Family & Relationships - 27 November 2007

2007-11-27 09:43:41 · 9 answers · asked by gal1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently broke up with my bf of two years, and although I am moving on, I noticed one thing that I was scared of saying my true feeling to him. I even noticed that I am scared of being hated by friends.

During we were together, I didn't fight with him and I really haven't fight with my friends either. I have many great friends who understand me, but I just noticed that I am scared of being hated by people.

I talked with one of female friends and she is very expressive person. She is confident and can say anything without having any fear. BUT she told me that until she was over 30 year old, she felt the fear all the time for friends, family, boy friends, etc.

SO,
I am not really concerning about it and trying to tell myself that is normal.

Q1: Do you have a similar feeling?
Q2: Any good way of keeping my fear?
Q3: Have you changed/ improved about your fear? How?

2007-11-27 09:41:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like him, and he's really nice, but two of my friends like him, and he likes my best friend (not one of the ones who like him) and she's convinced me and him were made for each other, and everyone says we would be cute together.

2007-11-27 09:38:43 · 31 answers · asked by Cupcake 2 in Singles & Dating

I just found out that my girlfriend of two years lied about her age. I discovered this on my own and quite by accident. I thought she was a year older than me, but she is actually six years older. She said she lied because she was afraid of losing me, but two years have gone by and she never told me until confronted. It's not so much the age difference that I am struggling with, but the lie.

Input? Advice? Suggestions?

2007-11-27 09:37:49 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i asked my fiance (we do not live together) to bring some bottled water and soap when he comes over today. he said that's my responsibility and he'll just bring wine and food. why can't he spend $2 on some bottled water and soap? is he possibly just in a bad mood? i'm just confused. please help.

2007-11-27 09:37:47 · 21 answers · asked by Loon-A-TiK 4 in Singles & Dating

Every holiday I leave in tears & so angry, asking myself where did I go wrong? I raised 3 girls each one different as night & day. One of them (30 yrs old) always w/o fail says something hurtful & insulting to me, naturally in front of everyone of course in hopes of getting a laugh. This Thanksgiving her zinger not only hurt me but an innocent by-stander as well and was totally uncalled for! Apparently that wasn't enough so she started in on her younger sister! When I called her on it the next day (I didn't want to upset everyone by getting into it with her then) she said she did nothing out of line to either of us! Yet everyone asks me why I let her get by with that stuff she's just to old to take out back to the wood shed and even when she wasn't it would have done no good. I now refuse to go to Christmas because of her, it should be me Christmas is about the children and my grandchildren shouldn't miss out. My fear is if I'm not there she'll do it to someone else. What do I do?

2007-11-27 09:35:37 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

2007-11-27 09:35:26 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

for free

2007-11-27 09:35:21 · 57 answers · asked by Beast from the East 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't understand when you find a nice girl that is attractive, funny, smart and just wows you all around and she always ends up dating one of your friends or sleeping with someone else before she tells you anything is going on. They always flirt with you and lead you on like they want more but just end up with some other guy. Why not tell me they are into someone else so I can not expect more? I understand if someone they liked more came along and they wanted to be with them. I just want to stop getting my feeling hurt and wasting time.

2007-11-27 09:34:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 09:34:44 · 10 answers · asked by bria_royster 1 in Friends

i broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years a few weeks ago. the thing is we broke up because we had alot of stupid arguments and little fights. i am going to see him this weekend to speak to him and really want to get back with him as i really love him so much and want be with him, but he just thinks we only will argue and fight. how can i change his mind that i do not want that never again and want to make a fresh start and to know how serious i am with him and we could get relationship counseling and advice. please help. thanxs

2007-11-27 09:34:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

she aint my gf or anything. but i asked her out a month ago and she rejected me. i wished her well in her life. we did not communicate until today when she sent me this weird message:
'oh my god im so bored!!!!!!!!!!!!!'

i replied with 'i know what you mean im bored!! too'
is that a stupid reply?

she did not reply.
is she using me for company? what should a MAN do?

2007-11-27 09:32:12 · 12 answers · asked by dave 1 in Singles & Dating

Just yesterday I was hanging out with my friends at the mall. Everything seemed normal and perfect being that we were at our favorite place, doing our favorite thing---> Shopping! Then out of no where, someone started shooting. The shots were so loud and felt like it was right by my ear. I was running and had no idea where too. Everyone was running and screaming. Mothers and their children, etc. It was so scary. Like something in a movie. I mean you turn on the Tv and heard about crime all day. But you never think that one day you'll be caught in the middle of it or even a victim of it.

It's strange how we wake up everyday...and not have the slightest clue on whats gonna happen to you or where. I woke up monday morning to get an earlier start on my christmas shopping and I would never imaged almost being shot. Thank god no one was seriously hurt. But what if? There was so many people, moms and their kids. It just sorta makes you think. This world is so crazy!

2007-11-27 09:29:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I needed a car because I am 17 years old and he's getting the Audi Q7/Q5 (not sure yet) because he's convinced that it's the best SUV on the market (and trust me, it drives WAY better than the Cayenne.) Anyways, my mother starting yelling at him because she says its "inapropriate" for a teen girl to drive a car like that and that he should buy me a Nissan SUV instead. Would a father who would make a normal decision of handing down his old car be crazy?

2007-11-27 09:28:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-27 09:27:49 · 47 answers · asked by some.things.last.forever 2 in Singles & Dating

he's great, but not a good kisser...too much saliva, and he sort of presses too hard into me so i cant move my head and he doesnt move his..its just uncomfortable.
been together a while and ive never said anything, so how can i go about it now...cos i really want to enjoy kissing him.

2007-11-27 09:27:45 · 10 answers · asked by spdy 5 in Singles & Dating

there's this friend of mine that i'm in love with, and she knows it... i've told her a few times over e-mail, and i've asked her out (she said she's sworn off all guys)but i just want to know if it would freak her out if i walked up to her in class and told her i loved her... i want to do it because i want to see if she cares or not (i can tell by looking her in the eyes, dont ask for details as to how... i dont even know)

2007-11-27 09:27:05 · 5 answers · asked by BORED 4 in Singles & Dating

I wrote a question a couple weeks ago about how I should dill with the fact that my kids where going crazy and taking me with them this is not an everyday thing so I was stressed and asked how other dill with it. Well I got responses like your a bad mother etc. Well I have been at home from the day they were born I get up at the crack of dawn to make breakfast everyday take my boys to school so they don't have to ride the bus go to all school functions and volunteer I have my 2 yr old at home that I spend all day with I feed,bath,dress and love everyone of my kids have never pawned them off on anyone. So how come It makes me a bad mother because I got stressed one day and asked if any one else has the same problem if so how they dealt with it? It's funny I see questions involving ppl doing drugs around their kids and have sex with stranger and kids catching them and they don't get as many your a bad mother as I did for my I'm going crazy question I find this sad don't you?

2007-11-27 09:25:51 · 6 answers · asked by mommym00n 3 in Family

My Boyfreind and i have been going out for about two months. But it seems lik it is getting really boring. Does enyone have any ideas on how to make it more excting or something......

2007-11-27 09:24:38 · 36 answers · asked by Abby S 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 17 and hafe and the last boyfriend i had it did not go to well i was in love with him and it did't work for reasons and i am haveing some problems finding someone who will treat me good i am only finding Mr.wrong

2007-11-27 09:24:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hurt everyone in a family? Its a drug isn't it?

2007-11-27 09:24:08 · 9 answers · asked by janjaley 2 in Family

I know is weird but i would like to know..........
#1

2007-11-27 09:21:30 · 14 answers · asked by babyhott#1 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 09:20:44 · 24 answers · asked by nlove741852 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-27 09:19:37 · 24 answers · asked by Karmin T 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend to death but I recently met this guy that for some reason I can not stop thinking about. This is wrong right?? OMG what to do???

2007-11-27 09:19:29 · 14 answers · asked by LUVuLUVme 1 in Singles & Dating

I hung out with her twice which was a few months ago. We really got along well, but I didn't try to keep in touch and she's shy, so she didn't either. A few nights ago I saw her at a party and forgot her name. She seemed to get mad because of it. Anyway, I realized that night that I really liked her. I asked her for her number to catch up to which she replied "We only hung out twice, lol, you're very interesting." She didn't give me the number, but anyway, she's going through a tough time right now, her friend is in the hospital and I sent her a bouquet of flowers (not roses) and said on the card "smile, kassi" and i put "from the guy who is very sorry he forgot your name" to cheer her up. I just want to make her smile. Is it ok that I did this, or is because we don't know each other that well it a bad move??

2007-11-27 09:19:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me about 2 weeks ago. We haven't really been that happy for the last year but mostly because we've moved to a new area and have no friends so we were stuck with each other. I've realized through this break up how awful we were to each other for the last year, but I also realize I that I still love him. I tried to break up with him a few times but he always begged me to stay. This is the first time he has broken up with me. I was and still am a mess. I begged him to come back and he refused saying he really needed to find out who he was and he needed to be happy with himself before he can be happy with me. We've talked pretty much everyday since the break up. I dont know what to do because when I see him, it hurts all over again knowing I cant be with him, but I dont want to lose him. Should I stop talking to him for a few weeks? Should I try to be his friend even though its going to be really hard for me? I'm so confused and hurt.

2007-11-27 09:18:51 · 19 answers · asked by Firefly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-27 09:16:13 · 9 answers · asked by Tyler B 1 in Singles & Dating

Does that mean anything? Is that him getting it out there so I can get the hint he is thinking of askig to marry me?

My boyfriend will bring it up sometime out of the blue when we are together and kids.

He is in the Military, and he knows that I was looking for a serious relationship when we first met so he's aware of what I want.

I had mentioned recentley that I was in love with him and he didn't want to talk about through IM he said he wanted to talk about it when we are together.

So what do you think people?

2007-11-27 09:15:34 · 10 answers · asked by Sweetest One 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my boyfriend for two years and we are very happy. We are moving in together in May and always talk about our future and how we would like to get married. But lately I have felt more strongly about it. All my friends are getting married and I feel like I'm the last one out. Yet I can't seem to find a reason why he won't purpose. I feel in my heart that its the right time and I want to get married. And he says he does too. So why am I still just a girlfriend??? Please help!

2007-11-27 09:15:04 · 20 answers · asked by wanted_sparkels 1 in Marriage & Divorce