i came out of an emotionally abusive relationship a year ago. and i dont feel ready for another relationship but i love having affection and sex too.
i am having a sex buddy relationship with two guys, neither of them think we are boyfriend / girlfriend but one of them was talking about being in love with me the other day and the other says he wants to get serious soon. the guy i like most has been hurt and he said he wants time to heal and then go 'full on' with me.
what it comes down to, is i'm not sure what i'm doing. i enjoy my time with them, it's not just fun it's romantic too but i dont know when i'll be ready or what i want. what should i do?
2007-11-27 09:46:47 · 13 answers · asked by ROWAN S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they both know the situation as it is now.
2007-11-27 10:06:51 · update #1
Get out while you still can!
2007-11-27 09:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my heavens, so there is something wrong with this picture that u NEED 2 clear up, FAST!!!
1. u have TWO guys at once
2. They dont consider u boyfriend/girlfried, yet they wish to have SEX w/you?
3. 1 is hurt? WHAT???????
4. u were already in an emotionally abusive relationship yet this is going on?
5. WHAT DO U WANT IS TO SAY ABOUT THAT??????????
wow
2007-11-27 17:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by I-Love-My-Kitten-Boots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all two guys? I'm not judging u but come on...and i think you should just tell both of them how you feel and that you aren't ready for a relationship right now just friends with benefits
2007-11-27 17:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by Mzbee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the one that you like the most.
But it seems like he wants to take it a little slow, which is fine.
Just give it time.
It sounds like the one that you like the most likes you a lot too!
2007-11-27 17:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by 12345lalala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep having fun
2007-11-27 17:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out with the old, In with the new.
2007-11-27 17:50:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest... let them know your situation. If you keep it all secret it could end up blowing up in your face! and Noone wants that.
2007-11-27 17:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by brneyedgrrl80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them you need more time to heal then perferably choose ONE.
2007-11-27 17:49:12 · answer #8 · answered by Amee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a great question mabey if you post it on Yahoo! Answers you will get a response.
2007-11-27 17:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no sex b4 marriage is the best
save what you've got left
2007-11-27 17:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋