i found out last week that my to-be-wife has a bridesmaid that wanted me to know she liked me...............this is crazy because i am getting married next month...........and though she is hot i dont like her like that............she is needy and clingy and annoying as hell...............do i tell my girl? or do i just act like nothing happened and not act on it at all?
2007-11-27 12:35:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd let it go. She just told you that she liked you. Your fiance is probably a little stressed right now and she doesn't need this. If you want, tell her after the wedding when she is more relaxed. Just keep your distance from this girl and if she tries to spend time with you (talking, wanting to dance) make up some feeble excuse to get away. If this girl is what you say she is...then it's probably just for attention.
2007-11-27 12:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by mhchicetawn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to avoid the drama with your wife-to-be you can approach the bridesmaid and put her in check. Tell her that you love your fiancee, you are flattered that she likes you but there is no chance for you and her. Let her know about anything she's doing to make you feel uncomfortable and that you would like the behavior to cease. If she continues, tell your fiancee and have her deal with the chick.
2007-11-27 12:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your fiance. It will give her time to replace the bridesmaid if she has to. If your fiance doesn't believe you, it will be your chance to get out of marrying her. Hey, she's never going to trust you any more than she does right now. If you're liar now, it's only gonna get worse.
2007-11-27 13:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by noshaymatall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow this is a tough one.....I am thinking that you need to tell the friend to get lost and also that you are going to be telling your girl about this as it is the right thing to do....why would this girl deserve to be in your wedding acting like she is your to be wifes friend when she is not....she is a -hore.....and if she wasn't she would have keep her feelings to herself and never said anything to you.
2007-11-27 12:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by thats me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy. Nip this in the bud before it gets out of hand. My husband had better tell me if one of my friends came on to him. Respect your mate and tell her. No true friend would every cross the line and this woman has. Either you handle it or you need to tell your wife to be so she can.
2007-11-27 12:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you tell your girl this will be one of the most important days of your life and one day what if your girl founds out you knew and did not tell her plus this girl does not need to be in your wedding. a wedding is a woman day she waits for all her life let her pick someone special to share it with good luck
2007-11-27 12:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by allison b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your wife man, because she will either believe you or she won't. It could get really ugly, if this discussion comes after your wedding. Who knows, you might be able to get a threesome out of it, lol.
2007-11-27 12:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by NBL 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell ur girl couse she don't need a friend like that. if u act on it and are even thinking about then this is not the girl u need to be married to.
2007-11-27 12:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your wife to be that you HEARD this and that you didn't want her to think anything was happening if she found out from someone else. and that you don't want it to effect anything and that you just didn't want nothing to be said be her back. good luck
2007-11-27 12:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by Bina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your fiancee. If her friend truly is this and your fiancee finds out later, she will regret having her in your wedding, and she isn't a true friend.
2007-11-27 12:38:39 · answer #10 · answered by derek1079 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋