I've liked this one girl for a while, and have started talking to her a little bit. How can I hint that I like her, and see how she responds if she likes me without being to much in her face about it?
2007-11-27 11:53:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well , First , You have to Settle your heart that you like her much more than any other girl around !
Eyes Talk is your second move , girls can easily read eyes and face expressions , try to be yourself when you look her in the eye show how much you love her and how much you would like to stay with her for longer ... Admiration can show easily in your eyes .. !
If you wanna practice it , then its ok ... nothing to be ashamed of
and remember , Be yourself !
2007-11-27 12:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by Haitham Emad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all... Delete every comment on here about "flowers & compliments"... The thing I figured out about things like "flowers & gifts" is that it communicates to the girl that "I am not enough by myseself, that I have to BUY my way into this situation with gifts so that you will like me because I dont have ability to trigger your attraction switch"... TRUST ME... As you can see, everyone on here has the same advice, which means this girl has seen it a thousand times, and you HAVE to be different than everyone else!
If you are "talking" to the girl, then congrats.. Some guys dont even have the balls to do THAT...
One thing you said that was "key" is how do I HINT that I like her!?... BIG THING...I see guys all the time that say "How do I TELL her that I like her, or how I feel about her"?.... If you come out & "tell her" how you feel (or buy her flowers, or give her compliments), then you are giving away your "Power" in the situation, and she will feel she is DONE with the challenge, and on to the next thing..
What you need to do is start triggering "attraction" with her...
"Teasing" in a flirtacious way is the best thing you will ever learn... I had a post about this a few days ago called "Cocky & Funny" that some guy asked... Its a tecnique about teasing a woman with a cocky statement that is back handed with humor...
This is a GREAT tool to use.... I would bet you a million dollars that you have heard girls say they want a guy that is "Funny & confident"... Well I am gonna let you in on the secret here... C&F (Cocky Funny) is the tool that will communicate ALL these things... Ever seen a guy that is an ASSHOLE that gets the hot chicks?,,, Here is WHY!
He is probably being abusive & she doesnt understand WHY she is attracted, but its because the guy doesnt kiss her *** like every other jack ***, and she sees the uniqness in that... You can be "non nice guy" without the abuse, but C&F is the way to do it..
What you do is start "challenging" HER... Say something like "Nice shoes.. What are you, like 4 feet tall without them?"... Or "I like that shirt... Do they make that for women TOO?"... What you are doing is showing CONFIDENCE because you are not afraid to go out on a limb & challenge her, but you are also being flirtacious AND funny... The tough thing about C&F is that you HAVE to find the balance.. If you come across too cocky, you will sound like an asshole, & if you come across too funny, you will sound like a goof ball...
In short, just "vibe with her"... Dont "tell" her how you feel DIRECTLY (God, dont EVER do that)... if you challenge HER, then she will WANT your approval, and will seek YOUR hint that you like her...
if you have questions. holla
2007-11-27 20:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by Chris M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Chris M. You shouldn't give your crush roses or a gift, because then she'll be thinking you want to buy her love her or something. I'll only give you 2 options, because that's all I have for ideas and advice, so please, forgive me.
First option:
You should start with flirting. Start telling jokes, or teasing her (Even if it's mean, we girls all know that if someone teases us constantly, that most likely the boy that teases obviously likes us).
Second option: Tell her!
Sorry if I'm going to sound snobby in this paragraph, but I have to tell you, your crush isn't going to be around for long. She might go out with another guy, before you can even think she will go with another guy. You have to take some chances. SO what if she turns you down?! Move on and get over it!
She'll at least know that unlike some other boys, you actually have gotten the guts to tell her that you have a crush on her.
Hope this helps :}
2007-11-29 01:46:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send a rose with acard that says" just thinking of u" it works and youll be surprised how much work the rose will do for u so u wont have to be in her face. if she says somthing like" I dont feel the same way" tell her "I was just being a friend nothing else." But i think that ull find that the rose will get the responce ur looking for.
2007-11-27 20:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by ladybeach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, girls love to be told how pretty they are and also feelings other guys like yourself have for them. Trust me it works.
2007-11-27 19:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by HeyHeyHey99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww dude i think the best most romantic thing you can do is give her a rose...
thats a big hint!
2007-11-27 20:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her! she could say eww no way but what if she says omg i like u too and u go out! u will nvr know unless she knows too! just tell her, if she rejects u, u know its not meant to be!
2007-11-27 19:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by Megan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt wit here, show her the signals like starring at her. hopefully, she'll get it.
2007-11-27 19:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile and ask her out!
2007-11-27 19:57:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
compliment her and if that dosn't work just tell her
2007-11-27 19:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋