he's great, but not a good kisser...too much saliva, and he sort of presses too hard into me so i cant move my head and he doesnt move his..its just uncomfortable.
been together a while and ive never said anything, so how can i go about it now...cos i really want to enjoy kissing him.
2007-11-27 09:27:45 · 10 answers · asked by spdy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him what you just wrote. In a relationship you have to be open, don't be mean or really blunt though. Tell him how you want it but dont make it sound like you dont like his kisses or that'll hurt his pride. The more he knows how to make you happier, the happier you'll be.
2007-11-27 09:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by Highwind 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start off with small kisses and work your way up to making out.
[ a good excuse is that you want to take things slow. ]
if there's too much saliva close your mouth a little more -
it'll be tough for him to get so much tongue in.
instead of him pushing up against you.
face him and push ever so gently.
Move your head a little bit. switch sides occasionaly.
and he'll pry get the idea on what to do.
for more information buy the latest Seventeen edition.
they have great tips for boyfriends that are bad kissers.
Hope this helps.
2007-11-27 17:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, you didn't say how long you've been together so I'm not sure how he'd handle you just coming out and telling him what you like. But that's usually the best approach. Try this: Say, "Hang on, keep you head still a minute" then kiss him lightly for a whole minute while he kind of just sits there. Then tell him how soft his lips are and how you love to be kissed just like that. Then ask him to try it and tell him how awesome it is and how you wish he always kissed you just like that.
Good luck...kissing is one of my favorite things to do and if it's bad or awkward, well, thats just no fun at all.
2007-11-27 17:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by sugar321pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last girl I met who was a terrible kisser I stopped seeing. Hard to fix.
2007-11-27 17:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by Lase 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know you guys have been together awhile but you have got to tell him how you feel about his kissing. Because how is he going to know if you don' t tell him. Maybe you should say, "When we kiss sometimes it uncomfortable for me "and then tell him how it is uncomfortable and he will try to make more comfortable for you. And you said,"He's great", he will understand.
2007-11-27 17:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by Hermesha M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore all these people telling you to dump him. Rather just take control over things when you are kissing. Like take his face and say gently no, do it like THIS and
SHOW him how its done. This has worked everytime for me.
He probably just needs practice
2007-11-27 17:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by starryeyed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I don't know...either you've got talent or you don't.
Maybe tell him to be a little less enthusiastic and slow down.
Wonder how he'll do "below the equator"...
2007-11-27 17:31:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him, but be very sensitive about it. or maybe make a game out of it, but he needs to know how you feel.
2007-11-27 17:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by sneakymonica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want to try a new type of kiss or something!
2007-11-27 17:30:56 · answer #9 · answered by BrittBritt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
" not like this..." ( example )
" like this...." ( example )
"Now, let's practice, until it's right......"
2007-11-27 17:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋