We have a very good and adventurous sex life. My wife just recently started working after our youngest started school. We just can't seem to get together. When shes at work, I'm at home and when I'm at work, she's at home. It usually ends up with us having sex 2-3 times per month, which is way below where we want it to be. Whats a couple to do?
2007-11-27 12:04:28 · 7 answers · asked by mitchsnarlin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Work affects and is not in a possitive way and you can see it. It's not true that with having a good organization everything will be alright. You guys may have to decide between working on that job or forget that you guys are a couple, it's all up to you and now you can do it. Is as simple as that.
2007-11-27 12:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Opposite shifts can be a bummer. But off days if you get one together use them for sex. If not take a day off from work or your wife take a day off. It can be so much fun when you plan to spend the whole day pleasing your partner. If the kids are not at school hire a babysitter. You can't keep putting off your marriage. Me and my soon to be ex husband did that and eventually we were two different people going in two different directions.
2007-11-27 13:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by rene1695 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're both working 12 hour shifts, there has to be a few hours per day when you're both home. Find time for quickies, anything to get those numbers up.
2007-11-27 13:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by jeff b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont care what anybody says, but this is the main reason for most slow sex lives. LIFE, there is always something that needs done especially with a family and a job. wednesday arent really humpday and it should be. lol lol
2007-11-27 12:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to steal a weekend away sometime real soon.
2007-11-27 12:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong , Love grows , so long as you both stick to each other .
2007-11-27 12:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes tired, let her be - shes worth more to you that sex isnt she. some people dont even get it at all.
2007-11-27 12:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋