There's a very strong vibe of deciet that my fiance is obliviously sending me. He's so wrapped up w/ his own adgenda little clues keep slipping out. Its like a repeticious pattern. One week he's happy to be around then the next week he's m.i.a. When I confront him it just makes things worse. I've tried everything in the book. And only got better temporarily. Its like switch back & forth from best friends to strangers accordingly to his moods. Whats up with that? I know i'm better off w/out him & ready to soon but I feel accountable for his actions. Like I'm failing & need to keep trying harder or smarter each time. Any leads on this? By physically confirming my gut feelings I will be able to move on. But how can I without making a fool of myself?
2007-11-27 10:08:31 · 2 answers · asked by lovie808 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yup call off the wedding and find a guy that deserves your respect and love this guy sounds like a chump you deserve better. You are never going to change his ways if he is like this now he will be like this five years from now. Youb must just tell him that he is not the person you thought he was and you cannot see yourslef spending the rest of your life with him.
That he is different from week to week and that you need someone that is a lot more in touch with his emotions and knows how to treat the person he is with.
You have basically said you are ready to call it quits so as "Nike would say just do it".
God Bless and Best Wishes.
2007-11-27 11:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't proceed withthe wedding if you are 100% sure that he is faithful. If you want to be sure, then, investigate. Be more mindfuf of his activities. Visit him unexpetedly once in a while so that you will know what's he doing when you are not around.
2007-11-27 22:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by dol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋