OK, my friend is BI, & she was dating a guy for a couple of weeks. On her job, her boss fondled her twice, & she reported him, & now he's trying to make up lies to ruin her life because she didn't give him what he wanted. Another guy on the job tried to pressure her for sex. Her (now) ex gets mad & says, "You lovin' on all these WHITE men!" But he ENCOURAGED her to sleep with a white girl with him watching. He's Black & she's Hispanic. Later, he saw her handling important business with another co-worker who's also a Black male. She uses terms of endearment to everyone she talks to. Baby, sweetie, everyone. That's just her. She called the guy baby, & her b/f heard it, & he jumped down her throat. He randomly leaves the house & claims to go JOY RIDING to clear his mind, when he may be cheating himself. No one drives 6-8 hrs. straight EVERY night around midnight. So when he yelled @ her, she told him off, & he had an anxiety attack because he didn't want her to leave him.
2007-11-27 12:24:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
So later, he accused her again of cheating & called her a psychotic *****, & then she ran after him because she was already stressed out. She was about to whip his @$$. He went running & screaming like a punk & then called the cops on her, saying she threatened him.
2007-11-27 12:26:13 · update #1
I would just be broken hearted if my best friend was treated like that. It must be so hard for you and her. Support her in her decisions so that she always has a "safe" place to talk out her problems.
2007-11-28 03:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she needs to do more than just report the guy who harrassed her. She needs to get a lawyer and sue him. Second, I would just be there for her during this drama. There really isn't anything you can do at this point. She needs to deal with her boyfriend and his attitude towards her in her own way. I wouldn't get involved because it could come back in your face. Just be supportive and tell her your there for her. Be an ear to her so she has someone to talk to.
Don't accuse anyone of cheating unless you have clear and un-deniable proof.
2007-11-27 20:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by dg2003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an episode of cops guest starring the Jerry Spinger gang.
2007-11-27 20:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by George 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your girl needs a new life.. straight and simple.. she needs to quit her job. leave the @ss and get out of all of it and start over.. she deserves it.
2007-11-27 20:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Maria D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would think her BF is a spaz and she should totally not talk to him anymore.
2007-11-27 20:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She should her leave boyfriend.as simple as that
2007-11-27 20:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by shaira1305 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋