i hav a bf and we use to get along adn be best friends until we decided to tell each other that we liked each other now we are sort of breaking up in friendship we dont talk anymore wat do i tlak to him about
2007-11-27 20:49:55 · 5 answers · asked by Jessica H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you are an intelligent girl ..
you can ask your bf about what he did in the whole day but don't question him much.If he has any problem you can solve it as you are the one whom he can consult .Also tell him about your day
2007-11-27 21:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by cutey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fantasy of being together is over. It's time for you guys to actually have a real relationship.
If you haven't learned everything there is to know about your bf, talk to him when the both of you aren't distracted. Also, there are other things to do other than to talk.
Do things together as you guys did when you were friends, but only as a couple now. Create fun memories together while going out on dates. It might be awkward the first month or so, so take baby steps to spark the fun. Go on easy-going dates like to the movies or by eating out during the week. If this goes well, you can both transition into activity dates like ice-skating, cooking stuff together, or just by spending even more time in the day with them.
You guys were friends to start with, and should continue to be so, even if you guys are having a slow start into this new relationship. After the first month with my current gf (we were friends first, and our relationship got deeper), it was like smooth sailing from then on x]. We always refer back to the 'awkward times' and have since become closer. We now have a good number of inside jokes, due to the times hanging out together.
2007-11-28 05:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jessica H. I now set you free of your bf. Sounds like a pretty
crappy thing to say. But, now my wife and I, talked for hours. We would sit outside and talk. If you have to nudge a conversation out of him. Well it is time to move on. Give your-
self a break. More fun is just a chit chat away. LOVE to you.
2007-11-28 05:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Bob Dylan ♪ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are seeking things to talk about with your bf, here on yahoo, then you need to re-evaluate your relationship. Things to talk about, when it comes to a couple, is any and everything, nothing scripted or planned, just talk. God Bless.
2007-11-28 05:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello from England, Jessica. Well, if you have nothing to talk about, this relationship is going precisely nowhere!
Time to consign him to history, and move on, I'm afraid.
Good luck. I wish you well.
2007-11-28 05:18:37 · answer #5 · answered by colonel25743 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋