Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

I've tried to talk her away from this guy, but she "loves him." She's 17!!! She told me if I told her parents that I'd risk my friendship with her. But at this point he's threatened scuicide on her two times and I'm worried she's not safe. Her safety means more than a friendship to me. If she's with him and he decides to kill himself she'll be psychologically scarred for life. Or if he decides to take her with, I might never see her again...

2007-11-27 11:04:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-11-27 11:03:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i was walking home from work early cause i work near home and i was walking by a car in my parking space and i seen two people thru the window so i stop to see what they were in my space for. when i looked in the guy was on top of my girlfriend with her legs up. i banged on the window said you ***** and waited for them to do something they just looked at me with the doors closed so i just begin scratching **** into the car with my key and denting the car. i was scared like what the hell should i do. cop well not do anything. i hoped on the roof and was like your done woman but when i walked away i watch them and she hoped out and he left. she came up stairs and said she was sorry and i said pack get out im done. now she saying that nothing well ever happen again and shes done forever. i make sleep on the couch and trat her like a dog. i dont know what to do i locked her out but i pay the bills she has a name on the lease? let me know

2007-11-27 11:01:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's tha situation..

I'm 16 and I'm very mature for my age.
I've been dating my b/f for a little over 1 year now and I feel that I'm ready to go to tha next level (sex)

Well my mom told me a while back that If I was gonna be sexually active with a guy that I need to at least have tha decency to tell her before I do this.

Well that was a while ago and now I'm ready to but I'm scared about talking to her about it.

any idea on how I can start this convo with her?
thnx


&& She gets upset pretty easilly, and sometimes over- react's about thingz

2007-11-27 11:01:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 11:00:39 · 60 answers · asked by April 5 in Friends

My mom has been married to my dad for 18 years now. My mom used to be one of those super christian no style everyday moms. now she has changed. alot. SHe loves shopping, is wearing thongs, (!) (i found that out on a shopping spree) tries to stay in fashion, listens to todays music, and is acting like a 21 year old! Worst of all she and my dad are on and off. they somtimes really love eachother and somtimes bicker like children. my siblings are blind to the change or else they think it is "cool". Am i over reacting? im really hurt by this and i need help. Please someone help me!

2007-11-27 10:58:18 · 6 answers · asked by roxi_chic343 1 in Family

LIKE WHY DO THEY ALWAYS F**KEN SAY I DON'T KNOW OR YEAH????

GIRLS SAY WHAT YOU MEAN!!!!

2007-11-27 10:57:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My cousin spends all this money on clothes like designer brands and she cant even pay her rent!!! i want to tell her to stop but she never listens what should i do??

2007-11-27 10:57:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been confused big time. About 2 people, and also mainly about myself.

One girl I really, really developed very strong feelings for has disappeared, and I feel guilty because I can feel my feelings slowly disappearing too. Although I'm also slightly comforted by that cos a relationship would have been a bad idea, verging on plain wrong.

But someone else is confusing me even more, because I'm really not sure what my OWN intentions are. In a physical sense, I think I'd be mad NOT to pursue a relationship. Add to that the fact that I seem to be thinking about her constantly. But all of my trying to figure out all this stuff leads me to the conclusion that I only want friendship, but I can't find any reason why that is.

Going on what sort of things I like in a girl, I've found absolutely no turn-offs whatsoever, yet I just can't seem to see her in anything other than a friendly capacity, despite the fact that I always flirt outrageously with her.

Someone please figure me out.

2007-11-27 10:57:43 · 5 answers · asked by ? 5 in Friends

2007-11-27 10:57:34 · 4 answers · asked by Chriss 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 29, attractive, good job, in grad school, very financially stable...divorced. Ever since my ex husband i seem to be attracted to the bad boy. My ex was not a bad boy. The last guy i dated for almost 2 years was a loser. 5 years younger than me, trouble maker, had been to rehab, didnt always treat me well. Current guy told me up front he doesnt want anythign serious (he just had a baby) so i am basically a booty call i think. We've hung out the past two weekends, but he wont contact me during the week. I dont contact him at all, just wait for him. This has been going on about a month and a half. What is wrong with me? feel like i'm going to wake up and all the good guys will be gone and ill have wasted my time...why am i attracted to these guys? i really cant get this guy out of my head...he keeps me awake at night. I have not had casual sex in a long time...

2007-11-27 10:57:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

recently fell out over step kids want to get back whats the best way i should go around it

2007-11-27 10:57:24 · 19 answers · asked by tigerman 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Today in class I finally talked to the girl I like. I said I saw her at the train station but couldn't say hi because she was on the other side of the tracks. I then asked what her name was and she told me, I then introduce myself. I told her that next time I see her anywhere I will be sure to say hi. She said nice to meet you and I said "you too" and class starts.

I sounded a little dorky because I was nervous but I did not shake. My voice was just soften and I smiled a lot. She smiled all the way. See also kept staring into my eyes. Was I successful even if I was kinda dorky for now? I was nervous.

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-27 10:57:12 · 22 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Singles & Dating

i have one bro and one sis!-Ashley:D

2007-11-27 10:55:29 · 18 answers · asked by ᶊטȵᶊḥ׀ηԑ☼ 3 in Family

My bf has expressed that he doesn't want an overbearing girlfriend. So I try to give him his space. I don't call him constantly - usually I wait for him to call me. When he's out with friends I don't bother him. I know that sometimes I get a little clingy, but I try to keep it in check. But something bothers me - he NEVER answers my calls. He usually calls me back within an hour, or texts me. I know he's busy, & try to understand.
Last night he came over, but couldn't stay the night. That was fine, but he acts like he's afraid I'll be upset. He said to call him at 10 this morning, & we'd do breakfast. I called, he didn't answer. At 1:00 I texted him - no reply. I finally texted him again at 4:30 and said I was worried. He replied that he's at work and will call me later.
I'm upset, & don't know what's so hard about sending a short text. What should I say when he calls? Do I have a right to be upset about this? Guys, do you think it's important to respond to your gf?

2007-11-27 10:53:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 10:53:25 · 4 answers · asked by enjagumbs4 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Was I stupid for letting my ex do this to me? Well I was 14 and he cam over to my house. It's been like a month since we saw eachother and school ended. My mom walk out the living room to her room and all of a sudden he looked at me. Then he pulled my shirt up and sucked on my nipple. I didn't do anything i was suprised and wtf at the same time. I didn't really want him to do it but i let him. Was I dumb for letting him? I'm 15 now more than a year ago but i just had to get this off my mind.

2007-11-27 10:51:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was hanging out with a few of my friends guys and girls, and we were goofing arround and one of the girls just yells "balltap" and smacks this guy mark right in the balls!. he looked like he was in a lot of pain, all the girls were laughing their a*ses off. but i dont get why its funny, why do girls laught at this?

2007-11-27 10:51:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know a few guy friends that have this notion that when girls are being nice and want their company (these girls are also in relationship complexes) that they have the belief that they can land these girls. So, I want to hear from both sides, guys and girls, any past experiences with this sort of thing. Whether it is that there are attractions or that these girls are just friendly and playful and want nothing more.

2007-11-27 10:51:24 · 6 answers · asked by HoHoHo 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my mother passed away almost a year and a half ago. Since then my daddy been being stupid hes retarted and im serious hes slow im not just saying that as an insult. Anyways i dont wanna stay here at my house no more. I seriously hate it and yea i have my faults he yells at me alot for no reason. He doesnt trust me everybody is always ******* compareing me to my damn sister cause shes in college a sophmore. I am a sophmore in highschool shes never had sex or a boyfriend i have im like the pit of the **** and i get tired of the bull. I lost my virginity and made mistakes but i dont have sex anymore well i havent had it for 2 months and im proud it may not be long but it is a step at it. Is there anyway i can leave my house like from my father. I cant take it sometimes i think of suicide and stuff like that and i dont know what do cause its tearing me apart. Im 15 years old

2007-11-27 10:51:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

this guy asked me to go out with him but im really not into him. we didn't make set plans. so would he be pissed if i got a boyfriend (i can't word that right). i don't want to hurt him. is it really rude?

2007-11-27 10:50:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw the guy I like other day for the 1st time in like five months at the movies. When I saw him he kept staring at me and blushing. Then at the end of the movie he was standing in front of me and staring at me/checking me out for a couple of minutes and the he just left. I'm not sure if he waiting to talk to me.His face was also red. The I saw my crush again 1 month later and he was blushing a heck of a lot. He also smiled at me and he raised his eyebrow. Plus his eyes got wide and he face got beat red when he realized it was me He also had some gleam in his eyes. Then he was just looking at me a lot and he was stuttering when he was talking to his friend. What does this mean? My friend said he was also amused and pleased to see me. So anyways he had me blocked before I added him to myspace.

2007-11-27 10:50:08 · 5 answers · asked by shanta 1 in Singles & Dating

My guy friend is really cool and close. I want him to be a future boyfriend and theres a possibility but he has a girlfriend at the moment. I don't have a lot of money so i need somethign cheap. But I want a nice gift too that will make him think better of me but not offend him since he has a girlfriend. What should I get him?

2007-11-27 10:49:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know more people probably have a father like this than I realize, but my dad is really one of those put-downers, never ever congratulating people (or even his kids) for their achievements, always making them feel dumb, like losers, even when they accelerate and the general public admires and is in awe, no, it's always "who cares" or "do you think you're good now cause you accomplished so and so?", and it's really disheartening.

For so long I did my best to ignore it and my mom is much more balanced and she helped a bit, but recently he came to visit after I hadn't seen him in months and at the end it became nasty and he put me down a lot. Shortly after he left he sent me an email asking me why I needed "so much" money to pay bills and college expenses which is pretty ironic considering he made over 400k a year last year and never provided more than food/shelter/water/basics.

2007-11-27 10:45:22 · 5 answers · asked by sarah 4 in Family

2007-11-27 10:45:19 · 51 answers · asked by lougirl.phat 1 in Singles & Dating

and all of my friends and I gave her gifts and one of them gave her in the morning since he missed her birthday and he made a comment about her already wearing them and i said Oh like you wear mine too. Should i apologize or just forgot it. I think she took it to heart.

2007-11-27 10:45:12 · 6 answers · asked by caine 3 in Singles & Dating

this is the conversation dan and I had, can anybody tell me if these are signs that he likes me or just your typical guy?
dan says: stop trying to show me your cleavege woman
bethh says: i wasnt, i was stretching.
dan says: yeeeeeee "strecthing" *horny face*
bethh says: oh shoot i said the wrong thing didnt i
dan says: wanna stretch some more aye?
bethh says: umm if i get the urge to again i will
dan says: lmfao. ill just keep doing this face *horny face*
bethh says: *stretches*
dan says: that wasnt a stretch, that was just showing me your **** lmao
dan says: anyways im off now. night hun
bethh says: okayy byeee
dan says: love n tingz xxxxxxxxxxxxx
bethh says: ly2 xxxxxxxxxxxxx

2007-11-27 10:43:39 · 4 answers · asked by Bethany 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok see i met this guy @ a party this past weekend and well we danced for a while and before the party was over we walked outside to take a walk and talk. We ended up giving eachother a kiss and before i left he gave me his # because he didnt have his cell with him. he told me to txt him so he could have my # which i did and the next day we txt eachother for a while yet he still hasnt called what do i do? should i call him?

2007-11-27 10:41:36 · 29 answers · asked by Mrs.G 2 in Singles & Dating

hmm i was wondering theres this girl at my school i love her!! and i told her and she likes me back, but i really want to kiss her. im 12 and shes 11 and i kno1 what your thinking were too young but we ARE mature and responsible people do you think it would be okay to kiss her and i know it matters alot if shes alright with it soo how do i find out if she wants a kiss? maybe just a peck on the cheek i dont know please help!

2007-11-27 10:39:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine personally asked me to be a wedding attendant. But I really don't know much about weddings. But he said that he will talk about the details later but I want an overview of what are the duties a wedding attendant before he discusses about the details.

2007-11-27 10:39:32 · 5 answers · asked by College Kid 5 in Weddings