friend help/advice?

Question

i'm a girl, and i have this friend. We met in grade 5 and we kinda got closer every year. now im in gr8 and she started the year being really bitchy and a gossiper like always
me and my freinds faught with her a month ago because she was being bitchy and glaring at us for NO REASON WAT SO EVER so we like ingnored her and stuff.
and then we kinda talked with her and she started to be like REALLY nice and we all were friends again.
but now she has this boyfriend
who is my really good friend{ i dont like him}
and like she doesnt act like her self at all around him
and shes like really quiet around him
and stuff but we all no that really she is the biggest ***** EVER!
shes started to be kinda biotchy again and giving random glares
and she just doesnt act like i think a real friend should act.
she is such a spazz too!!!!!
she gets reallly annoying
sometimes i think she is a real friend, but other times i really dont.
so ya, i dont know what to do.. HELP=]

that ***** is biotch btw.
hehe
OHHH ya and with her boyfriend..
me and him have been friends sinnce the begginning of the year. and until last week when they started dating.. she had never talked to him before and she was like pretty much jelous that i was friends with him becuz she liked him.. but Annyways...
whenever she is standing beside her and i come up and talk to him. she alwauys gives me the same kinda stop-talking-to-my-boyfriend- look.
but really, i think that if they are dating .. that i can still talk to him and act around him like i always have..
but yaa.

but the thing is , is that i AM nice to her..
me and my friends try to be as nice to her as we possibly can now.
i just wanted some help.

Answer 1

You sound really immature and you are creating unneccessary drama. Just leave her alone! If shes going to treat you like this, why be her friend? Let her date your friend. There is nothing you can do about this. So, she acts different around him, they're dating and shes probably just alittle nervous. It's really immature to be friends on and off and get into stupid arguments, just stop being friends. You seem to talk about her behind her back anyways.

Honestly, I don't want to be mean right now but I went through so much drama in the middle school and it really creates a lot of stress. Just have fun!

Good luck.

Answer 2

If you are really her friend let her know you are not interested in the boy, but are friends with him, and no threat to her. There is no reason the three of you can't be friends.

Be aware that there are a lot of women who change when they are arround guys. I had a friend whose voice actually got softer, more sexy when a guy was around. I knew her for a long time before I was alone with her long enough to catch the change when a guy was around. And it didn't have to be a guy she was interested in, teachers, other people's boyfriends, just any guy. She also would get giggely, and less intelligent. We eventually drifted apart, and moved to different parts of the state.

Answer 3

It sounds like you are not the good friend to her. Here you are talking about who is supposed to be your friend. You act like you are her friend and you talk behind her back.
Maybe it is better to let her find new buddies to hang out with.

Answer 4

well i am a guy and i go 2 high skool i think the guy she is goin out wit likes how she acys around him so she juz keeps actin like that so she can stay wit him

Answer 5

JUST TELL HERR STOP ACTIN LIKE A BIOTH AND BE THE REAL U NOT THE FAKE ONE TRYIN TO FIT IN. THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME I TRIED TO TELL HIM HES GOIN THE RONG WAY BUT HE DOSNT CARE SO SCREW HIM HE CAN SMOKE POT

GOOD LUCK

Answer 6

she sounds totally insincere, drop her as a friend, you
will be glad that you did.