So I'm in eighth grade and lots of my friends talk about like kissing and making out at the movies and stuff. I have a girlfriend and we've been going out for like a month. She's basically ready to like take our relationship to a new level. Anyways, we're going to the movies on friday... and she's already like kissed me on the cheek and stuff, so when we go and we kiss, which I am assuming will be on the lips, because neither of us are very prude, should i use my tongue?
2007-11-27 11:37:02 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no not at first lol your to young to use your tounge, work up to it at least
2007-11-27 11:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by Manny 3 · 7⤊ 3⤋
Honey, you are only in the 8th grade! You have more important things to think about other than whether or not you should use tongue while kissing a girl! lol However... girls are usually the more shy ones, and can easily get scared by someone being overly aggressive. Let things just go with the flow. If she wants some tongue action she'll go for it herself! Either way, have fun!
2007-11-27 11:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by Val 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No! Not so soon. Don't rush it.. Seriously a month isn't that long. My last boyfriend and I dated for about 7 months and we never ended up making out, and we were just as happy. You want to work up to something like that, on not do it as soon as you guys kiss on the lips, because then every single other girlfriend you have will think your always ready and willing to do that as soon as you start dating, and that's never really a good situation (even if it seems like it is=]) Just take things slow, and if she wants to use tongue I guess whatever happens happens.
2007-11-27 11:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by Sikadakram 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If, up to now, you've only ever kissed on the cheek then no. Kiss her on the lips a few times before introducing the tongue.
2007-11-27 11:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by Meana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the whole tongue thing is like what the majority of kids are doing at your school in your grade, then id assume thats what she'd expect. when i was in 8th grade everyone was on the same level, whether thatd be tongue kissing or plain kissing.
2007-11-27 11:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not on the three first kisses
cuz she is a 8th grader she might think that its disgusting
anyway
if she does it first then go for it but if she doesnt and u really want to do it
when u are kissin her touch her lips with ur tongue if she responds keep doing it til u get to the next level
if she moves back then dont do it again til she does it
dont rush it unless she starts
tip: dont no anything she doesnt want to do
2007-11-27 11:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont you think your a little young to be worried about kissing? but i guess nowadays you youngsters are moving so fast but anyway i guess if you guys are gonna go through with that then yes its cool to use a little tongue since your not an expert like myself the best advice i can give you is take it slow dont get over excited and just ram your tongue in there start of with a little peck and them gradually stick it in there but i like totally recomend that you just stick to the books andfocus on school instead of like your girlfriends but then again what do i know right
2007-11-27 11:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by justmeiguess 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not right away
(I can't believe you waited that long though)
But kiss for like 4 or 5 seconds, than lick her lips with your tongue
and if she wants to make out, she'll "kiss back"
2007-11-27 11:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by nas t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could but if i was you i'd slowly go towards that stage rather than jumping in at the deep end and finding out too late that your out of your depths. How old is eighth grade anyhow?
2007-11-27 11:43:34 · answer #9 · answered by dale s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing is the "next level"? I thought anal sex was the next level.
Don't use your tongue on your first real kiss. Son, you have to build up to that. Just watch some videos of older people kissing without tongue and see how they do it. That is what you should do.
2007-11-27 11:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
eight grade and you are worrying about this... you are too young to go to any next level! hold her hand and kiss her on the cheek. good grief kids why rush into kissing and touching? I don't understand youth these days. when I was in eight grade I was consumed with cartoons and video games, kissing and making out wasn't any interest to me. hold hands and give her a kiss on the cheek when you say goodnight. ^.~
2007-11-27 11:42:12 · answer #11 · answered by Mommy of Lily, Daisy, and Jayson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋