I'm one of them. I am very outgoing. I call people up for a coffee or whatnot? I did loads of activities as a kid (but fewer now). So why am I always being left out? When I don't talk, people say "you never talk...talk more". When I do talk, they are too busy.
2007-11-27 07:51:56 · 7 answers · asked by arielena_123 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
In our society, some are bullies and some are not. Bullies tend to pick on people who are different, people who the bullies think are better than they are. Bullies tend to pick on people smarter and more successful than they are. And it isn't just children. If they don't have good parents that teach them what is right and wrong, bullies remain bullies, even into adulthood. If you pay attention to American politics, you see bullying in the attacks by Republicans on John Kerry, Hillary Clinton, soldiers returning from the war, mothers of dead soldiers, and other political opponents. It is mostly just a product of a bad upbringing and immoral family relationships.
The thing to remember is that if someone is bullying you, it just means that you are better than they are, and they know it.
But don't tell them that. That will just cause them to become worse.
2007-11-27 08:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by buffytou 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can tell you about the Bully. People normally bully because they are insecure about themselves, and want to pick an "easy target". But that is bullying. You feel as if you are being left out. Well, I DEFINETLY know how you feel. I am "left out" of the group a lot too. What I normally do is ask someone to go out and stuff ahead of time, catch them at a time when you know they arent busy. When I plan ahead, most of the time people are avalible. If all else fails, tell them exactly what is going on with the talking at the wrong yime situation, and maybe ask for some days that they know they are availible.
---vanessa---
2007-11-27 16:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by ♥vanessa♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of reasons why some people bully.
They may see it as a way of being popular, or making themselves look tough and in charge.
Some bullies do it to get attention or things, or to make other people afraid of them. Others might be jealous of the person they are bullying. They may be being bullied themselves.
Some bullies may not even understand how wrong their behaviour is and how it makes the person being bullied feel.
2007-11-27 15:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by Merry Christmas!! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Their insecure with themselves. Ignore them. I'm 50 and when I look back at those people, their fat and poor, and very sad. You can't make all the people happy all the time especially the ones that are un-happy with themselves.
2007-11-27 16:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jayme H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are judgemental and inconsiderate and have the attitude they are better than you. That is a crappy attitude to have. I do not understand this either. Mean people suck.
2007-11-27 15:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by Soda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
childish acts and a sense of a crappy society.
2007-11-27 15:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by Quintin B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry its not your fault...
ppl that are bullies...they SUCK!!!!!
so dont let that put you down.....
2007-11-27 15:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋