Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

So my mom and dad have been splitting up on and off for years now. First my dad left my mom when I was just starting high school for my best friends mom and he kept bouncing back and forth for about 4 years. Finally they got divorced last a year ago may of 2007, so almost 2 years ago. This last august (07) he left my mom to be with the neighbor which they have both been friends with for about 6 years. Supposedly best friends with my mom. Well she divorced her husband of 13 years to be with my dad. So now they live next door to my mom and all these people do is start drama. They try to keep me involved...and its nothing but my mom and dad playing games...he gets over there and he is unhappy so him and my mom are planning on this affair and its just BS. They try to blame their drama on me and they have both turned my world upside down multiple times kicking me out and what not and blamming me for there messed up relationship. Curious to what people think about this!!

2007-11-27 12:24:34 · 5 answers · asked by ~Linds~ 1 in Family

OK, my friend is BI, & she was dating a guy for a couple of weeks. On her job, her boss fondled her twice, & she reported him, & now he's trying to make up lies to ruin her life because she didn't give him what he wanted. Another guy on the job tried to pressure her for sex. Her (now) ex gets mad & says, "You lovin' on all these WHITE men!" But he ENCOURAGED her to sleep with a white girl with him watching. He's Black & she's Hispanic. Later, he saw her handling important business with another co-worker who's also a Black male. She uses terms of endearment to everyone she talks to. Baby, sweetie, everyone. That's just her. She called the guy baby, & her b/f heard it, & he jumped down her throat. He randomly leaves the house & claims to go JOY RIDING to clear his mind, when he may be cheating himself. No one drives 6-8 hrs. straight EVERY night around midnight. So when he yelled @ her, she told him off, & he had an anxiety attack because he didn't want her to leave him.

2007-11-27 12:24:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend of 2 years now is a great guy, when he isn't going wacko, he wont take meds from one excuse to another, he has high and low days and i have finely come to the point to avoid them. he stays with me all the time but wont work to help around here. he has fits like a child, he b*tch's like a woman. i feel traped on being with him but i love him so much to let him go. we fight nonstop, day in day out. he smokes pot alot but heck that clams him down so i dont mind it. i have 2 daughters from a past marriage just seems i cant do nothing right for him. he finds some mean words all the time. how can i change this? what can i do to make this work with out wanting to always dump him. i do that alot. i love him thats all that matters. so any info please.i am 27 he is 28

2007-11-27 12:21:49 · 4 answers · asked by scrumptious_lora 2 in Singles & Dating

What would happen if I ran away and came home before or after I'd be 18 ?

2007-11-27 12:20:35 · 5 answers · asked by Bill 1 in Family

i married a woman who was a virgin.we just got back from our honeymoon but i noticed whenever we have sex she just lays there and stares at the ceiling.its not enjoyable for me and when im done she rolls over and goes to sleep.
what do you think is wrong?

2007-11-27 12:19:26 · 19 answers · asked by .i. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My partner over the last few months, after he got brave enough to hire an adult movie, seems to be watching it on a regular basis. At first i didn't mind, but watching it i think it degrades the real meaning of sex. They shag either other, they dont love each other. And they do all these fantasy things like girl on girl etc. My boyfriend used to like the innocent types, but now it seems he thinks strippers aren't 'sluts' and even got a number from a 'bi' one saying shes a 'cool' chick and might be a good friend. I put my foot down about that but iam wondering if watching porn is corrupting him and hes confusing it with the real world.. as i could not see the old him even wanting to give a stripper the time of day rather than getting her number. what do u think and how could i discourage the movies without controling.

2007-11-27 12:18:12 · 5 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 3 kids and seems like one of them has had issues here lately that has required my immediate attention and I have missed a few days of work. Do you ever feel worried that you will be written up or fired for putting your kids first?

2007-11-27 12:17:02 · 3 answers · asked by firecracker 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-27 12:13:58 · 16 answers · asked by melie_rea_1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. There's this guy in one of my classes. And he goes to my church too. He sits somewhere in church so I can sometimes see him. Anyway, he's such a pervert. But i think he would be an okay friend as long as he wasn't so perverted and he can be a jerk sometimes but if u slap him, he'll stop. anyway, he always mentions this girl and remarks on how she's so hot and everything. But at the same time, he kinda flirts with me. i don't think i like him since he's too perverted but i was just wondering... he is a jerk to everyone but her has never ever said anything mean to me. im a shy goody goody so he never says anything sexual about me which is a good thing, i guess...
he always teases me in a nice way and sometimes i catch him looking at me in church and his friend always keeps on asking me if I like him. And once he said something about seeing me in church and i was like "so." I mean of coarse he sees me in church every time. and his friend was sitting next to us and he's like,

2007-11-27 12:13:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i got caught drinkin n driving and my parents caught me and i got away with it, i was using my dads car and my mom and dad found out and i got away with it, and they let me use the car again (at night),
oh yea and im only 18 years old

2007-11-27 12:13:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

its been a year since we broke up
he has moved on, he has a new girl a new life everyithing is great!!!
we dont talk anymore we dont text to see how we are doing, we dont see each other at all
totaly no contact at all!
i miss him even though he was a abusive violent pr:k who made me sick with anxiety and totaly down and depressed but then i think of the good times the times he was nice our house our car our everything.
I hacve had random BF since him but nothing lasted he waited and is now with a great chik who is soooooooo much prettyer then me better body, balaced, she drinks heaps (i have 1 or 2 and he always got angry that i wouldnt get drunk with him)
she is perfect for him and what makes me sad is that he could treat her so well and only treated me like a live in house wife and door mat and her like a princess
i need to get over it and then when i think i am someting reminds me of him
i get rid of all his photos but still i think of him

how can i get ova him ?

2007-11-27 12:12:06 · 29 answers · asked by boris 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex bf broke up with me about 4 months ago. But he still contacts be alot. Recenlty he's been sending me text messages and I respond but with short responses. I really want him back. Last time I saw him he said he still loved me a lot, but want's to be single right now and hang with his friends. Which was weird cuz while together he was the one that was taking things fast. Anyways, He knows I still love him and want him back...but will the no cantact at all bring him back faster? I'm 24 and he's 22...so I guess thats why he's still immature and doesn't know what he wants.

2007-11-27 12:11:46 · 8 answers · asked by Helen 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i have one brother and a million cousins and if you put them all together you get trouble! My brother has been smoking for like a year now and he is trying to cut down on it because of the negative outcome [cancer, struggle to breathe etc.] I heard him talking on the phone the other day, These were his exact words "I swear to god i have not smoked but i have been......... i could not hear the rest but it sounded like he said trying cocaine! I dont want to loose my brother to drugs, smoking or anything like that! In case you are wondering how he started smoking it was by my cousin`s husband [now ex] and my brother in law!!! They started hanging out Saturday nights and they just started to try new things like marijuana, other drugs, and mixing drinks!!!! My brother is studying really hard to be a doctor but if he keeps this up he will end up in jail! I just want to know what do you think i should telll him!!!! I am not trying get involved but i know my brother is getting worse!!!!

2007-11-27 12:11:11 · 4 answers · asked by Neggra 3 in Family

2007-11-27 12:07:22 · 13 answers · asked by idiots 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if a person is emailing another person of the opposite sex without the knowedge of their partner?

2007-11-27 12:06:02 · 18 answers · asked by Charlotte's Dad 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We have a very good and adventurous sex life. My wife just recently started working after our youngest started school. We just can't seem to get together. When shes at work, I'm at home and when I'm at work, she's at home. It usually ends up with us having sex 2-3 times per month, which is way below where we want it to be. Whats a couple to do?

2007-11-27 12:04:28 · 7 answers · asked by mitchsnarlin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We usually spend alot of time together. I spend the night over his house and he calls me often. But for the last 3 days it's been different. His cell has been broken for the last 2 weeks but he still found ways to call (since he doesnt have a home phone) but these last 3 days he has only called me 3 times. He used to just pop over my house if he didn't have a phone to use but he hasn't even done that. The last I've talked to him he seems distant and like it hasn't even bothered him that we haven't seen each other. Today I didn't talk to him til 5pm and when he called he was just asking me for my phone charger. It didn't even seem like he called just to talk to me or see whats up. I don't understand how he's doing a complete 180 on me. He hasn't tried to see me and he told me he was picking up his charger1 1/2 ago and still no call no show. I feel like he is pulling away & I don't know why. I dont understand how it is so easy for him to not call or see me when it's drivin me nuts

2007-11-27 12:01:49 · 1 answers · asked by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife of 11 years died a while back aged only 35. We were very much in love & very highly sexed & whilst I now feel ready (gagging) for a physical relationship I'm not ready for an emotional one or the pretence that the sex may lead to one. Do I spend cash that I can't really afford (would rather spend it on the kids) & go to an 'escort', or is there some sort of club/meeting place for people in similar position, with similar desires?

2007-11-27 12:00:39 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told my mother that I was running away. She said "on your mark get set"

2007-11-27 12:00:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay. I just got done cheering at school and I was very very upset. My best friend made us look bad by calling bad cheers. She doesn't know a thing about basketball. I have to tell her every two second if we are on offence or defence. She's co- captian! She needs to get it together. I feel bad because it reflects on us. I can already here the crap people are going to talk at school tomorrow. And to top it off she doesn't even care. What should I do? Thanks.

2007-11-27 11:54:47 · 7 answers · asked by LatinaChica 1 in Friends

I've liked this one girl for a while, and have started talking to her a little bit. How can I hint that I like her, and see how she responds if she likes me without being to much in her face about it?

2007-11-27 11:53:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this friend (not sure if hes clean or not) and I know that his life generally, well, sucks.

So today he was saying all this crappy stuff about his mom (he lives with her). But then he said that he was going to talk to his counselor about disowning his mom?! (and going to live with this one other kid that has gotten kicked out of more than four schools, and the one we go to MULTIPLE TIMES)

Is this even possible?? WTF???

2007-11-27 11:50:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im 15 years old and have only had 1 Gf in my whole life. Im not at all a bad person and I know I don't look to bad because I know more than a few girls like me. I however only like one girl, and I don't know if I'll ever go out with her. My school is pretty big with 1000 people( its a Jr High School 2 years) so that means about 500 girls. I hardly ever get in relationships because I don't think I've found the perfect girl yet. Am I being too strict in what I;m looking for? Should I go out with the girl thats the most like me, or wait, Does not going out with somebody say until mayby even college hurt me and does having relationships( or not) really benefit me in the future?

2007-11-27 11:50:38 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy was saying he believed women should sleep on a cot so they would be more less likely to sleep in and would get up earlier to make their husband's breakfast and I thought that was kind of mean. I mean women should make breakfast but they should get a nice bed, you know?

2007-11-27 11:44:48 · 18 answers · asked by Little Angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well....I sorta have the biggest crush on a junior at my school. i am a freshmen. He is really hott and he gets really good grades and so many people tell me he's such a sweet and nice guy! He doesn't get into drugs and he seems like a good guy. Whenever I am around him i can't stop blushing and whenever i see him he makes me happy. i can't stop thinking or talking about him. but i barely know him and i have not said one word to him but i really want to get to know him. but i found out today that he is going out with some girl from a diff. town i don't kno why it is bothering me so much that he has a GF when i barely know him....what is up with that?? Do I still like him??? Plz give me some advice.....i really need it!!!! and at lunch i sit across the aisle from him and he always glances at me and makes eye contact with me like 5 times....why does he do that if he has a gf...what does that mean???

2007-11-27 11:44:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is honestly what I wonder. So please, PLEASE don't say anything rude about my question, okay? I am 18 years old and have NEVER had a boyfriend, mainly because I am very shy. I don't feel like I'm interesting enough to have one, either. Anyway, do boyfriends ever get sick of their girlfriends, I mean, do they start to think that they aren't pretty enough, after all, after seeing them every day? Do they start to get sick of their personality? Honestly, I think about this all the time and it keeps me from considering a relationship because I'm always hung up by this thought. What do you have to say to this?

2007-11-27 11:43:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok theres this girl i like and i can tell she likes me and so her and i talk we text eachother so she was going through a hard time with her boyfriend and i was there for her and so she appreciated that but i asked her how her bf is doing and she said idk the last thing she said was he wanted a break all of a sudden
but i want to tell her how i feel about her how do i do it
or should i wait
please help me

2007-11-27 11:41:09 · 40 answers · asked by brandon f 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl i am interested in asking out and i was talking to her today and she said that she was talking with her "guy friend" about moving into an apartment with another girl and another guy. Does that sound like she has a boy friend or just a friend who is a guy?

2007-11-27 11:38:36 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so what the heck do you all think about that yahoo rock-n-roll? Man are they rockin' tonight,yeah!!!

2007-11-27 11:37:40 · 1 answers · asked by nanna 5 in Singles & Dating

So I'm in eighth grade and lots of my friends talk about like kissing and making out at the movies and stuff. I have a girlfriend and we've been going out for like a month. She's basically ready to like take our relationship to a new level. Anyways, we're going to the movies on friday... and she's already like kissed me on the cheek and stuff, so when we go and we kiss, which I am assuming will be on the lips, because neither of us are very prude, should i use my tongue?

2007-11-27 11:37:02 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating