Would u consider that as cheating?
2007-11-27 22:02:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get on there and look at guys!! Do you think he will see that as cheating? Play him at his own game!! They dont like it when the rules to their game change.
2007-11-27 22:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Well, depends what type of women. If he's on the internet looking at women with whom he can chat with and possibly come home to every night and talk to, then I'd be pist. If he's on the internet looking at porn, I'd have to take into consideration how often. And, if he does it at a particular time. If he does it right after we have a fight, then he'd be doing to get a rise out of you. If he did it to get turned on for you both to be intimate, then I wouldn't take it as seriously. All guys look at porn. I'm quite positive about this. If it bothers you that much talk to him about it so he at least knows. You should try looking up men, and see how he feels. I think it bugs some men, and doesn't bug others. So, there are a lot of factors to look at. But as far as "cheating" goes. If he could potentially meet this person outside of the computer, or build even a computer relationship with that person then yes, I'd say it's cheating because emotionally and physically he's trying to be intimate with someone else. Talk about a void. You don't do that to someone you love.
2007-11-28 06:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by glitter_lip_gloss 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What you have caught him doing is not cheating and if that is all he is doing count your blessings because a man that doesn't cheat is harder to find then a unicorn. Another clueless woman. Here are the facts of life:
1. There is no Santa
2. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
3. Marriage sucks
4. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
5. Life is not fair
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2007-11-28 08:19:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
DEFINITELY!
If your man has to check out woman anywhere else, there is a problem. Who cares where he's looking, that doesn't matter. What matters is that he is disrespecting you. Why would he have to check out other woman, especially in your house?
You are obviously not comfortable with whatever he's doing, so it should be stopped immediately. Don't ignore that, because it will only get worse!
2007-11-28 06:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. But you're not telling us what kind of pics he's looking at.
Are we talking porn? Or just girls in bikinis? Or is he looking at dating sites? It all depends. But looking is not cheating.
2007-11-28 06:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea H 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As long as that is not something that he spends all of his free time doing, you should not consider it a threat to your marriage.
2007-11-28 06:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would not think its cheating unless they meet each other then thats cheating but talking to someone that is nothing at all.
2007-11-28 06:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes.
2007-11-28 06:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What the hell else are you supposed to use the internet for?
2007-11-28 06:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by ferris2001mt 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hm.. if he was looking at porn then i would think that is ok. but i would not be happy about it. (i would rather him look when i cannot see it) Every man has needs and if they weren't looking at porns.. then they won't be a real man.
2007-11-28 06:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by Marble 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋