So my mom and dad have been splitting up on and off for years now. First my dad left my mom when I was just starting high school for my best friends mom and he kept bouncing back and forth for about 4 years. Finally they got divorced last a year ago may of 2007, so almost 2 years ago. This last august (07) he left my mom to be with the neighbor which they have both been friends with for about 6 years. Supposedly best friends with my mom. Well she divorced her husband of 13 years to be with my dad. So now they live next door to my mom and all these people do is start drama. They try to keep me involved...and its nothing but my mom and dad playing games...he gets over there and he is unhappy so him and my mom are planning on this affair and its just BS. They try to blame their drama on me and they have both turned my world upside down multiple times kicking me out and what not and blamming me for there messed up relationship. Curious to what people think about this!!
2007-11-27 12:24:34 · 5 answers · asked by ~Linds~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am 20 now. Im not in high school anymore!!
2007-11-27 13:16:31 · update #1
Get some much needed distance from them. Try to move out. You have your own life, you don't need their drama or to get wrapped up in their problem.
2007-11-27 12:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your parents are screwed up beyond belief, is what i think... sorry to say, and sorry to see you are in the middle.
I know it's very hard on kids to go through this with their parents... your parents also seem emotionally stunted, childish. You should never be put into the middle of adult problems, and not be involved at all!
It's NOT your fault.. never was, never will be.... It's your mom and dad's faults, and they have a lot of nerve to blame you for anything.
Hon, I hope you have a good school counselor.... you could probably use someone to talk with... if you do decide to talk to the school counselor, he or she might urge your parents to have you talk to a therapist, if that's what you want.
Sometimes we need help, and to talk with someone who undesrtands and who can help us learn to cope with the crazy things happening around us.
I hope you get the good help you DESERVE! hugs
2007-11-27 20:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so sorry for you. I dont know if you could call child protective service or not about it. Some people should not have children. The only good thing is that when you are grown you will seriously think twice about if you will have children and how you will provide a home for them without all this drama
2007-11-27 20:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by barthebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read my question. We aren't in the same situation, but both going through hell with our family. I feel for you. Get outta highschool fast, live and learn. Don't let them destroy you.
2007-11-27 20:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks crap! they should learn how to think!
2007-11-27 20:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by bt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋