Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

I waited till I was married to have sex and knew that the first time could hurt but everytime my husband and I try and do the deed, it hurts so bad!! We use lots of lubrication and my husband is very gentle. Also, it is not a problem of me being nervous, not in the mood or not enough foreplay. What is the problem and how can I make it easier?

2007-11-27 08:15:41 · 15 answers · asked by Curious 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl I like has a boyfriend who lives in Houston, and we live in California.

2007-11-27 08:14:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im not ...im a surfer...i use the wax for my board now she has moved out and hasnt spoken to me for 2 weeks...need advice

2007-11-27 08:14:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell me how your doing. if you need to talk.

2007-11-27 08:13:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife wants a divorce, but I don't. We still live together and I just found out she has a boyfriend (although she denies). Is it still cheating? If it is what can I do?

2007-11-27 08:13:25 · 14 answers · asked by hawk72821 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-27 08:12:30 · 6 answers · asked by ♣Social Butterflygirl 4 in Friends

I'm still in love her, but I have my doubts if she loves me or just wants to be back with her children.

2007-11-27 08:12:17 · 84 answers · asked by Dan D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, when I saw that we were almost done at work I was so excited to see my wife soon I almost peed my pants.

Is there something I can do about this? ...Is it a disease or something?

2007-11-27 08:09:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what if i told you i loved you!?

2007-11-27 08:04:19 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this girl met a week ago in class and have been talking to each other and eating lunch together. She is really attractive, actually the best looking girl that's ever approached me first. But the thing is she is blonde and white, and I don't approve off different races being interested in each other. I What should I do.

2007-11-27 08:03:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so i keep asking about this boy but it turns out he did have a girlfriend but he broke up with her a few days ago but here is the thing he has been flirting with me a lot. But here is the other thing this is my best friends cousin. I talked to her about this but she does not know that i like him i my other friend who does not know i like him but she says he like me. But my asked my other friend if she thought it was weird if i went out with her cousin and she said no and i asked her y not and she said that it would be kind of cool if we went out. Help what do i do if he asks me out. I like him but i just don't know what to say if he asks me out.

2007-11-27 07:58:37 · 22 answers · asked by Bri H 2 in Singles & Dating

You can only assume that there will be no negative impact on your current relationship. Everything else is up in the air.

2007-11-27 07:56:36 · 9 answers · asked by sir_b_man 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok, folks, I have heard and seen too many questions on YAnswers and in life to not post this...

Lets define cheating: Sexual contact with someone other than your spouse or significant other.
Lets define Marriage: A social, religious, and/or legal contract between two people involving vows that stipulate that the couple will remain monogamous until one dies.

So, it IS cheating if you are bisexual and having sexual contact with a person of your same sex. Even if your spouse knows and is ok with it.
Bisexuality doesn't give you an out clause. EVERYONE wants to have extramarital sex at one time or another. Generally, we don't do it becuase we made vows to our spouses. Words like "unless you're bi" or "Forsaking all others of the opposite sex, but same sex is ok" probably didn't appear in the vows...
So, if you are having sex outside the marriage, you are cheating and you have broken your vows.
Stop asking! If you really thought it was really harmless, you wouldn't have to ask!

2007-11-27 07:54:42 · 17 answers · asked by Melanie J 5 in Marriage & Divorce

lots of ppl beleive in love at first sight...
i wanna see wat you say.!!!

2007-11-27 07:54:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been emailing back and forth with this guy from mexico, we are both in are 50's and he told me he cares and feels close to me and then i don't hear from him for over a week and he say's he coudln't get on the internet, as he was busy with his work, why does someone do this, when you e-mail everyday and has even called a few times. I don't get it.
And please no smart answers, only serious one's please.

2007-11-27 07:53:33 · 6 answers · asked by carol p 7 in Singles & Dating

I'm one of them. I am very outgoing. I call people up for a coffee or whatnot? I did loads of activities as a kid (but fewer now). So why am I always being left out? When I don't talk, people say "you never talk...talk more". When I do talk, they are too busy.

2007-11-27 07:51:56 · 7 answers · asked by arielena_123 2 in Friends

& we seemed to have a great connection, etc. When I met him, he told me that he had been broken up with his 1-year girlfriend for 3 months. I found out that was a lie, & they were still "hanging out" just a few weeks before he met me! Things started changing recently between us, & he told me that "he's not completely over his ex." He says he has no desire to be with her, & he loves me, & wants to be with me! So after I got VERY suspicious over some "red flags" I saw, I started listening to his voicemail on his cell phone! I know how shady & wrong that is, but I felt like I had a reason to & I was right! It turns out that they still talk A LOT during the day. They might see each other too. I live about 45 minutes away from him, & they only live 5 minutes apart! I stay with him 5 nights a week (including all weekend long), & we talk on the phone when I don't. I don't want to sound like a crazy, psycho chick & tell him how I invaded his privacy. What do I do? How can I catch him cheating?

2007-11-27 07:48:47 · 25 answers · asked by Lost in Love 1 in Singles & Dating

WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT????

2007-11-27 07:48:13 · 12 answers · asked by kilckas 2 in Singles & Dating

How would you decide which girl? If you both think they're attractive..so really it's about the personality & how they behave.

Gilr # 1:
-Attractive
-Talks a lot
-Sexy
-Dresses well
-Can be rude though-especially to her mum
-short, brown hair, nice lips
-confident
-crazy

Girl # 2:
-Attractive
-Dresses well
-cute
-quiet
-very kind
-tall
-shy
-lots in common
-slim, 1/2 greek like me & also 1/2 jamaican, big eyes

2007-11-27 07:47:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the freakiest thing you have done?

2007-11-27 07:46:38 · 28 answers · asked by tia 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't really want dancing at my wedding, but my fiance is very set on the idea. Our wedding will be held at a garden at around 4 PM- 7:30 PM. I'm worried that my guests will be uncomfortable dancing in public in total daylight. Do you think it would be ok to just use the 1st dance and wedding party dances? what are some other alternatives?

2007-11-27 07:46:34 · 25 answers · asked by ceco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband constantly tries to have some sort of a relationship with his parents, who are extremely emotionally abusive toward him. He gets hurt by them, over and over again, but always ends up running back for more. It hurts our relationship because he's still the little boy trying to please mom and dad, and has blown off the 'leaving and cleaving' to his wife thing. I'm quite sure his parents are not going to change, they are not going to give him the love and affection that he so desperately wants from them, and his obsession with trying to get them to do it is keeping him from moving forward and paying attention to wife and kids.
I feel badly for him, but I'm tired of watching him get kicked over and over again, and of this being such a barrier to our marriage being his main focus. What do I do - let him continue this until it eventually drives me away? Tell him it's got to stop? I've tried to find middle ground but as soon as he's with his parents he becomes obsessed.

2007-11-27 07:42:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dated this guy for over 4 years. Everything was good between us always. We discussed marriage and children but we are still young (21) so we weren't ready for it. One morning during the summer, we got into a disagreement and he just ended the relationship. I don't know what happened.

Since then, we have talked everyday and he ended up telling me that he was really stressed about things and that I didn't help so he ended it. We also started communicating better since then. Its been a while now (5 months) and I really miss him as my boyfriend. We spend alot of time together, the same amount of time we spent when we were together. Its like nothing has changed between us but the thing is we are not together. This kills me because the titles seem important. They are not as important to him. He says he is not ready for a girlfriend, I say you already have that (me). How do I make him see that I am his "girlfriend?" I'd like us to be together but he is reluctant. Its been a while and I

2007-11-27 07:41:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy. I'm 15 and he's 16. He's been dropping hints that he likes me. So should I wait until he asks me out or should I do it?
If I do, how would I ask him?

2007-11-27 07:41:34 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ladys i recenty meet this wounderful guy but i later found out thats he smoke weed would that be bad if it was your man. he said he only do it when he stress out but i ask him to stop and he say that he will try but the thing is that i want him to stop now but he say he can not quit just like that he say he try to stop.i tell him that he most stop because my uncle die from smoking

2007-11-27 07:40:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when i came from work...sweaty, tired, (sometimes dirty!)...my wife prevent me from taking a shower....she said that it is sexy when you smell !
we have a fight ! then we decide to do whatever YOU said guys !
so start to vote please (vote 4 me ;) )

2007-11-27 07:37:17 · 13 answers · asked by Dr. MAM 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a teacher, and my husband has been spying on me for a couple of months now. I hear from students and other teachers that he parks in various locations and stares at the school. After dismissal, I used to stay to clean up my classroom, grade papers, etc. Now he only wants me to stay a half hour at the most, and apparently he watches during that time. I am so angry because he has no reason not to trust me. I never spy on him, go through his wallet, look at his cell phone or anything. He won't allow me to have a password on my phone because he says he has the right to check messages and calls at any time. I do not do anything wrong for him to be acting this way. I have asked him to stop, but he says that means I am doing something I don't want him to see. It's not that, just the fact that I feel like I am being stalked by my own husband. Has anyone had a spouse like this? What should I do?

2007-11-27 07:37:10 · 23 answers · asked by Dragonfly23 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i won't let my g/f go out alone,i monitior her phone calls,text messages,myspace messages..i constantly question her whereabouts..if she goes to the barber shop i call her to listen for the sound of clippers....i constanly accuse her of things and nag and complain..

2007-11-27 07:36:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

when a girl luage at all your jokes smiles at u befor u say something?

2007-11-27 07:35:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who they were what they were like ect!!!

for me i could care less who my gf dated what they did where they went, as long as he does not show up on my door step

2007-11-27 07:34:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating