she aint my gf or anything. but i asked her out a month ago and she rejected me. i wished her well in her life. we did not communicate until today when she sent me this weird message:
'oh my god im so bored!!!!!!!!!!!!!'
i replied with 'i know what you mean im bored!! too'
is that a stupid reply?
she did not reply.
is she using me for company? what should a MAN do?
2007-11-27 09:32:12 · 12 answers · asked by dave 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she's using u for company, if your that bored just talk to her but dont take it too seriously
2007-11-27 09:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Stan Gemini 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She writing you because she's bored and your her last option of entertainment...trust me.
You could still talk to her...but don't be too open or hype to talk to her. Cause as soon as someone "better" comes along, she'll drop your convo for someone else.
Be short in your responses but not rude. Your reply was fine, but don't send another one. If she messages you out of the blue again, ignore it. Let her know she's not top priority.
But if she truly starts liking you and tells you...then don't play any games... Good Luck
2007-11-27 17:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Bronze Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were to do this, like me being the girl. I would have done this just to make me feel good. I mean I would send the message to remind you I still exist just because you have feelings for this girl doesn't mean you should beg her, there are many other girls who would love to have you as their man, don't go out looking for love let love find you. Maybe you should ask her why she is sending you messages and not replying yours!
2007-11-27 17:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by Chicana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might just like you as a friend for now, but if she talks to you at school then she probably isnt using you! She maybe having second thoughts and is trying to fix things! Give it time to see what happens!
2007-11-27 17:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by C C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude but it sounds like she's stringing you along...a lot of women like to do this to men, for attention or just out of boredom..she's trying to see if she can have you when she wants you...I say don't go for it, or even ask her what's really goin on? You deserve to know, after all, you said you're a good guy.
2007-11-27 17:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by godizgood87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably doing you bogus but if you work on your style or how u dress, haircut or braids n manners towards others you would definetly have gurls wanting 2 be with you. Dont stick on just one gurl in particu;ar UNLESS you really like her, if not dont stay around, she'z not going 2 be your wifey so move on..........
2007-11-27 17:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by LovetheSkinYourIN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea she just used u to waste time. Get over her. If she tries to talk to you again DONT reply back. Hope things get better w/ u and another gal
2007-11-27 17:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well It seems to me that this girl either wants to be just friends, or she needed someone to talk to and she thought of you, or there was no one else to talk to so she contacted you. This girl is deff. not worth your time if she only contacts you when she feels like it. I think you should move on and find someone who wants you attention all the time.
2007-11-27 17:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by Pinks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh may be. You should have been like hey wanna hang out. If she was like well umm I dont know....yeah chances are she was just usin you for company.
2007-11-27 17:36:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make the mistake of taking the bait.
2007-11-27 17:35:52 · answer #10 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋