My boyfriend says he loves me and he calls me baby and stuff but every time another girl calls him he hangs up with me to talk to her! Should i break up with him or im i just being to jealous?
2007-11-27 10:06:14 · 44 answers · asked by ariel_kng 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've got very good reasons to break up with him. In a relationship, you always have to remember that the guy should put more time with you than to ANY other girl. You must first stop and think about why he talks to the girl. Maybe they're girls he flirts with? Girls he helps out [ie bloodrelated family]?. If he talks to them for obviously wrong reasons... then it's already evident where his loyalty to you lies. It's all up to you whether you want to take this kind of crap on a daily basis. Also, if he's making you feel jealous, you should stop and do something about that feeling and tell him about it. Jealousy is obviously the only thing you will feel, especially if your man hangs you up for another girl!!!
OMG!!
2007-11-27 13:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by tinybubbles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Need more details, like how old you two are, how long you have been together, who are the other girls, etc. If you are teenagers, then dumping as well as getting together rather quickly is the norm. If you are adults then I would say that just because he is talking to other girls does not give you reason to break up, UNLESS you have reason to believe that he is cheating on you. If your intuition says that he is then you should make it very clear to him that you're not having it and demand respect and priority in his life. Just because someone tells you that he loves you doesn't make it so. He has to show you, trust is earned. If he truly loves you then you will know by his actions and you won't feel insecure and if you do and you let him know and he doesn't change then his actions are definitely speaking louder than his words. Sorry, that's the best that I could do with what you gave. Blessings.
2007-11-27 10:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anita P 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is shopping . He could be calling all his girls babes . You have a right to be jealous, But jealouse is going to take you no where. You start shopping for a boy friend and see if he like it . My be you are not meant for him look for other options open. Sweet revenge is a good way so you dont feel down so much.if he dumps you.
2007-11-27 10:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by talarknhansum 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First find out who these girls are who call him, they could be a good friend who often ask his advice, or they could be as you think after your boyfriend. If he gets defensive, refuses to tell you and continues to do it, tell him what he's done to upset you and how it makes you feel. Also, try asking him to see it from your point of view if it was the other way round. If he carries on then show him the door. Good luck =]
2007-11-27 10:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
babe i would dump him i was in a relationship where the guy did that and i toke the rote of talking to him but that didnt help he just said am i not alowed friends now you are worth more than that may be itis ok and it is just friends he is talking to or maybe he is trying to make a point if you love him and want to be with him then i would do what he does to you and get lads to call you just dont worry about it do what is in your heart good luck and let us know what you decied to do
2007-11-27 10:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by katie f 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely
2007-11-27 10:08:17 · answer #6 · answered by Peter Cotton Tail 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its one thing to have other girls as friends, but another to be hanging up on your girlfriend to speak to anyone else.
Tell him how you feel and if he cares he'll be more considerate, if not, then dump him, he's not going to be worth it in the end anyway.
2007-11-27 10:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by zimba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're just being jealous. But if you don't like him doing that, you can just tell him. Otherwise you can arrange to have guys call you and you can hang up on him all the time, let him know what it feels like. He might think again then.
2007-11-27 10:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
there are 5 levels of girlfriends . does he call you w/ Short notice? in the middle of the nite? those are 4 & 5 he'll (or any other guy will treat you the way you let them , give this some serious thought.
2007-11-27 10:14:58 · answer #9 · answered by becvns@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a couple! Confront him about it! If he only continues to hurt you then you need to leave him. But dont flat out dump him without attempting to work together to see why he does this.
2007-11-27 10:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by Highwind 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋