I'm a young mommy of a 9 month old baby girl living with the inlaws and i totally hate them! Is there any young mommy like me out there wanting to get out and about??
2007-11-27 10:29:50 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They are obviously putting a roof over your and your child head. Even if you hate them so much at least show them some respect. Your husband should provide a house for you if he can't then you can either stay and keep quiet or go to your folks. But if you leave him do not make excuses if things turn sour.
2007-11-27 10:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by caliguy_30 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Inlaws are really inconvienent to anyone...but living with them makes it ten times worse. On top of that being young and living with them makes them sometimes think they're parents to your child or parents to you.
I was in that situation for a few months but we quickly got out (we were forced out). My suggestion to you is to try to be independent and not live with parents (especially not live with inlaws) because often times it can end up going negatively for yourself and your child. At a young age and as a parent it is best to show yourself and others around you that you can be a PARENT and not still a child. It's not always the easiest thing to do but if our family can do it, any one can, no matter how impossible the situation.
2007-11-27 18:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by Hawai'i 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a young mother who's living with my in laws too, but it's the total opposite, I love them. Tell you the truth, I didn't like it at first, but I learned that you can't be full of so much hate in your heart especially when they are the grandparents of your child. So, I say what ever problems you have with your in laws try to work it out, beacuse you are with their son and you have their grandaughter too...
2007-11-27 18:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by SaMMy GurL 24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was a young mommy once living with in-laws. It depends why you hate them, but just think of this, are you ready to go on your own? Why don't you just thank them for letting you live with them and make your self pleasant to them? You are not their responsibility, you and your daughter are your partners solely responsibility.
If it's because you don't follow their rules you hate them, well tough on you. Everywhere you go, you have to follow rules and regulations.
2007-11-27 18:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mother of three 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't your husband have a place of his own?If he is old enough to make a baby he should have a job,car, home and able to take care of a wife and all the kids he can afford to make.
It isnt your in laws fault hon that you have to live there.Be mad at the one responsible for your situation.
2007-11-27 18:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't hate my in-laws, but I would not want to live with them! Actually, I love them... but I still wouldn't want to live with them. Instead of hating, work on moving out on your own. Plenty of people do it, and you can, too. You and your husband need to set a common goal and work as a team.
2007-11-27 18:42:38 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy Ego 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beggars cant be choosers. Get used to it. You made the bed, now sleep in it.
2007-11-27 19:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋