Hey guys. Im about to turn 22 and i've been on a few dates but im still a virgin and plan to be one until i get a ring. I always thought it was a good thing but now it seems like the second a guy finds that out i either become boring or a challenge. Mabye that's me being paranoid so i'm asking the guys out there...would you think twice about dating a girl you knew you couldn't have sex with?
2007-11-27 10:09:09 · 6 answers · asked by blakeygirl42 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a female and would not date a guy who thought this way, not because of the sex, but because my values would be so much different that we would probably not be compatible. You just need to find a guy that values virginity as much as you do. It will probably be a difficult find, but if it is that important to you then keep looking
2007-11-27 10:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by Snarf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy and I would not think twice about accepting a date from a woman, who didn't want to take it to sex. Every date and hookup shouldn't always involve sex anyways.
Just for reference, would you have other forms of physical affection with the guys like making out?
2007-11-30 11:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sirius70 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, yes they do. No matter what they say: "sure I'll respect you".............don't believe it! As guys grow up, the desire is there to find the girl for "right now", not Ms. Right.
But when the time comes for finding THE ONE woman he wants to take home to meet his parents..........he wants a woman he can respect and cherish. Will that be the "community chest" or the one woman who says she wants HIM to be her first, and ONLY man???
Good Luck.
2007-11-27 10:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by redheadedstepchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually i would not date a virgin if i knew --- and its got nothing to do with not getting sex --- im too old to get involved with someone that young --- emotionally and intellectually more than physical age ---- enjoy
2007-11-27 10:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. It shouldn't matter to him. And if it does, than he's not the right guy for you. He should date you and like you for who you are.
2007-11-27 10:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be different but I would not buy a car with out test driving it.
2007-11-27 10:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by bored_n_desert 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋