Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

2007-11-27 12:47:06 · 1 answers · asked by *im in such an adventure (life)* 1 in Singles & Dating

Can she interfere with the time and financial support that I spend with my other kids? I've screwed up in my life in more ways than one, I just hate the idea of not being to be there for child that my girlfriend is presently carrying. I missed out on all my kids' best years because I was going to school and working two some times three jobs. It scares the heck out of me, not being there for the latest. I wasn't planning on this. I never wanted to have more kids, but it happened cuz my freaking sperm is apparently too sticky. My other kids were all born over 7 years ago when I was too dumb and messed up. I wanna be a full time dad for her so badly but if my other kids are gonna get screwed over then I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do.

2007-11-27 12:46:14 · 9 answers · asked by Sean 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my partner and me have had a horrible weekend with his mum brother and auntie rigning us up and going nuts about a money situation that we are in the right about anyway he has a cousin whos wedding is in two weeks that we have sent a rsvp into. whats a nice way to put we arent coming she is aware there is some family issues going on. i feel rude but i cant face these people they are horrible but the cousin isnt.

2007-11-27 12:45:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

quote about it?
I believe Mae West said it best:
"They say love is blind...and marriage is an institution. Well, I'm not ready for an institution for the blind just yet"

2007-11-27 12:45:23 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are getting ready to go through a seperation. I told him that he has 30 days to pack all of his stuff and move out of our apartment. He told me that if I kick him out that he would hunt me down, and kill me. I told him that I would have the locks changed and have a restraining order against him, and he just laughed. He said that if he couldn't be with me no one could be with me. I have had him arrested before and he came back again. His parents think that we just need time apart and we will learn to appreciate each others company, I believe that my life is in danger if we stay together. I have tried leaving him before and that did not work. So is there any other possible thing that I could do?

2007-11-27 12:44:53 · 13 answers · asked by Jordan Is My Love 3 in Marriage & Divorce

This person is inconsistent with his storys and constantly has outburst when confronted .I have given many chances to this person for the same reasons allready-he try to change but his back to his old habits. this one is real hard for me to get over- his outbust is scaring me- I want out of the relashionship but I dont know how to be assertive and clear and mean what I say and say what I mean..P.S English is my second lenguage so please excuse my spelling and thanks in advance for your answers.

2007-11-27 12:44:03 · 3 answers · asked by Canela 3 in Singles & Dating

my uncles and aunties are nice. they want to give me some clothes for cold weather. we live in the same town.
I love to accept their gifts, though I can afford it.
But I will not tolerate that they will talk about "their gift" that I wear in a family gathering. The sad thing is they WILL say things about their gift in front of everyone.

How can I politely reject their "gift".

2007-11-27 12:43:27 · 5 answers · asked by mayer 1 in Family

its the only room in the house with a computer and tv and its really awkward when there making out and a$s-grabbing!

2007-11-27 12:43:08 · 64 answers · asked by josh 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

should`nt of. in a txt now it`s been 2-3 days and i don`t know what to say or do next feel like asking what she means feel like getting to point feel like getting a bit funny (which i don`t want to do) or keep it as light hearted and friendly as possible my choice what would you do next please any help ?

2007-11-27 12:43:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 12:42:22 · 5 answers · asked by Yea Yea 4 in Family

I need help to stop lying. I do it to just about anyone. I tell people what I think they want to hear so they will continue to like me. What do I do? I feel bad about it, but I feel like I can't stop. I do it on impulse now, and its like I've dug a hole. Help?

2007-11-27 12:41:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am newly wedded. My husband is the only son of his parents. He is very good at heart and a decent guy. he has studied in a boys' school. so he has never come across girls-no girlfriend, no sister. so now he is shy with me also. he does make love when he is alone but feels shy to even hold my hand in public.

2007-11-27 12:40:56 · 10 answers · asked by Spicy 1 in Family

2007-11-27 12:40:31 · 14 answers · asked by sharon b 1 in Singles & Dating

I went to a friend of mines Myspace page today. Her husband in the military and she had posted a blog about cheating due to being deployed with those of the opposite sex. I've been divorced for two years now but was married to my high school sweetheart for almost 8 years. One particular person had responded to the blog saying, "I totally understand. Cheating is horrible! I could NEVER pursue a married man. I think that's the worst thing a woman can do." What struck me as ironic in this is that my ex-husband used to work with her when we first were married. We had been married a year and I was 8 months pregnant with my daughter, and later found out that she had 'pleasured him orally' at that time. I think it's such bull to be such a hypocrit! Although I've moved past that whole time in my life, this really aggravated me. I have made mistakes...and I admit them. Doesn't anyone have enough character to be honest anymore? Am I the only person who is still REAL?

2007-11-27 12:40:31 · 17 answers · asked by Paranormal Investigator in Ohio 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my cusin, whos like my bff, is pretty, blonde and skinny. shes got plenty of guys chasing after her. theres a supposedly popular guy at school, who always tells me stuff like "i like ur bracelet," and cheers me on when i say somethin funny. i can totally tell my cusin likes him, believe me... she does. and she sees he doesnt even talk to her lol, just to me. i did something not so nice the other day, "the guy" asked me if my cusin liked him, and i was like ...yeah, she loves u. do u think this is like betraying her?? she never told me she liked him or that it was a secret or anything, and i know i told the truth. but i know she wouldnt like to know i told him that... do u think i was mean?? just wondering

2007-11-27 12:38:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

explain what do you like in your real relationships from your partner..what are your expectations? how does he/ she make you feel secure?..No general answers pleas I need details..I need to know what does a healthy, and real relationship look like...be reasonable.

2007-11-27 12:37:50 · 16 answers · asked by Paris 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-27 12:37:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i found out last week that my to-be-wife has a bridesmaid that wanted me to know she liked me...............this is crazy because i am getting married next month...........and though she is hot i dont like her like that............she is needy and clingy and annoying as hell...............do i tell my girl? or do i just act like nothing happened and not act on it at all?

2007-11-27 12:35:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It has been two years since I have gotten anything for my birthday and I asked my mom if she would ask my grandma if they could bou me a laptop to make up for my b-day but she said that my grandma said that she could maybe spend fifty bucks on me if that. And all I'm getting from my mom is a crappy mp3 player. Has this ever happend to you?

2007-11-27 12:34:50 · 8 answers · asked by krazybrownblondebrat 1 in Family

My parents try to control me. I'm only 14 and I know there are some things that I have to listen to and somethings that I can't get because I'm just too young. I stopped asking for a nose piercing because I knew I could just wait till i'm 18 and get one. The one thing that really bothers me is my mom and dad. They're going through this "big divorce" it doesnt bother me at all because I don't like either of them. I mean of course i love them, but its just the fact that they piss me off so much and upset me too. I asked my dad the other day if he could schedule a hair appointment for me so I could get the end of my hair razored and my hair thinned out (its really thick and I really don't like it on me) He couldnt think of a reason not to say no so he was all "your mom could say something to a judge and she'd get custody of you!" what the ****. It's my hair. Then my mom was like "I've made that mistake when I was your age you cant cut your hair unless you get it like mine!" I don't want

2007-11-27 12:32:50 · 5 answers · asked by courtneygrater838 2 in Family

i married a woman who was a virgin.we just got back from our honeymoon but i noticed whenever we have sex she just lays there and stares at the ceiling.its not enjoyable for me and when im done she rolls over and goes to sleep.
she made a few noises but nothing significant sometimes she willll move away from me alittle
what do you think is wrong?

2007-11-27 12:32:09 · 8 answers · asked by .i. 1 in Family

2007-11-27 12:32:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Could you married people please tell me how you met your spouses?? How does one actually find their true soulmate?

2007-11-27 12:31:04 · 26 answers · asked by mellisa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm nothing but a teenager. Strong Catholic and close to God. I have family problems.

No Dad. Grandparents have custody. Mom is trying to be a mother and she does a good job, but because of custody she can't over-rule my grandparents so called better judgement. She's been kicked out of the house 4 times in the past year. I've been kicked out 2ice. Because my grandparents think that we evil. My bestfriend won't answer his phone and there is no one else that I can turn to. My past is coming back to haunt me and i can't get it to go away. I have what is called phycosymatic pain. It creates Kidney Stones... I'll have one by the end of the week.

I'm 14. Can't do much. Its serious, not just some dumb problem. Counselors want to bring in Child Services but We've been through hell with them before, and they stuck my mom in a hospital. NO. She didn't do anything it was my step-dads fault, he was just to much of a bastard to admit it. He molested me and cops didn't believe. what ?

2007-11-27 12:30:55 · 4 answers · asked by Nicole G 1 in Family

I know money isn't everything but it counts for something evidently. I have been dating this 24 year old guy. He's really nice but he needs a form of income. He still lives with his parents and he borrows money from his friend to do simple stuff like go to the movies. He ask me to go to lunch but we always pay seperately. He use to tell me he was looking for a job but lately I haven't even gotten that excuse. There are things I want to do that I know are out of the question. I just think at 24 you need to do for yourself. I am 22 and working. I have always had a job because there was no way I could live with my mom without a job. How do I tell this man to get a job. How long should I wait until I give up on this relationship. Its been 4 months already.

2007-11-27 12:30:43 · 15 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3 in Singles & Dating

Oh no... my boyfriend did cheat on me. I mean, yes I felt that he did... and he did. Remember when I was so proud of him being faithful 2 me? Well, I was going to write something to him on his myspace when i thought that his profile was mine... anyway it was an accident that i read his mssgs. This was what I found in his box:
"[his name] i am just going to tell you one thing and then i think i need to stay away from you for a while. if you ever remember what we talked about last night i meant what i said. But i take it all back seeing as you don remember . In the future please don't say or do that to me again unless you mean it next time okay. I guess i talk to you in a few months so that way i can forget about all that went on last night.

p.S. i guess i really will never know

I..........can't really say anything else"

WHAT IS THIS SUPPOSED TO MEAN?!

2007-11-27 12:28:53 · 17 answers · asked by tinybubbles 5 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend broke up about four weeks ago,
& I've been trying to move on.
he was the second hottest sophomore at our school.
and i missss him =[

Soo there's this other guy...
who everyone calls the "sexiii mexi."
cause he's like 1/4 spanish
&& he's soooo hott =]
oh and he's a freshman like me.

but anywayyys...
the sexi mexi has beeen texting me
for like the past four days...

is he hinting me?
or anything?
how should i flirt with him through text?!




ahhhh

[any advice would be amazingggg]
thanks much♥

and he's been

2007-11-27 12:26:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 12:26:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I’m a college student and I live in a townhouse style apartment. I have 4 other roommates. So any way this one roommate of mine has this boyfriend, he is kind of older, we are both 20 and he is like 27. So anyway he always gets trashed on Thursday nights, usually, I don’t know why Thursdays, and then comes over and gets in bed with my roommate, I think he might have a key. So anyway the bar he goes to is pretty close, he comes over and can barley get down the hall to her room. This has gone on for months.

So anyway one Thursday night my roommate was at her parent’s house. I had been drinking, not a whole lot, and I started to think, her boyfriend is kind of cute, he is self employed and has a lot of free time it seems. So anyways as I had a few drinks with my roommates and I wondered if he would even notice if I was asleep in her bed when he stumbled in. I thought it would be funny.

2007-11-27 12:25:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Seems like many women(even men) are catty towards each other and cannot accept females as authority figures.
Cause if that wasnt the case there would have been at LEAST 1 woman President in America since the year America, land of the free and equal was born.

Over 200 years of "free and equal" and no woman President yet? hmmmmmmmmmmmm interesting. And for those who are slow and will point out that women havent had the right to vote until recently...........THAT's my point. It isnt free and equal then is it?????

2007-11-27 12:25:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce