't waste time.. move on for another love interest.. and you can retain the friendship w/ him.. who knows, say for example, you are still friends then there's this other guy who likes you and is not shy to let you know how he feels.. and if he'd noticed, observe how he reacts (might be he might act as if nothing happened? then it's his loss.... he'd be horrible if he didn't act right away..
goodluck ... hope you get my point.. Ã
2007-11-28 01:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by yen yen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has it been? Give him time. Do check up on him in a few days, though, in case the revelation made his head explode all over everything.
2007-11-27 23:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Bullet Magnet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the guy can "hardly say a word or string sentences together"....imagine when the person he adores tell him they like him back! ....he must have been blown away! only in his dreams did he imagine you responding back.....give him time....a couple of days.... :)
2007-11-28 00:23:19 · answer #4 · answered by who knows? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I did all that and he didn't react, then no banana. Put it down to weirdness on his part, and move on.
2007-11-27 23:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋