She cheated on me and ask me to forgive her and give her another chance. I am too annoyed and i can do it. I am doing everything for her and her little dauther and i am of a great help to her parents also but she went out to commit this stupid act. What do you think? Plz help me.
2007-11-27 22:20:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry i meant i can't do it giving her another chance sorry for some little faults.(mistakes
2007-11-27 22:23:10 · update #1
Dump her!!!!!!!!!!!
She'll do it again!!!!!!!!!
You'll always know that someone else has been where only you should have been.....
2007-11-27 22:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually when a woman cheats, it is because there is some kind of emotional void in their lives. Ask her to explain what she is missing that made her feel the need to cheat. Then tell her that you will not tolerate it again. Do not let her use you in any way, especially with the child. You do not want to have to rip the child's heart out, if you have to leave her. If she does it again, tell her that you will not even discuss it, you will leave and she will never see you again.
If you are not in love with her, just leave her.
2007-11-28 06:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you need time to calm down. You can't make logical decisions while you are hurt and cranky. Just tell your girl that you need a little space and time to sort your head out. I know how painful it is for you right now, but it will get better. Take your time and don't rush into committing to anything at the moment. Good luck my friend.
2007-11-28 06:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by ryles72 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way, once a cheater, always, a cheater! You are annoyed and mad, your mind is telling you no, listen to your mind and your heart and do not do it!!!! It is the holidays, if you take her back and she leaves you during the holidays, you will be so crushed, do not do this, man!!!!
She committed the act, you will be favored by her family and her daughter, during the holidays if her daughter is with her family, then talk to her family and see if you can see her daughter with out her there!!!!
2007-11-28 06:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would leave, afterall you're not obligated to take care of someone elses kid or parents. And if she cheated once you can damn well bet that shes gonna do it again. Besides if you leave maybe it will teach her a lesson in faithfulness and monotomy
2007-11-28 06:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by Big Boss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't forgive her. She's not going to change. If she loved you, she would of never done that! You can do better. Find someone that appreciates you and your kindness! Good luck!<3
2007-11-28 06:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥Mommy to 2 Divas♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get away from her!
She cant 'love' you to cheat on you!
And also!
'once a cheater always a cheater'
Good luck dude you can do better!
2007-11-28 06:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by Lynzy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say, if you feel like this now, you will always hold it against her, conciously or subconsciously, and it may be the reason for many future rows and arguments. Stay friends.
2007-11-28 06:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her and you feel that she's willing to change, then forgive her. But if she's insincere and doesn't apologized to you, then better find another one who's worthy of your love.
2007-11-28 06:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not like you a married, she's only your girlfriend, get rid of her. You have nothing binding you to her. Time to move on.
Cheers
2007-11-28 06:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by Daft One 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don';t ask a leopard to change it's spots........unless you can forgive her and forget about it I'd suggest the underwear solution. Time to change them and her. You can do better......just be thankful you didn't marry her
2007-11-28 06:24:32 · answer #11 · answered by idiotzaint 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋