I've tried to talk her away from this guy, but she "loves him." She's 17!!! She told me if I told her parents that I'd risk my friendship with her. But at this point he's threatened scuicide on her two times and I'm worried she's not safe. Her safety means more than a friendship to me. If she's with him and he decides to kill himself she'll be psychologically scarred for life. Or if he decides to take her with, I might never see her again...
2007-11-27 11:04:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You say her safety is more important than her friendship, so if you really love her, you'll tell someone. If he's threatening suicide, then he needs help and if she really loved him, she would listen to you and try to get him the help he needs.
I know a young woman who's boyfriend killed himself a few months ago and I think it's changed her forever. He had been on medication for depression and he stopped taking and killed himself.
You need to do something while you still can, before he hurts her with his actions. It's the right thing to do, no matter what your friend say now, she might thank you later.
2007-11-27 11:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Phyliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her parents and his as soon as you can. This person needs help. She is to young to Handel this kind of thing. She might not like it but you could be saving a life.
2007-11-27 19:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by patches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her parents and his parents
they both need safety
safety of someone you love is more important than their friendship with you
2007-11-27 19:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell your parents.
everyones safety, including yours is the utmost concern.
2007-11-27 19:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs help! ur friend/her bf my be mad, but they will thank u in the long run!
Good Luck!
Mallory
2007-11-27 19:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋