Help is there anyway i can move out or leave home?

Question

Ok my mother passed away almost a year and a half ago. Since then my daddy been being stupid hes retarted and im serious hes slow im not just saying that as an insult. Anyways i dont wanna stay here at my house no more. I seriously hate it and yea i have my faults he yells at me alot for no reason. He doesnt trust me everybody is always ******* compareing me to my damn sister cause shes in college a sophmore. I am a sophmore in highschool shes never had sex or a boyfriend i have im like the pit of the **** and i get tired of the bull. I lost my virginity and made mistakes but i dont have sex anymore well i havent had it for 2 months and im proud it may not be long but it is a step at it. Is there anyway i can leave my house like from my father. I cant take it sometimes i think of suicide and stuff like that and i dont know what do cause its tearing me apart. Im 15 years old

Answer 1

You are a teenager mad at your parents....this is life....until you move out in 3 years. Ask your dad to go to counseling with you...churches offer it free...you need to reconcile between yourselves so you leave on good terms. You are only home for a little bit longer....I think you need to work on the relationship with your father and tough it out....you have a free ride right now....life outside is hard...very hard....enjoy the time you don't have to work and have bills and nasty bosses and no time off and dating troubles, etc. This should be the time of your life! If you dad is slow, then talk to someone in your county (call health department) about parenting classes or about parent/child counseling. You need it and it will help. Your dad may be lashing out in the wrong way because he knows soon you will move out....or maybe he blames himself for your poor choices (and sex at age 15 is a poor choice...right? yes it is) and he is kicking himself and taking it out on you. Wrong, but possible. Your choices, your fault, your responsibility. But parents always manage to blame themselves...which is why he is so proud of your sister...he is proud of you too, but let him know the changes you've made (no more pre-marital sex for instance) so he can praise you as well. Right now, your sister is away at school....if she was home...they'd fight too....it's easier to praise someone and not argue with someone that is far away...I promise. You'll be alright....(((hug))).

Answer 2

Hon, your dad does LOVE you believe it or not.You need to try to see things from his point of view.You said you lost your virginity and it has only been 2 months since you had sex.
That probably broke his heart finding that out after losing his wife(your mom).All he has to go by is what you have done in the past and it will take a while to make him trust you and believe in you again.YOU CAN bring this about and make him proud of you, but your going to have to eat dirt for a while and prove that you HAVE changed.This takes time because your broke his trust and the offense may be forgiven but it take time to earn trust back.
I bet he would take a bullet for you.