I wrote a question a couple weeks ago about how I should dill with the fact that my kids where going crazy and taking me with them this is not an everyday thing so I was stressed and asked how other dill with it. Well I got responses like your a bad mother etc. Well I have been at home from the day they were born I get up at the crack of dawn to make breakfast everyday take my boys to school so they don't have to ride the bus go to all school functions and volunteer I have my 2 yr old at home that I spend all day with I feed,bath,dress and love everyone of my kids have never pawned them off on anyone. So how come It makes me a bad mother because I got stressed one day and asked if any one else has the same problem if so how they dealt with it? It's funny I see questions involving ppl doing drugs around their kids and have sex with stranger and kids catching them and they don't get as many your a bad mother as I did for my I'm going crazy question I find this sad don't you?
2007-11-27 09:25:51 · 6 answers · asked by mommym00n 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I do have a husband he work 6-5 all day someone has to make money to pay for everything but yes he does come home and help me get the kids ready for bad and takes a great deal of the load off me on the weekends.
2007-11-27 09:39:25 · update #1
everybody has stressed days. as long as you don't take it out on your kids, i don't see anything wrong with it. you are obviously very devoted to your children and that in itself can be a stressful job, especially since you have more than one kid. keep in mind that some people on the internet tend to say whatever they want without considering other people's feelings.
2007-11-27 09:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by Lew97531 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Odds are,it was probably how you wrote the question that set people off.I would not worry about it too bad.You know in your heart what is right for your family,and you were just blowing off stress.Don't fret,although things do sound off here.I missed the previous post you had,but it sounds like you have your priorities straight.People like to jump all over others just because they can.You are being a normal parent of young kids,and it's natural that your going to feel like pulling your hair out at times.
2007-11-27 09:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a husband there lady.
What kind of mother has a bunch of kids with no man to raise them?Its a DIFFERENT story if you are widowed.
However to help RELIEVE your stress, INVOLVE some other relatives, like a grandmother, aunt uncle to HELP you sometimes.
Holding all that stress in isnt going to help your kids OR you.
As far as riding the bus, it won't kill them if there are any adults on the bus they will make everyone behave and if there isnt, mention it to the principal.
2007-11-27 09:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
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2016-09-30 06:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by quellette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree
you work hard and you are stressed out naturally
i think that the people who have no stress are the bad parents it is only natural to worry and work work work
i give you my respect and applause
2007-11-27 09:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by sport 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
welcome to motherhood : ) my mommy still does that for me!!!
be happy and grateful that you have children!! dont get sad get glad!!!! i would go chase some butterflies before they start chasing you
2007-11-27 09:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋