I have noticed things coming up missing in my home then I thought it might be my daughter, I got her in a good rehab. last yr she is doing drugs, well over the summer i caught her stealing money, and my meds. well this fall my husband is missing all kinds of power tools, we went to the police and and they are investigating, well my husbands collects collector HO trains well thousands of dollars are gone in train engines and i talked to some of there friend and they fessed up her husband took them and trying to sell them for drugs, my husband is crushed he has been collecting them for 30 yrs and me and him just been married 4 yrs I called the police again, and they wont do nothing please help what do i do my husband wants to beat him to death, but what hurts so bad my daughter was involved, and she is 7 months pregnant and she has only been married 1 yr he was a piece of **** then and he is now we have done so much for them , she called the cops on me today for phone hurrassment.
2007-11-27 19:40:42 · 11 answers · asked by Warm_Hearted 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tough love. They're both banned from your home until they can prove that they're off the drugs and rehabilitated and paid back what they've stolen. For now, make an insurance claim, with the police report number you have.
2007-11-27 19:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
File a complaint with the police. Follow up toensure they are investigating.
Call a locksmith change all the outside locks on your house and garage.
Get an alarm installed on your house.
Talk to your daughter like a mother and definitely not like a friend. The problem today is that parents want to be friends with their adult children when their children are just that children at times.
Neer invite them into your house again and tell them that unless all the stolen things are returned that they will be removed from the will and they will receive nothing.
It maybe hard but your parents would probably have done worse to you.
2007-11-28 06:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by will_955 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very sad story.
Well I'm afraid there's nothing left to do except do what you are doing. Seek a restraining order against her and her husband, and you did the right thing by reporting the items stolen.
Maybe in order to recover the stolen items you could place an ad in the local paper and see if anyone has bought them or any pawn shops have had them come through there.
Best wishes.
2007-11-28 09:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since she called the cops on you for phone harassment. It seems that you don't have to deal with your daughter and her husband that much any more. Your relationship with them is broken.
But you might want to have some kind of a relationship with your grand child, after your daughter`s child is born. And for this reason you might want to patch up your relationship with them later on. Of course, you`ll have to make sure that they can`t steal any more stuff from you or your husband.
2007-11-28 03:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police again. It is a shame that you can't trust people and worse that it be your own child. Anything less than that you are allowing to happen, and they will do it to others. Stop helping them out, they are trying to control you as well.
2007-11-28 03:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by bobcatlady2u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like your things are gone and more then likely will not be replaced but you should think of the grandchild and if they are into drugs try and get child or report to others for the safety of the child.
2007-11-28 04:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally? I'd.. let the husband beat him to death.
and your daughter sounds really ungrateful..
2007-11-28 03:50:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a lesson, contact a police man before he gets worst!
or let him outog your life..pack his things and throw them out your house and tell him, FIND A SHELTER!
2007-11-28 03:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by girl ur looking for! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the police... and tell them unless they give them back you wont talk to them...x
2007-11-28 03:43:30 · answer #9 · answered by Tunisian barbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably too late but you could use some Parent training!
2007-11-28 03:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋