Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

He was been pulling back lately. there is another woman involved(his wife). I'm trying to get him away from her. I'm going to let her mess up other than pressuring him. I need to some advice on being the perfect mistress for now. I mess up before by demanding too much time. I got it but the kids started school. I just need to know what makes the perfect mistress?

2007-11-27 08:56:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Did this creep him out!?
Did this creep him out!?
(this is a high school situation) I like this guy and I sit next to him in drama club. Well... after schol I have an x-teacher I talk with sometimes. It was like four o'clock-ish and I was talking to her. She was doing something for a minute and I was looking out the window and two kids were walking together. I felt like I knew one of them, but I couldn't make out who. Then I saw it was the guy I like! He looked at me and either looked away or kept walking or I looked away. Most people don't sit in an empty (he could have easily not seen my teacher, short woman w/ her back turned) classroom and look at people leaving at 4-o-clock. OMG IS HE CREEPED OUT WHAT SHOULD I DO

2007-11-27 08:54:42 · 4 answers · asked by the5500 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how often do you shave in the winter?? and how long have you been married?

2007-11-27 08:53:37 · 19 answers · asked by yaya 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been married and faithful for 23 yrs to an alcoholic who is very abusive verbally our child is grown and married and I met a man who is also married and in a bad relationship but has two young children. We were perfect for each other but his wife found out and now she is using the children against him to keep us apart. He is torn and I want out. We want more than anything to be together but i will not come between him and his children. I never thought that I would ever meet anyone like him and he feels the same. I told him to talk to an attorney to see what his rights are but he is scared to death of losing his children and I am scared to death of losing him. Should we just let it go and see what happens?

2007-11-27 08:53:31 · 11 answers · asked by cme4ins 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-27 08:53:16 · 3 answers · asked by smilingangel4you 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend has 2 kids from a previous marriage. I have no kids. He is 34, I am 26. He is a great guy, he loves his kids...however, he can not afford them. With their last visit, he asked my PARENTS to purchase diapers because he was so broke. I would like to get married one day and possibly have kids of my own. I am somewhat successful as a teacher, and can clearly take care of myself. But, I would also like to feel financially secure with my partner, and know that I would never have to financially support his children. I love his kids, but I also feel like he pawns them off on me to take care of them when it gets a little too intense for him. Lord knows, I am NO MOTHER, but I try very hard. I feel like I have a lot to offer. Should I stay in it for the long haul? Or should I leave? Or, because I am so close with the kids, am I now stuck? I just need a little advice.

2007-11-27 08:52:55 · 14 answers · asked by MICHELLE B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i m 23yrs old married i have a 15 months ol daughter.my problem is i never got any happiness from this mar'ge. my husband i very loving but when it comes to sex the he is not intersted in oral sex. he has never been romantic with me. (HE IS NOT A GAY). i have talked about this thousand time but he does not understand and tells me as what to do, when i say do so & so he says he does not like it. well my family and freinds are indifferent country. when i call up them they have their own saying. here i really have no body i tried to make friends here but no one seems like intersted. whole day me and my daughter are alone and i do take her to parks but there also no luck of any one who could be freinds becoz of language problem. i m very left alone and sad.

2007-11-27 08:52:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-27 08:51:03 · 54 answers · asked by Andre 7 in Weddings

If you felt love for someone but they were irrespnsible, inconsiderate and was disrespectful to the relationship even though they love you too they just won't grow up at the age of 40 could you leave them for no particular reason even though it was terribly hurtful and if so what would you do to get yourself through it?

2007-11-27 08:50:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

In the spirit of trying to be positive, I would like to ask people to tell me about how they managed to salvage a marriage that appeared doomed. What happened? Why did it happen? What did you change or do to fix it? Was it worth it? Did it work out in the long run?

Looking for "feel good" stories here, people. Thanks! :)

2007-11-27 08:49:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-27 08:48:44 · 27 answers · asked by Claire 1 in Friends

i was with my b/f for 3 years...he was stuck acting like immature boy and i gave him many chances..i broke up with him 2 times for about 2 months and he never changed...so i finally left for real...its almost been 3 months and he says hes changed hes grown up and bla bla bla...i changed my number and the only way he can talk to me is through emails..i gave him 2 big chances to change...and in your opinion can someone really change and be what you wanted..or will they always be what they were.

2007-11-27 08:41:12 · 26 answers · asked by *Lovely 2* 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend nick is having his 21st birthday. he has a reputation for having the craziest parties with hott guys and girls. me and nick are friends and to me, he seems like a big flirt and a smooth talker. i met this girl sara whos blonde and works for abercrombie. she can drive me back and forth from the party to back home. thing is shes really pretty. im afraid guys will be all over her and not me. i dont want sara to get nick's phone neumber and them both becoming friends. and if i bring a guy with me, wont it be even more awkward? so should i bring sara or a guy to this party?

2007-11-27 08:39:40 · 1 answers · asked by emma 1 in Friends

just wondering, thought it would be an interesting question to ask. :]

2007-11-27 08:38:18 · 32 answers · asked by Jenna! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was married once to a very very abusive man. I left him, years later I got into another relationship that seemed like it was made in heaven. The moment I got pregnant this guy changed that when I delievered the baby I called him for a ride from the hospital, he called the police that I was harrasing him. I have never done anything wrong to this man, I did everything I could to help him and his kids. I have been torn apart by the way he treated me, I have so much hatred for this man now. I don't ever wish him anything good.

Please need somebody to pray for me and my kids!!! We have been through so much pain. I really can't trust anybody now...LIFE!

2007-11-27 08:38:05 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We met on line and since our first contact have talked every day (at first each conversation was 2 or 3 hours in length for about 4 or 5 days). When we finally met there was instant chemistry and we have dated at least once a week - sometimes twice, every week since. We have spoken every day (but one) on the phone and on the one day we didn't speak we conversed briefly by email. I really like this guy. We are both still on the dating site (although I tell interested parties i have found someone), so, how do I let this guy know that I would like us to be exclusive or is it safe to assume perhaps we are?? I don't want to scare him off, but I don't want to let him get away either - I really like this one!!! He seems to be s into me too and is not afraid to show his affections towards me even in public, hold hands, kisses etc.. But again its been a long time since I've dated and I tend to over analyze everything....What do I do??

2007-11-27 08:36:56 · 18 answers · asked by It's Trix 1 in Singles & Dating

look across the street and see that i am not up, or they will come in and get me up with my wife in the house, i want to change the locks but i am scared to, because they might get mad at me and make fun of me or wont talk to me, i am married to and my wife hates it. i need hlp please

2007-11-27 08:34:08 · 13 answers · asked by jusmic80 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just posted a question about this guy I've been keeping time with lately. I really like him alot & he likes me alot too. He's been nothing but respectful, considerate, helpful and a pleasure to be around, and I want to surprise him and send him one or two dozen roses to his house, because that's how I feel.

But you know how sometimes your "friends" tell you "don't let him see how much you like him" or "dont give so much at first" or "dont give too much PERIOD" or "let HIM do such & such" and blah blah blah?? I hate following "rules" of the game when you find someone you really like, I like to follow my own heart and express what I truly feel without holding back. It wouldnt hurt to send him roses, would it? I know he'll like them - I know too it'll bring a big smile to his face & it'll make him happy .......

2007-11-27 08:33:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a friend who want to date but after he date a women a few times they always seem to want him to take the ring off.
his wife (we all grew up together) was a good friend for years befor they married. and he keep her ring on his right finger because he lost a friend and it's a keepsake (i also have one of her rings on my right hand)
why should he take it off he's not morning it's just a keep sake
and why is it a problem for women he dates

2007-11-27 08:31:31 · 13 answers · asked by sunrisedrifter 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-27 08:31:27 · 18 answers · asked by s f 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is it normal 4 a girl to not shave..down there..i mean yes a little trim of the bikini like but nuting else..is dat sick?? do guys think thats sick? no one wants a big ush in their face do they?? i dont really want to shave though..?? advice!!

2007-11-27 08:30:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what are the words the preacher reads..and what are the questions he asks the man and woman?

2007-11-27 08:29:13 · 8 answers · asked by bono 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-27 08:29:00 · 24 answers · asked by freebird_breese 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband loves me but says he's not "in love" with me anymore, but still wants to be a part of my life and us deal together on a day to day basis. How do I separate myself from the part of me that's still "in love" with him and be able to be happy

2007-11-27 08:27:09 · 8 answers · asked by gullible 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What steps should one take to keep it intact and always keep in mind that priority is the love that brought us together.
anyone been thru similar situations?

2007-11-27 08:27:03 · 12 answers · asked by s f 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine is about to separate from his wife. The choice is his although they have both admitted they have problems. We were out for drinks last week and there were three of us whose husbands left for another woman. During our discussion on to divorce or not he asked us that question - do you ever get over the bitterness ? It has been a year and a half for me and even though I feel I have recovered from everything that happened and moved on there is that little part of me that is still bitter and is still angry and hurt. Has anyone ever truly let all the bitterness go? If you did, how did you do it?

2007-11-27 08:22:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-27 08:21:57 · 47 answers · asked by justme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a legally married canadian citizen, but i have a british lover. My british guy wants me to come over and marry him. I don't think my current husband would peacefully agree to a divorce so im thinking about just up and dissapearing on him. If i left my husband here, could i easily marry in the UK and lead a normal life? or would getting married in the UK require them to look into my files/history and make them find out im already married.

2007-11-27 08:20:27 · 9 answers · asked by SadFish 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I understand where she is coming from but i told her how depressed i am and how i need help. She seems to think that if she has helped me so much then why do i keep doing it. I have tried to get her to talk to me but she just walks out the room. I have tried to tell her that if she wants to work this out then she needs to commuinicate with me. She refuses...what do i do?

2007-11-27 08:19:08 · 14 answers · asked by Kristina S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ladies of Alabama ( near Birmingham ), I am an out going guy looking for something new. Any of you willing to do something today?

2007-11-27 08:16:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce