I am a hispanic 28/m from Los Angeles and I am also best friends with a 20/f from Los Angeles but I am really in love with her. I already told her that I want something serious with her, but she says she only sees me as a brother. Next month she is flying to Kansas to meet this guy that she has been talking to for 7 months. She says that they have a lot in common, and she wants to see if they have the same chemistry once they meet in person. She says that if they get along, that she might end up in a serious relationship with him. She says that I am her best friend, but she still lets me hold her, and she also lets me rub her back, her legs and her feet. I tell her that I love her, and she smilles when I say that. What should I do? Is there any way I can win her over? I am really worried if she ends up with this guy. If any one has any suggestions, please let me know, because I just feel so depressed.
2007-11-27 10:12:32 · 4 answers · asked by jesse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think she's holding in in reserve in case her internet pal doesn't measure up. Don't contact her for a week or so. If she doesn't contact you forget it! Hard, but who needs torture?
Find a real woman!
2007-11-27 10:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a really nice guy, but she made it crystalclear
she only wants you as a friend.
also, the fact she told you she is flying to kansas tomeet this guy and it it clicksthere maybe a serious relationship, let her go.
accept the fact she will never be yours.
you can keep her as a friend if you insist, but i wouldn,t for
the situation gets you depressed. good luck.
2007-11-27 10:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awwwwww, dont get depressed, im sure if you love her you will shine to her, something is gonna happen and she'll end up with you....
2007-11-27 10:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sky D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just dont think so if thats wat she says
2007-11-27 10:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by !!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋