first,,,,3 kids-14 years and she was my friend...my ex's ''old'' lady is very ''j'' of me..and i am tired of it,,no matter what we are in each others lives for good!!( for my kids)..(thats it)''been there,,done that,,won't do it again..ne ways,,i told him just cause she would do her ex's ,,don't mean i would do mine..my kids bein involved with their dad is important to me,,i didn't have mine...their dad lives in diff''province and their phone calls have slowed down alot,,when they went to visit they came home like 1 1/2 months early,,cause she kicked them all out..they came home and then he went back...oh ya..he can only call,,when he is at her house...should and do i really deal with this kinda imaturity from her,,she is involved with her ex weekly (cause of her kids)..i don't think my kids ''happiness'' is worth her stupidness..i know the happiness i want and it ain't him (not at all)..so why all the b's from her,,she was my friend.. =(... i thought she would ''try'' with my kids.
2007-11-27 22:00:00 · 8 answers · asked by barp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ex=14 yrs...friend=12yrs,,,,keep doin it for my kids,,,or screw it,,let them forget him...she don't think she is doin no wrong,,but my oldest isn't stupid or blind and she is hurtin,,, not her..i can only think of ways to hurt her like she is hurtin my kids..but i don't want my girls thinkin like that either ,,they ain't old enuff
2007-11-27 22:17:38 · update #1
ummm,, do i say screw it (for myself) or should i keep goin (for my girls)..personally,,he is a good dad...and i have no clue why ''she'' is trippen....(she has him)
2007-11-27 22:28:22 · update #2
Keep going for your kids' sakes. Don't let her "win" this battle that she is imagining she is in for your ex's affection or attention with the kids or with you. Don't try for revenge or wish her any wrong. Just ignore her the best you can and only deal with the Dad, if possible. It is sad, but you are doing what's best for your kids.
2007-11-28 00:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh jealousy what a lovely emotion that is......grrr! my step mum is jealous of my mum and has been for years and guess what....it affected the relationship with me and my dad.cos he chose to keep her sweet ..i dont see him now and havent for twenty odd years....all i can suggest is do what ya doing and dont rise to it ad be there when they muck up his relationship with his kids.....he'll spend the rest of his life regretting it....my dad does but the damage has been done.
2007-11-27 22:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by womble 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really have a hard time following what you are saying wish I could do better then this.
2007-11-27 22:03:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I read what you wrote 4 times and i still don't understand what you are asking.
2007-11-27 22:21:47 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that sucks
2007-11-27 22:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by MHnurseC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think she would care more wouldemt ya
2007-11-27 22:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry ...really can't follow you on this....
2007-11-27 22:18:05 · answer #7 · answered by gloria b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shoot the *****
2007-11-27 22:03:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋