2007-11-27 12:40:31 · 14 answers · asked by sharon b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are pros and cons to being single, as there are to being in a relationship.
I enjoyed being single for many years - there is a level of independance you have when you're single that you have to give up when you're in a relationship.
However being in a wonderful, loving relationship can have so many benefits that makes losing that independance worth it.
2007-11-27 12:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kleineganz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a question that only you can truly answer.
Think about these things:
1. Are you a social bunny? Do you NEED to be with people in order to have fun?
2. Do you feel a great urge to be in a relationship when your not in one?
3. Have you ever worried about being single the rest of your life. Does the thought bother you?
If you think about these things, you can usually make a good decision on what would be better. Personally, I like being in a relationship. I wouldn't like being single all my life, but if that was the case then I could survive. Just be happy in whatever relationship status your in.
Enjoy life no matter what the circumstances. After all, you only have 1 life to enjoy, so you better enjoy it while you can. [thats my slogan =)]
2007-11-27 20:47:17 · answer #2 · answered by Adam C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice being single, because you can go and do what you want, you don't have to check in with anyone and tell them when you're coming home, where you're going, etc. However, it would not be nice for your whole life. It can get depressing sometimes if you're single for the rest of your life.
2007-11-27 20:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by coloradogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's got pros and cons. Of course too much of anything is hard to take. Maybe find a happy medium of being single with lots of friends, or being married with a lot of alone time.
2007-11-27 20:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well probably not but iv been single for 5 years out of choice so i can concentrate on my daughter, and i haven't missed not having a partner around, to many people are co-dependent
2007-11-27 20:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find when i am single for a while, I can really see how much more fun it is, like when all my friends are like ohh he dumped me i never liekd him and stuff, Im like ok i get it shut up now. i think i like being single
2007-11-27 20:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by scrumptious.babee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i think so but not for your whole life.
you should like the fact of spending the rest of your life with someone who loves you and knows you. someone you can hold and know they will never leave you. =]
2007-11-27 20:43:35 · answer #7 · answered by Bina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for a good part of your life...yes. Its best to get to know yourself first and find yourself before sharing a committed relationship with someone else. The better you know yourself first, the easier it is to understand and love someone else.
2007-11-27 20:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if thats the way your life pushes you? why not! keep life fun you dont need someone to nag at you!
2007-11-27 20:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Works for me.
2007-11-27 20:44:40 · answer #10 · answered by Yea Yea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋