ok theres this girl i like and i can tell she likes me and so her and i talk we text eachother so she was going through a hard time with her boyfriend and i was there for her and so she appreciated that but i asked her how her bf is doing and she said idk the last thing she said was he wanted a break all of a sudden
but i want to tell her how i feel about her how do i do it
or should i wait
please help me
2007-11-27 11:41:09 · 40 answers · asked by brandon f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok how long should i wait
is it a sure sign that her and her bf are breaking up?
2007-11-27 11:44:31 · update #1
another thing is her boyfriend treats her like **** he has ignored her for days and days
what do i do?
2007-11-27 11:54:31 · update #2
I would take it slow. Don't scare her...she's just gotten out of a realationship and may not be ready to jump right back into one. Let her make the moves. Invite her to things you are doing with groups of friends, take her for coffee at Starbucks, find out what she likes to do for fun and then plan some of it.
Good luck. I am a text junkie to. :o)
2007-11-27 11:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by yakimablueyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's so nice that you were there for her but don't move in so soon. I'm sure you don't want to be a rebound guy. If you truly care about her, back off with any propositons for a serious commitment because she is clearly dealing with some issues & not only needs time but needs space & mental clarity to get through it. Keep communication but keep it to greetings and just tell her that you are still here for her.
Breaks can mean anything. It could mean that they just need to sort some stuff out or it could mean that they want to ease into actually breaking up. She needs to make the right decisions for herself so whatever happens, just be a friend, because to ever be a boyfriend, you should really be friends.
2007-11-29 13:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by ♥True love waits♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, no, bad idea, you should definitely wait. You don't want to be getting her on the rebound. She may "like" you, but she is probably more just dependent on your being there so she can vent. If you tell her how you feel, she will feel trapped and pressured. What you CAN do is say that you can't understand why anyone would want to have a break from her - that will let her know you are interested, and flatter her, without moving in too closely.
2007-11-27 11:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by eldots53 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you two are as close as you make it seem, next time you can speak to her ALONE, just say "hey, I've got something I've wanted to tell you for a while.." tell her you don't want it to ruin your friendship if she doesn't feel the same, and ask her out of kindness not to get her bf involved in your talk. Tell her how you feel, and tell her "If things are really bad with him, I can do so much better than he is for you." Tell her you won't do the things he is, and you'll be much better to her. Make sure you tell her you'll give her as much time as she needs though, so she doesn't feel like you've rushed her away from him. Also tell her you'll be there for her the whole time.
2007-11-27 11:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by yeah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.... this is hard, becuz this thing might go out many possible ways. ok, well ummm.... u can try to reasons y she should break up wit her bf. then she might be convince, and then after that u can then tell her how u feel! i say go for it! just wait until time is rite! i'm srry if this doesnt work, but everyone noe when its the rite time. if u say this is the perfect time then u can go for it!
good luck ! i hopes this goes well!
2007-11-27 11:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by Go with the flow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait. I'm sure that this girl, if she breaks up with him, will want to take a vacation from guys for a little bit. Just wait a while.
2007-11-27 11:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by coloradogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait til her and her bf break up, then tell her. you may want to wait a few days or like a week because trust me..you dont want to be her immediate 'rebound' that shes dating just so she could have a bf again.
2007-11-27 11:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just tell her how you feel. If she feels the same, maybe you two can go out or something. I think that if you are already close friends and you were helping her that she would like you for being sensitive to her feelings. Hope this Helps!!!Good Luck♥
2007-11-27 11:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by vannerbananer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should wait a couple of weeks and see what happens then try asking about it again.If they broke up then keep talking to her and stuff and when you feel its right to talk to her, then go for it. But to be safe I wouldnt jump right to as soon as you find out they broke up. Just be patient with it. You never know what will happen.
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Good Luck!!
2007-11-27 11:48:52 · answer #9 · answered by my_iq_55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT!!! Women rush into things in times of need. I would wait and see if she comes to you with these feelings and wven then I would be cautious. Make sure she is over her boyfriend and he is out of the picture. PATIENCE. If she likes you she is not going anywhere.
2007-11-27 11:45:02 · answer #10 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋