2007-11-27 12:13:58 · 16 answers · asked by melie_rea_1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That was a dumb move. Marriage is not like going steady. Listen, be honest, try to make things nice for your husband, but don't do everything he says, compromise. Don't forget to think of yourself- you're young, you should finish school and go to college if that's what you want. Don't forget to put yourself and your goals first.
2007-11-27 12:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Dig It 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would anyone in their right mind get married at 16,I don't care if there is a baby involved.Your mind hasn't developed yet. All you should be worried about is what to wear to the mall or what movie to see. You are in for a rude awakening sorry to say. You have so much growing up to do and it should go something like this. When you get a little older you will realize that there is more to life then getting married and having a baby. You need to finish school go to college start a career for yourself then comes the family.You are so not ready to be married, s h i t us grown ups can't even get it right most of the time.
2007-11-27 20:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1. Why the hell did you get married at 16?
2. You make it work with commitment and tolerance, something most people don't have until they are approaching 30.
3. I would suggest you start reading books by reputable experts who have been married for decades. That is, if you can't get an annulment. I'm sorry, I just can't see anyone getting married at 16 these days. This is not the 1800's where you might die by 38.
2007-11-27 20:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by Teresa 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wait, a year ago you wanted to know how to lose your virginity and now your married? Yeah, you definately need some help to keep it together....if you just got married why are you already worried? Doesn't that suggest getting married was the wrong move? Well, all I can say is try to think before you act, and if all else fails seek couples therapy.
2007-11-27 20:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow ! Married at SIXTEEN !! How old is your Husband?? You are going to Grow up fast sweetie. Learn to watch your tongue, don't say anything you can't take back. Love your husband, and don't stray. And the best advise I can give you is make sure you both communicate clearly with each other, and keep the communication going. Good Luck !!
2007-11-27 20:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by casper 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Married at 16 ...isnt that illegal?.......Youre not even old enough to vote! How could you possibly be ready for marriage?
Id be getting an annulment
2007-11-27 20:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
wow!! congratss yd u get married soo early tho?? and ofcourse marriage is hard ur just gonna have to try ur best in agreein with eachother goodluk..
2007-11-27 20:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by Noor H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am one of those ppl who dont believe that age is a significant facotr is whether or not a marriage works but more maturity...
marriage takes alot of work and let me tell you thats its not always goin to be hard..sometimes things just fall into place but other times they dont and thats where the work is.....
the key components to make any relationship work is communication, trust, honesty and respect....notice that i put communication first....dont you ever think that your hubby is goin to know how you feel about anything...if somethng hurts you tell him so you can sort it out....
i went to a wedding once and the priest said that you communicate in different ways "roll on the floor if you have to to show the person you love em" everyone laughed when he said that but it is true...
lastly do not put too many ppl in your relationship....and it is no longer me but WE and US
2007-11-27 20:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by ebony_316 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It is said, it takes two to make make a heaven, but he11 can be accomplished by one. Unfortunately this saying is true . Take a lesson
2007-11-27 20:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you so young... you`ve made a comiitement that you cant really accept... your worried that something may be wrong... its already working you guys got married and all i can say is negotiate and comprimise to agree on something to gether... try to avoid converstaions that may get each other mad!!
good luck!!
2007-11-27 20:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋