Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

... my date removed her shoe and starting rubbing my leg with her bare toes. It was heavenly. So, I did the same (of course, I kept my sock on so my corns wouldn't scratch her leg).

But, I don't think she liked it much... she wanted me to take her home right away.

What should I do?

2007-11-27 10:07:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi.
My parents have been together for 35 years. Over the past 5-7 year, my dad has become vicous (sp?).. He tells her he doesn't love her and that he hates living here, he wants to leave (yet never does), that my mom is a horrible mother, our house is disgusting, and all his unhappiness is her fault.
There's SO much more and things ten times more mean and heartbreaking, but too much to explain.
Now if you knew my mom you would understand she's very peaceful, very soft-spoken, and never sticks up for herself. She just sits there and takes it.
My brother, sister, and I are all on her side. We all want to see HIM leave (because this is my mom's dream home), but we know as long as SHE stays HERE it will only get worse.. We finally talked her into moving out (and I will be going with her as well--I am 17, living at home). Anyway, my dad is probably going to try to make my mom's life a living hell.
He is the money maker.............

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2007-11-27 10:06:48 · 12 answers · asked by ανєяу'ѕ мσмму 5 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy that I like he is 2 years older than me.(He is in 8th grade I think you can do the math.) Well anyway I really think he is cute! I only know his name and I doubt he knows mine! Please Help!! And do not tell me I am to young!

2007-11-27 10:06:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend says he loves me and he calls me baby and stuff but every time another girl calls him he hangs up with me to talk to her! Should i break up with him or im i just being to jealous?

2007-11-27 10:06:14 · 44 answers · asked by ariel_kng 2 in Singles & Dating

curious to know the answer to this,... i know guys have sex just cos they like sex and dont love/like the girl a lot....but would they have sex with someone that they dont find attractive (not including when theyre drunk, for the sake of this question-theyre sober)

2007-11-27 10:05:50 · 9 answers · asked by spdy 5 in Singles & Dating

There was this boy who came up to me the 3rd week of school. I remembered he had asked my name b4 and i told him. i barely knew him, but neways he started talking to me. He said that he liked me and then asked if I noticed that he liked me. I wasnt talking that much , he was doing most of the talking, but neways he told me had 2 go and he would get back to me on Monday(it was friday) I thought about some of the things he said, but i really didn't no him and i didn't like him. I came to scool monday and we had to go to the gym. so i told my friend he told me he liked me. she confronted him and asked him if it was true, he just got up and smiled at me. when we got back to the class he said it was all a bet. The next day he had a hair cut and everything, looked 2times better than he did But he sent signals that he liked me evn though i didnt like him. we have never said a word since then. but he does notice i m there. why is he acting like this and not apologizing?

2007-11-27 10:05:43 · 1 answers · asked by Kalieya J 1 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my b/f of 2 years, and I am 24 years old. Too late to find the right one? I'm just me-I work 9-5, I'm working on my Master's Degree, and I still love Dawson's Creek. Will I ever find someone who will love me for me?

2007-11-27 10:05:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My kind of girlfriend(as in we went on a date and talk to each other almost every day)( hopefully soon to be girlfriend) is sick with a cold and may have a fever, but im not sure, what would you suggest that i do for her?, cuz i really want to be there for her and everything, and if i can be there for her now, it might mean to her that i will be a great boyfriend for her. so is there anything i can really do for her?, we're in high school....(and she's a vegetarian so i dont think chicken noodle soup will be that great of an idea)

2007-11-27 10:05:21 · 2 answers · asked by some guy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 10:04:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend whom enjoys dating and does have long term relationships (5 years) but he says he can't commit to marriage to one woman. He has just turned 50 something now and it has me wondering if men who say they can't commit will eventually get married, because it will be very hard for him to date or have the romantic companionship he enjoys when is 80.

2007-11-27 10:01:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

yesturday an agent came 2 our house, i asked my mom wat she waz doing and she said we r going to sell it. i asked where we would move and she said somewhere out of state.my parents divorces when i was 4 ans my moms side is fortunate and has alot of money. she married my stepdad.They put me in private school) i dont want to go away from my dad and family because i will miss him(who will only pay 4 public school and colage in state not out of state) my mom said she moving bc she is tired of my father and my step siblings. (step-dads children) and their mother. my step sister is 14 and i am 12 and we are so close i cant leave her at all. i just dont know what to do. i dont want to leave my friends at all. my whole life revolves around where i live. my father probally wont give me proper care (late 4 school) and i am just so scared. any advice? should i stay with dad or move with mom?

2007-11-27 10:01:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

OK, so last July my brother (who was 18) decided to take a trip to New York and be with his 15 year old girlfriend...the relationship lasted 3 months and after running out of money, having to pay for a McDonalds door because he broke it and getting into many fights he decided to return back home (as of October). To say the least I was depressed and angry. The problem I have is that he does absolutely nothing. He's 19 and all he does all day is go on myspace and talk to girls he doesn't even know...he has no job, no car, he has no money, no personality (except this anger he has towards everyone) and he has NO intentions at all of changing that...he wants to live off from mom and whilst in NY he was hit by a car so he's getting $50,000 dollars for a broken wrist....he already has plans with that...plasma TV, expensive car etc.
Oh, and all he does is yell at my mom (she is kinda like a push over...she will Not say “change or get out” or something like that. This just makes him take everything for granted. Last thing…almost every night he stays up until one either wandering around in the streets or he’s up in his room (right next to mine) making these gross noises with girls and banging his bed like everywhere…it’s gotten so bad that there is a crack in the dining room ceiling:- (.

How can he change and what can I do that will help me…like make me as happy as I was when he wasn’t here and help me concentrate to maintain my straight A’s in school…which have been slipping from the lack of sleep.

Thanks!

2007-11-27 10:00:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I wont be able to hang out with him for 2 weeks so the only way i can tell him is online...should i do it or wait 2 weeks?
or have my friend tell him i like him

2007-11-27 09:59:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like every time I get a boyfriend I lose him because my dad says (no dating til your married) and i'm like that does'nt make since and he's like it does in his world.

2007-11-27 09:58:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So ive messed up a few times and my parents think im some idiot. I hate seeing them upset at me and hate it when theyd ont trust me but im not even as close to as bad as they think...how do I jus ttalk to them instead of just having them yelling at me?

2007-11-27 09:57:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anybody? 1 in Family

2007-11-27 09:57:44 · 14 answers · asked by rjkm2us 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not sure if i should eat the cow poop tomorrow becuase my boyfriend comes from a small tribe in africa and its tradition to eat cow poop when you meet your new in-laws and i might marry him but if i do I'll have to eat the poop

2007-11-27 09:55:51 · 25 answers · asked by i_<3_my_bi_lover!!!! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am closing in on 50 and have never been married. I date on a fairly regular basis, but as of yet, never been married. Should I be concerned that I still haven't found anyone to spend the rest of my life with?

2007-11-27 09:55:49 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf is really smart & finacially blessed i should say, i came into the relationship accepting his daughter and he accepting my son our children are from different relationships.we all live together & he praises his daughter daily which is good, but he never says anything to my son, my son is usually left mute while he's kissing the ground she walks on. and i know this hurts my son. he allows her to do whatever she wants which i dont agree because my son isnt allowed to do as he pleases, he's just a kid. he allows the "in laws" to shower her w/ gifts and take her to big events meanwhile my son is left at home w/ me, ( i do interact w/ my son on those occasions) however i have one job. he brags all day about her even to me and i cant help but to get annoyed because i dont want to hear all of that all day,when there is another kid that needs attention, it all boils down to the point of, dude! your kid is being treated as if she's the only kid and that's not right, how do i talk to him?

2007-11-27 09:54:55 · 17 answers · asked by KAT 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Need your opinions on this statement. If people buy or give you something, are they doing it for their own reason or out of the goodness of their heart? Do you believe that people have hidden agendas when they buy other people things. For example a man who buys a woman things or takes her out and says he is just being a friend.

2007-11-27 09:53:23 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

2007-11-27 09:50:33 · 1 answers · asked by david j 1 in Singles & Dating

i think that he likes me as so many of u do to but how do i ask him out if he wont ask me?

2007-11-27 09:50:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im getting married in 08'. My fiances full portuguese and his dad doesnt like me because im not portuguese and im hispanic, His mom plays the part when im with him. They want nothing to do with our wedding and he doesnt care!He blows it off like its nothing. Everytime his mom calls and asks him to do things he does it right away but when i ask he tells me later or another time. Plus his mom calls him everyday who knows how many times.We've been engaged for 2 years and our families never met. Should i step up and say something or cancel the wedding?

2007-11-27 09:49:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

now i got her IM, we ve been chatting and winking at each other for a couple of days, we talk not toooo long when we see each other at school....Im not sure she likes me BUT she obviously knows im interested...what should i do next...? should i just continue talkng to her at school or ask her to go to a casual lunch with me tomorow at lunch time....??? or just go for it and ask her to go to a movie on friday or sunday ......by the way we started talking only 2 weeks ago,

2007-11-27 09:48:42 · 10 answers · asked by John V 1 in Singles & Dating

hey guys well there's this girl who i like i did something realy bad not cheating on her bad but something bad now she wont talk to me she just ignores me and walks away when i try to talk to her

2007-11-27 09:47:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i came out of an emotionally abusive relationship a year ago. and i dont feel ready for another relationship but i love having affection and sex too.

i am having a sex buddy relationship with two guys, neither of them think we are boyfriend / girlfriend but one of them was talking about being in love with me the other day and the other says he wants to get serious soon. the guy i like most has been hurt and he said he wants time to heal and then go 'full on' with me.

what it comes down to, is i'm not sure what i'm doing. i enjoy my time with them, it's not just fun it's romantic too but i dont know when i'll be ready or what i want. what should i do?

2007-11-27 09:46:47 · 13 answers · asked by ROWAN S 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay umm when you guys acknoledge a girl and say hey how are you doin to her when you see her(even though shes a stranger)do you find her attractive or our you just saying hi...if you find her attractive what would stop you from asking her for her number...

2007-11-27 09:45:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like him so much and he tells me that he likes me all the time.He has had a hard time his mom left him and a lot of girls have done that to him and i told him that i am not going to do that i care about him and like i said he tells me that all the time too so what do i do he said that he is thinking about it but he said that he wants us to be together so what do i do.

2007-11-27 09:45:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its almost christmas n i want my mom to get me a psp. but shes alrdy said that its too ''expensive''. she says has never bought me a present that "expensive" b4 n doesnt think she will. im hoping if i get good report card marks i can convince her. my bro has one but he plays most of teh time n lets me play in exhange of washing his dishs. idun wanna do this anymore n want my own. what can i do to so dat she'll get me one? or...what can i do to get my bro to get me one answers perferablly ways to get from mom.

pls giv good answers that hav worked b4 for u ppl or answers that hav a good chance of workin..

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2007-11-27 09:45:13 · 1 answers · asked by zOriginaL. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so me and my girlfriend have been dating for 11 months on the 3rd, We have had a lot of ups and downs but mostly ups, and when we do have downs, we fix it right away. We used to be sex active over the summer(we are in the 11th grade), like, 2 or 3 times a week, And when school started we COMPLETLY stopped, right away, and its been 4 months of no sex (which im ok with). We do practice outtercourse on and off, this past weekend, we did, and we joke about it and stuff. We wanted to shower together over summer and never did, so I asked today if we could again and this is her exact response:

her- Oh, I dont know if thats a good idea at all.
her- i dont know if i would be comfortable
me- Its not like we are doing anything (intercourse)
her- I know i just cant im sorry
me- ok..
her - i respect you
me- ok, were done talking about it
her- ok thank you
me -yeah
her - if you cant accept it then i dont know

and i called her, apologized and we are happy again. im not sure whats the problem

2007-11-27 09:44:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating