Was I stupid for letting my ex do this to me? Well I was 14 and he cam over to my house. It's been like a month since we saw eachother and school ended. My mom walk out the living room to her room and all of a sudden he looked at me. Then he pulled my shirt up and sucked on my nipple. I didn't do anything i was suprised and wtf at the same time. I didn't really want him to do it but i let him. Was I dumb for letting him? I'm 15 now more than a year ago but i just had to get this off my mind.
2007-11-27 10:51:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't think you were dumb, but if you don't want something to happen you should SPEAK YOUR MIND.. what if he got more physical with you... what would you do?....
say no when you don't want something, otherwise you will let something happen that you will regret
2007-11-27 10:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Becca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's done. What were you gonna do, hit him? He shouldn't have done it though without your lead in. It was pretty brazen and could have gotten him in trouble. I know I'll get a thumbs down on this but boys will be boys, they grow up but they don't. Boys of all ages and sizes are on the stupid side. You weren't the stupid one, he was. I would have been pissed and probably would have hit him up the side of the head, but that's my personality. Actually I probably would have left some bruises and would have gotten in more trouble than he would have for violating me! Bottom line, it was a violation and he shouldn't have done it. You were caught off guard.
2007-11-27 10:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Cash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has never left your mind...and so it is haunting you, and you were traumatised by the incident. I would view this as a mental abuse due to an act forcefully done to you.
He has taken advantage of you and violated your body.
So ...no, girl you were not stupid. He has disrespected you. It is normal for you to feel "stupid" or silly in such circumstances.
You'd probably never be able to forget this but you have to put it behind you.
2007-11-27 11:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by witch_dr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy caught you by surprise! You didn't even get a chance the way I see it. You could've told him to stop though. Don't worry yourself over it, you were inexperienced at the time and you may still be so, it's no big deal. At least you guys didn't have sex.
2007-11-27 10:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by Class 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
na. u wasn't stupid we all make mistakes that we later in life regret. just live and learn from this experience. and don't do it if u really don't want to. do only things that ur comfortable with and not forced in to it .
2007-11-27 10:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Live and learn
2007-11-27 11:11:45 · answer #6 · answered by Buddy Love 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you just gave him the go ahead to do whatever he pleases.
2007-11-27 10:56:11 · answer #7 · answered by peaches6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes and no ,,it wasnt your fault it happens alot its called date rape ,lucky for you it didnt go any future but that was because your mother was upstairs
2007-11-28 16:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. You are still interested in sexual stimulation,this is why you still remember what had happened.
2007-11-28 19:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by NewTech-Bio. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋