i was walking home from work early cause i work near home and i was walking by a car in my parking space and i seen two people thru the window so i stop to see what they were in my space for. when i looked in the guy was on top of my girlfriend with her legs up. i banged on the window said you ***** and waited for them to do something they just looked at me with the doors closed so i just begin scratching **** into the car with my key and denting the car. i was scared like what the hell should i do. cop well not do anything. i hoped on the roof and was like your done woman but when i walked away i watch them and she hoped out and he left. she came up stairs and said she was sorry and i said pack get out im done. now she saying that nothing well ever happen again and shes done forever. i make sleep on the couch and trat her like a dog. i dont know what to do i locked her out but i pay the bills she has a name on the lease? let me know
2007-11-27 11:01:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-11-27 11:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by lalala 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um, like any self-respecting person, get a cheap hotel for a few days while finding a furnished apartment on a short term lease. You want to be made a fool of your whole life? Ah, I won't do it again, I promise. Landed Nicole Simpson in the morgue and countless others with all sorts of STD's and significant others paying child support to mega kids everywhere. Wash your hands of this relationship now and get a fresh start. If her name is on the lease you don't need to worry about anything. If the phone and electric is in your name -- cancel as soon as you walk out that door!
2007-11-27 11:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by Cash 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Really messed up. But if her name is on the lease you can't really kick her out. You are living with someone, not married to her. Did you discuss what happened with her? Is there a reason for her actions? If you can't iron things out, then one of you, or both will have to leave. Has either of you started looking for a new place? Maybe you need to just stop the boyfriend/girlfriend relationship and move on. Being mean to her won't solve anything. There has to be a reason for her to do this.
2007-11-27 11:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Move. Don't treat her like a dog. She will just know how bad you are into her. Take the rest of the lease time to look around for a new place. That sort of blatancy says to me she is bad news. Oh yeah and pay a visit to a VD clinic.
2007-11-27 11:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by nutsfornouveau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun,there are one of two things you can do.Many are going to say this first one im sure.That being,kick her to the curb.Obviously there are some issues there.You,if you really love her and are willing to work it out,could go to a therapist.Talk about the problem,because there is one if she is going elsewhere,and odds are it isnt just in the bedroom.If you cannot get over the fact,then maybe calling it quits is the best option for you.You have two options in front of you,only you know which is appropriate for your situation.If your willing to find the root of the problem,work through the problem and forgive...then that is a good choice.It isnt impossible to do,but isnt the easiest choice either.Good luck sweetie,have a good night,and i am sorry about your situation.
2007-11-27 11:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I guess in my opinion, it would be you to get out of the house. I mean, if you stay there, all you'll get are memories of what they did togther and why you're alone. I don't think anyone wants that. But hey, why not talk to her a bit 1st, and see her feelings on it too, then express your own. Personally, I believe that of she has sex with someone while you'll not there, there's a high possibilty that she'll do it again. Good Luck
2007-11-27 12:20:54 · answer #6 · answered by Laura M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take the initiative and go stay with friends or family until the lease is up.....
Other wise you can just keep treating her like a dog until the lease is up and then you two can just go your own ways.
2007-11-27 11:10:51 · answer #7 · answered by ... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dis is a easy one. u need to let her go lease or no lease. She disrespected you right in front of your home. When she says she will never do it again, she is just telling you what she needs to so that she can't get kick out.she is untrustworthy you need to find some u can trust because u will be wondering wat she is doing when u two aren't together.
2007-11-27 11:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by Pediatricianp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of your names are on the lease, try to get yours off and move out if she won't. If it's just her name, stop paying for it. Move out.
2007-11-27 11:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by ღ♥Jess♥ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has the name on the lease you might be screwed so start looking for a new place to live. and drop that *****
2007-11-27 11:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by mouchy123 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her to write a list of everything she wants have her sign it and also have her agrtee to get her name off the lease. That is very innapropriate.
2007-11-27 11:08:02 · answer #11 · answered by ♥[[Alyssa]]♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋