This person is inconsistent with his storys and constantly has outburst when confronted .I have given many chances to this person for the same reasons allready-he try to change but his back to his old habits. this one is real hard for me to get over- his outbust is scaring me- I want out of the relashionship but I dont know how to be assertive and clear and mean what I say and say what I mean..P.S English is my second lenguage so please excuse my spelling and thanks in advance for your answers.
2007-11-27 12:44:03 · 3 answers · asked by Canela 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This person may have Attention Deficit Disorder, but in any case, this person is not going to change. If you are scared, you need to end it - this can not be good for you. You need to tell him clearly that you are not interested in dating him any more, and then do not talk to him again. You know what you need to do, be strong and just cut it off.
2007-11-27 12:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by eldots53 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Irrational behavior and excuses are never good in a boyfriend. Make sure that his outbursts don't turn into physical abuse, because he is following the pattern so far. Just tell him that you are not happy and that you need to work on yourself before you can have a good relationship with someone else. It does not matter if that is true or not because you want to make sure that someone like him thinks that you are blaming the break-up on yourself and not on him. Good luck.
2007-11-27 20:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Beth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say tell him that you want out .. but u might need help bring people with you .. if he try anything
2007-11-27 20:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by Mama J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋