I know this is going to sound lame and corny, but my "fantasy" has always been to find someone that I am truly sexually and emotionally compatible with and experience not only the physical aspects of sex, but the emotional as well. To me, to have sex just for the sake of having sex or "getting off" is completely pointless. I have always intertwined sex and emotions as one and would not have sex with someone unless I felt that I had a strong emotional connection with them. My fantasy involved being able to not only having sex to be physically satisfied, but emotionally as well. Since that was something that I had never experienced until recently (on either levels) I would say that I had a long wait for it.....and good reason to have that be my fantasy.
So, I highly doubt my significant other has a problem with my fantasy, especially since we act it out everytime we do have sex. And no, just because emotions are tied into the sex doesn't mean that it is all about "staring into eachother's eyes" and whispering "i love you" in their ear and going slow...we have fun with it and are truly comfortable not only with ourselves, but eachother and us as a whole. We laugh when we try a new move and it isn't quite...umm, successful because we fell off the bed (or couch or counter or whereever) and we have our eye-gazing moments, but we also have our times where we get hot and sweaty and are animalistic as well.
2007-11-27 08:08:17
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answered by Anonymous
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If this was even a possibility then the question doesn't make sense. If I were in an open marriage, negotiated as such from the beginning, there wouldn't be fantasies that need a 'chance' to happen.
And in any case, my answer would be no. I can have all I want of whatever I want at home. I don't need to look elsewhere.
2007-11-27 16:02:05
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answered by Anonymous
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Some of my fantasies, yes. They would actually include him. Others, no. Some of my fantasies are simply meant to be fantasies as I would never want to act on them. That doesn't mean the ideas aren't exciting. Hence the word fantasies being used.
2007-11-27 16:03:57
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answered by Erin 7
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I might act on a few but not all of them some of them should be kepted a fantasy.
2007-11-27 16:10:07
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answered by amanda h 3
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No doubt... I'll do it in a hearth beat.
How many opportunities will there be to be with my girlfriend and her twin sister? Not many if any.
2007-11-27 16:30:42
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answered by Jose P 2
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yes. because my significant other is my fantasy!
2007-11-28 22:14:11
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answered by mamacita 1
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Hell Yeah
Get it
Bust a load
2007-11-27 16:02:50
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answered by 88ev88 3
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i dont think i would because i think that my husband can make my fantasy come true
2007-11-27 15:59:51
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answered by jumiboo 4
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Sure...why not!
2007-11-27 16:03:35
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answered by Anonymous
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