Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

I like a girl whose name is chuck and i told her my feelings but she didn't believe me ....what the hell???how should i convince her......

2007-11-27 10:39:12 · 33 answers · asked by Mudblood 2 in Singles & Dating

I really need help cause i don't know what to do from here. I live with my grandparents and aunt and she hit me, kicked me, and shoved me over a stupid phone and is just plain rude to me whenever she is around me. It might stress out my grandma to have another heart attack and i don't want that to happen so i called my mom and asked if i could move back with her. She said yes but after soon afterwards said no cause she said I lied about everything and need to grow up. My Aunt accuses me of going into her room and leaves stuff in there and says i do it. I cannot stay here with my grandma cause i will seriously go insane, and my own mom dosen't believe me. I have no other family who will take me in, where should i go. I am 17 so i could move out but i have no idea where to begin, and i know i will struggle alot if i do that but it is the only option for me.

2007-11-27 10:38:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

three questions
completely unrelated

1.) i'm just curious, why are there laws against gay marriage in most states in the U.S.? i mean, the whole reason laws are made is to protect us right? gay marriage isn't hurting anyone, so why are there laws against it?

2.) i heard that the war in Iraq is over, is this true? what have we accomplished from it?

3.) me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 months and we just thought of something... he will be turning 18 in 4 or 5 months and i'm only 15. will we still be able to date even though he will be considered an adult?



don't be mean please!
thanks for answering!

2007-11-27 10:38:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She doesn't believe in Love

2007-11-27 10:37:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im 17 & my 8 yr old sister is being influenced in bad ways from my cousins. they talk about drugs infront of her they talk about girls asses infront of her and these cousins of mine are 18 and 17 boys.they are the worst role models who ucan possibly find.they are sooooo bad aand i cant believe im related to them suriously. they talk about gurlfriends infront and her.and my older sisters watch shows mtv shows like i love new york with her and tila t shows.shes learning all this bad stuff.shes smart in school and shes tough.but theres bad ppl around her who are making her bad i found out shes curses so i screamed at her and told her if i hear her curse 1 more time im going to NOT let her play my video games ever again so she listened.if u kno me im vary mature for my age i dont know how because i was the baddest kid wen i was younger but ichanged maybe a marcle thing i dunno.anyway my sisters are great and all but they let her watch things that are so not good for her.but thats not a bad

2007-11-27 10:35:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My parents really hate my boyfriend. I am 25 and he is 30. We both have good stable jobs, and we each own a house. One problem is that I live next door, so everytime he comes over or I leave to see him they know about it. They say he is using me and that I am in denial. They do not feel as though he has an interest in knowing them and resent the entire relationship. We have been together a year and a half. I know my parents only want the best for me, but the arguing has torn me up and made me feel distant from them and from my boyfriend. It hurts me to see the people I love upset, but I know if I break up with my boyfriend only because they want me to I will always wonder what if.

2007-11-27 10:34:37 · 7 answers · asked by WaterLady 1 in Singles & Dating

well, heres the deal. im in 8th grade, and I think this 6th grader likes me. she is incredibly cute, and I'd definately go out with her. but, if she doesnt like me, and I ask her out, id get a really, really bad rep. so, heres what I'm going on.

before she gets on the bus or walks into the cafeteria, she checks to see if I'm there (I change classes and our paths cross, and my bus is always late so I just wit there and wait for it) whenever I'm there, we catch eyes and theres this little moment of smiling before we turn away

I'm not sure if they were intentional or not, but today she toutched my arm 4 times.

lastly, she asked me if I had a girlfriend (it was a little related to the conversation though)

oh, and if you are going to say im too young to date, I urge you to go get a girlfriend, becuase you have better things to do with your life then waste time and text.

2007-11-27 10:34:13 · 12 answers · asked by FishRfine 6 in Singles & Dating

I am missing a monkey I had when I was a kid. This monkey means the world to me and I would love to see him again. All I have are pictures... if anyone knows of where he came from or has one like him I would buy him from you.


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2007-11-27 10:33:02 · 2 answers · asked by Missing Monkey 1 in Family

What do you do with your time?

2007-11-27 10:32:08 · 33 answers · asked by just julie 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a young mommy of a 9 month old baby girl living with the inlaws and i totally hate them! Is there any young mommy like me out there wanting to get out and about??

2007-11-27 10:29:50 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got back together with my exboyfriend and we're doing just fine until he left my friend a comment that said that her avatar is hot and left me a comment that says that he wants me to change my cute avatar to a hot avatar and I started to cry and I was confused right now. Does he like me for me or my looks? Please be honest! I need help on this! I'm really serious on this! Also What do you think I should do about him? I really love him, but I think that he loves me for my looks. Thanks so much for answering this!

-LuckyGirl831 (Denise N)

2007-11-27 10:29:48 · 11 answers · asked by DELETED 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for quite a while now. The relationship has gone from good to great to amazing, and I love him totally.

He is the best thing that has ever happened to me, and I let him know that, and he tells me how much he loves me all the time, and is always sweet, kind, and respectful to me.

I have met his mom, he has met my dad, we spend most nights together, and I am spending Christmas with his family.

We make plans several months in advance, and he is always saying that 'sometime we should do this' or 'someday we should do/try that'.

I think he may be wanting more* in this relationship. How can I tell? It is kind of a touchy topic, and if I am wrong, I don't want to say anything.

2007-11-27 10:26:44 · 20 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

doesn't work anymore and she is miserable she doesn't work she is on disability sense she doesn't work she wonders wat she can do in her spare time like sumthin fun that she can do don't tell me shop that;s basic stuff i told her to play bingo She's running out of ideas and growning bored by the minute give her some ideas...........plz

2007-11-27 10:25:13 · 8 answers · asked by keron s 2 in Family

so,i like this boy aton maybe love him and i cant get over him we have been daten for almost 3 weeks but we dated for a week before that but he ended it,then a week later we started to date again and i have liked him for 3 months now.... im scared he will brake up with me and i want know wat to do help me please.....

2007-11-27 10:23:44 · 8 answers · asked by love_life 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my coach got in a semi argument and she kicked me out how do I tell my parents

2007-11-27 10:22:17 · 3 answers · asked by rofl 3 in Family

Okay. Here's the story.. I'm in the ninth grade. I was home schooled from 4th grade to eighth so I'm really, really shy & not all that popular at my school. I've been asked out a couple of times, but not by anyone I'm attracted to. Everyone tells me I'm beautiful, but no guys ever ask me out. I have a hard time talking to guys that I like & I get the feeling I come off as stiff & boring. I'm afraid to even talk around guys I like anymore because it feels like they aren't attracted at all after we talk. It's horrible. Yet, most of my friends know me as being one of the most outgoing in my group. It's so weird. I just wish I could be that way around guys. I know what your going to tell me, "loosen up" "don't think so hard about it". I've tried! As hard as I can. Why don't I get asked out? Why do guys look at me as if they are interested yet they never come up & approach me? I'm scared I'll never date someone I like, & for that matter anyone at all.

2007-11-27 10:20:19 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, im just wondering because im engaged to a senior i met last year as a freshman. and i would like to know, how long couples like that last, and would also like to know how to keep a realtion ship going.

2007-11-27 10:19:50 · 24 answers · asked by Kimi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It's always interesting to sit in a cafe and see who is attracted to whom. Some quiet guys cannot stop staring at the loud, vivacious types, for example.
But personally, what scares me is that only older men (thirties) find me attractive or the ones where I would, mentally, give them a gym subscription. I'm in college--much too young to be in any sort of relationship with an older man--I just don't find that attractive. Plus, it's creepy to boot!!
Is my case the one where I'm too plain and must wait until I'm older to find find a boyfriend?
Also...for kicks, do you notice a type of guy (artsy, athletic) always staring at a certain type of girl?
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--enlarge this one. I look less like a troll with it enlarged!

2007-11-27 10:19:30 · 7 answers · asked by Carolina P 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm a girl, and i have this friend. We met in grade 5 and we kinda got closer every year. now im in gr8 and she started the year being really bitchy and a gossiper like always
me and my freinds faught with her a month ago because she was being bitchy and glaring at us for NO REASON WAT SO EVER so we like ingnored her and stuff.
and then we kinda talked with her and she started to be like REALLY nice and we all were friends again.
but now she has this boyfriend
who is my really good friend{ i dont like him}
and like she doesnt act like her self at all around him
and shes like really quiet around him
and stuff but we all no that really she is the biggest ***** EVER!
shes started to be kinda biotchy again and giving random glares
and she just doesnt act like i think a real friend should act.
she is such a spazz too!!!!!
she gets reallly annoying
sometimes i think she is a real friend, but other times i really dont.
so ya, i dont know what to do.. HELP=]

2007-11-27 10:17:41 · 6 answers · asked by Hello. 2 in Friends

2007-11-27 10:16:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 10:16:20 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a few things i think of to be a tradition of example; my friend and her mom come down from Illinois the day after Christmas. this has been going on for 3 years now. [this winter break will be the 3 time. would you call this a tradition? also, if there comes a time and they do not come would it no longer be a tradition?
basically how long do you have to do something before you can call it a tradition?
:] thnx!!!

2007-11-27 10:15:29 · 11 answers · asked by CHH Chicx 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a hispanic 28/m from Los Angeles and I am also best friends with a 20/f from Los Angeles but I am really in love with her. I already told her that I want something serious with her, but she says she only sees me as a brother. Next month she is flying to Kansas to meet this guy that she has been talking to for 7 months. She says that they have a lot in common, and she wants to see if they have the same chemistry once they meet in person. She says that if they get along, that she might end up in a serious relationship with him. She says that I am her best friend, but she still lets me hold her, and she also lets me rub her back, her legs and her feet. I tell her that I love her, and she smilles when I say that. What should I do? Is there any way I can win her over? I am really worried if she ends up with this guy. If any one has any suggestions, please let me know, because I just feel so depressed.

2007-11-27 10:12:32 · 4 answers · asked by jesse 1 in Friends

I am in an interracial marriage and my dad and I have been writing back and forth trying to talk things out. Today, this is the email I got. (attached below along with the more details b/c it's long)..so what's your opinion of this? How would you react?? It hurt me and I haven't and can't share it w/ my husband for fear of his reaction.


Perhaps during the 18 or so years that we lived under the same roof,that I didnt make myself perfectly clear.Dont bring and ******* or zebras into my life.I dont need that.Over the years i have worked and been around many of black men.Everyone of them have the same goals in life.Marry a white woman,milk her of all they can get,leave broke PG and head on down the road,to another victum.all the while they have several other women that they are having an affair with,and getting as many as they can PG they dont care who,or if the bills get paid,nor do they pay any support to any of them.they keep moving on to one place or another,so no law

2007-11-27 10:12:26 · 7 answers · asked by *~Cam's Mommy ~* 4 in Family

2007-11-27 10:11:10 · 10 answers · asked by gutmadonehalf 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He likes me alot, and i only like him as a friend. He knows this, but is it possible to be JUST friends with him?

2007-11-27 10:10:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was eating lunch with this guy and he sat really close, was holding my hand and walked me to my next class.... After school he went to my locker and gave me a hug goodbye and kissed my forehead a few times ..... I can't tell if he likes me or if he is just trying to play me... This guy has a reputation as being a HUGE player? Would it be a mistake to go out with him?

2007-11-27 10:10:44 · 7 answers · asked by Gabs2Much 2 in Singles & Dating

if there is a guy who is constantly smiling at you, everytime you're in the same club (in high school), but you dont know him, i dont know what to make of his nice smile...today, after 2 weeks, i saw him in the hall, and he smiled at me again! i dont even know him>is he making fun of me somehow? i have no idea how to respond if he says anything the next time we meet in that club.............what should i do/say???

2007-11-27 10:09:47 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey guys. Im about to turn 22 and i've been on a few dates but im still a virgin and plan to be one until i get a ring. I always thought it was a good thing but now it seems like the second a guy finds that out i either become boring or a challenge. Mabye that's me being paranoid so i'm asking the guys out there...would you think twice about dating a girl you knew you couldn't have sex with?

2007-11-27 10:09:09 · 6 answers · asked by blakeygirl42 2 in Singles & Dating

There's a very strong vibe of deciet that my fiance is obliviously sending me. He's so wrapped up w/ his own adgenda little clues keep slipping out. Its like a repeticious pattern. One week he's happy to be around then the next week he's m.i.a. When I confront him it just makes things worse. I've tried everything in the book. And only got better temporarily. Its like switch back & forth from best friends to strangers accordingly to his moods. Whats up with that? I know i'm better off w/out him & ready to soon but I feel accountable for his actions. Like I'm failing & need to keep trying harder or smarter each time. Any leads on this? By physically confirming my gut feelings I will be able to move on. But how can I without making a fool of myself?

2007-11-27 10:08:31 · 2 answers · asked by lovie808 2 in Singles & Dating